I like men who are many years older than me, and I m afraid that my family won t agree, so what shou

It seems that you are the kind of girl who likes to be spoiled, as long as you think you can get happiness, you can choose. My father-in-law married my mother-in-law when he was in his 30s, and now my father-in-law is in his 60s, very loving and considerate of my mother-in-law, very happy. In fact, life is only a few decades, if you can really find your own happiness, it will not be in vain.

But don't be a man who is many years older than you, and you won't be happy.

A day is a day, a happy day is a day!

Let it be!

If the position of the parent in your heart is important, then choose to give up, if he is more important in your heart, then choose him, and it is up to you to weigh it.

See if he's worth the sacrifice.

You can be sure that you don't regret your choice.

If you think this love is worth it, just keep going!!

Sooner or later, your family will forgive you!!

Dizzy. Are all your age dead?

Free love, left and right for a lifetime, or find a pleasing one, family is also for your happiness, as long as you are happy, nothing is impossible.

What can I do, I'm an adult, and the man can support you, what are you afraid of? In the past, it was because I needed the support of my family, but now I have found someone I can rely on, and I am afraid of anything, and there is no problem in getting out, at least the man can be relied on.

The premise is a man you can rely on.

If you don't agree, that's inevitable, try to do your best to let the family know as much as possible about his and your ideas, after all, people's minds are always different, and you have to be considerate of each other.

I think, like me, you hate Xiao San, right? So, will you still be someone's junior and destroy other people's families?

Give it up! Don't be obsessed, there are more good men, maybe what you see at the moment, but if the other party is really a good man, it will not be involved with you; If the other party is not involved with you, it means that the other party is not a good bird and is not worth your liking at all! No matter what, you won't get results!

You have to think about it more, good and evil will be rewarded in the end. If you insist on destroying other people's families in the name of love today, then what if the merits are complete? That's just a momentary consummation, and in other days, other younger and more beautiful girls will still interfere in your marriage under the banner of love.

Put yourself in your shoes, if you get married, do you want someone else to intervene in your marriage? You don't want to, do you? No one wants someone to ruin their marriage, no one wants to!

Before, I saw a sentence that was very touching. Some people are used for love, some people are used for living, and some people are used for nostalgia for ......Roughly speaking, there will be a lot of people in your life, and their roles are different, and those people you think you can't give up are often not the ones who accompany you to the end.

You should give up! Everyone has the right to pursue love, but the premise is that this person has no lover and no marriage. If there is love and marriage, and you insist on destroying others for your own selfish desires, then this is your fault!

There are so many good men, why are you obsessed with him?

I suggest you go and see the wider sky, see the wider ocean, and climb the taller mountains. Then, when you come back, perhaps, you'll let go! Perhaps, you think how ridiculous your attachment was before!

People just have to look at a larger space to know how short-sighted and ridiculous their current vision is.

If you just unrequited love now and break this idea as soon as possible, it may just be a temporary fascination, and after a long time, you naturally don't like it so much, and he didn't say that he likes you very much, don't easily destroy yourself before figuring out your mind.

Although we now advocate free love, love knows no borders, age, height and even gender, but a man has a family, if he tells you that he also loves you, it means that he is not a responsible person, today he can abandon his family and children to be with you, tomorrow he can also abandon you and be with others.

Saying that he abandoned his wife and children to be with you may be the best result for you, and there is also a possibility that he is just playing with you at all, and he has no intention of being with you at all, saying that he loves you the most, who knows how many girls are saying the same thing with him? Is such a man worth entrusting for life? He probably won't give you a chance to give it a lifetime.

Nowadays, many marriages exist in name only, and both men and women, because they have children, are desperately trying to maintain a marriage that has long been broken, all for the sake of children.

This man can ignore the child, why do you think he is sincere to you?

Of course, you can test him, if you really want to be with you, let him divorce, no one wants to be the third party of the marriage, since you really love, there will always be people who sacrifice for love, you may be pointed out by thousands of people for him, he must also pay for you, love is mutual, not maintained by one person.

Many people may scold you for being a third party, but in my opinion, I will only think that this man is the most deserving, and in the case of having a family, he will also recruit bees and butterflies, if the marriage is really unhappy, you can get divorced, why ride a donkey to find a horse!

If he really divorces for you, he also hopes that you will consider carefully, is a man who has abandoned his wife really worthy of your love?

Then you should not meddle in other people's marriages, it is immoral and will cause harm to many people.

If it were me, I would definitely give up this kind of relationship, because after all, the other party has a family, and for moral reasons, I must not have anything to do with him. I will stop seeing him, and then expand my circle of friends, meet more people, and I believe that there will be better people waiting for me in front of me.

Leave him, you have been entangled in this kind of fruitless thing, and in the end it is yourself who hurts.

If you like him very much and he likes you, then work hard with him, first need to communicate well with your family, do your family's ideological work, and then find a way to make him be good to you and your family. It takes some time and sincerity. After a long time like this, I believe that my parents will slowly be satisfied when they see it.

If you really like it, stick to it The family will disagree for the time being, and they will forgive you after a long time.

The law in China is that marriage is free, unlike in the old society.

Even if your parents are against it, you can still get married.

However, if there is a problem in your marriage, please do not ask your parents for help, because it is your own fault, and you will bear the pain yourself.

--In general, if the people around you are against it.

Then it's better not to marry.

1.It's not a bad thing that a man is bigger than a woman, the key is that he is not mature.

2.The family doesn't agree because it doesn't guarantee your marriage, or you don't give them enough confidence that you've not been fooled or deceived.

3.Be sure to verify whether he is married, such a man is mature but at the same time dangerous.

4.You are smart in your relationship, don't blindly believe him, and wait until you have a certain life relationship or know his family before deciding. Marriage is a prudent matter, but it is necessary to associate wisely.

5.Family members can't care about you for a lifetime, the key for them to do this is to make you sober, it is a manifestation of love for you, and let you confirm whether the man really loves you and whether you can be truly happy. The key is that you can decide your future and life.

How good is the relationship? The family is afraid of discord in the future.

I think as long as you like it, you can do it.

Think for yourself! Don't love blindly.