What should I do if three people love each other?

Calm down and think about your current heart. The responsibility for this time really wasn't yours at first, but it was your hesitant attitude that led to the current situation. When you and your boyfriend don't get along, the senior not only doesn't persuade you to reconcile, but also takes the opportunity to show his heart and pull you to the brink of breaking up.

Although most people change to seniors or do that, this is obviously not very rational thing. What you did at that time can be said to be difficult to do. It's best to show your senior in this first paragraph, otherwise he doesn't know that he is wrong, of course it will be very painful.

In short, your senior did bad things with good intentions, and he didn't know about it.

Since it's not your fault, then whatever choice you make, you're right. Now that you like your current boyfriend instead of your senior, you should still give a clear answer, and the long pain is better than the short one. My attitude towards feelings is that timing is everything, and it will never come again.

People who don't grasp the opportunity can't feel unfair or anything just because they have excellent conditions.

I am a little disgusted by your mother's attitude, which is standard utilitarianism. Although it is true that she is good to her children, she does not take into account the most basic principle of feelings - loyalty and uniqueness, and this attitude simply adds fuel to the fire. Don't defend your mother, landlord, I'm a person who rarely utters such a disgusting word.

Having said so much, in short, it is the senior's fault. The first is to miss the emotional opportunity, the second is to add fuel to the fire when you and your boyfriend have a relationship crack, and the third is not to understand your feelings and think that you have real feelings for him now. Emotionally innocent, but intellectually wrong.

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Writing this, it must be painful for you to watch. But I think it's for seniors and your mother. Let's continue to get along with my current boyfriend. I am writing this, in the hope of defending you.

PS: What you're afraid of now is that what you're doing will cause dissatisfaction among your seniors. Don't be afraid, I'm writing this to show that I'm firmly on your side.

You can print out what I wrote and give it to your seniors. Seeing this, he should really think calmly about his actions. The senior is a very good person, but I would like to advise him:

Doing well doesn't necessarily mean doing it right.

Don't be afraid to hurt your senior, you have to say it ruthlessly, are you hurting him when he has more feelings for you after a long time? You say you're good to him now, and you want it to you and your boyfriend. Ruthless dim sum, the feelings of the three people are very tired.

For feelings, I think it's really too early for you to talk about who to choose, and now you may like it very much, but there is still a long way to go, don't circle yourself too early. Bi Jing: You are still a student, and you have not yet stepped into society. And you can't guarantee that your current love will be forever.

But if you really feel that you have identified someone now, then you should make it clear to the other person, and it is better not to drag the relationship into the mud, which will hurt even more.

Love what you love, think what you think, do what you should do, and happiness in your life is more important than face.

The landlord did not make a problem clear.

You only said that the first boy did not know about the ambiguous relationship between the girl and the second boy, so did the second boy know that there was an ambiguous relationship between the girl and the first boy?

If you don't know, it's unknowing, and the second boy's bold pursuit of happiness is right and moral.

However, if it is known, then there is no clear limit in the law, but it is absolutely not allowed in the moral category.

Let's talk about the situation of "knowing": 1. If the boy has a conscience, then to really do this thing is to betray his friend. Even if you catch it in the end, it will be very uncomfortable.

2. If this boy has no conscience and does not think much of betrayal, then I can tell you clearly that everything has karma, although the law can't control it, but God has eyes, and sooner or later one day (either in this life or in the next life) will be retributed.

If I am the second boy: 1. If you have a true love attitude, since you like this girl, you will wait silently until the relationship between the girl and the first boy is clear and there is no worries. When the time comes, it will be very calm.

2. If you have a playful attitude, then don't wait for this girl, and then find another one.

In short, friendship is a thing that has to be responsible. Whether it is love or friendship (there is a good feeling between men and women, it does not mean that it can be linked to the word "love"), after all, what must not be done is betrayal (in fact, the real betrayal, to put it bluntly, is to cut it first and then play it when others do not know.)