What role do you play in the friendship between the three of them?

It's normal to have a heart, I sometimes have more accounting, when three people meet, who will hug first, does she prefer another girl, in fact, the circle of friends of three people wants to be firm, not only any two people want to draw out the relationship is good, but also have their own division of labor, some people like to take the initiative to contact, some people are responsible for emotional guidance, some people are responsible for helping, you have something in common to draw two by two, whether it is a private chat between two people, or three people chatting together, there is a point to chat, Of course, the more important thing is to say it face-to-face if we are dissatisfied, we all dislike each other's shortcomings, and then we can complain to each other in the private chat between the two.

When two people have a conflict, the third person can reconcile from a more objective perspective to avoid a long cold war that will lead to a complete cooling of friendship and finally unhappy dissolution. (Prerequisite: The three people need to have a certain degree of tacit understanding, and the feelings of the three people should not be too unbalanced to the obvious rigid 2+1 model, otherwise, the two people will quarrel fiercely, and the triangle will easily become a line segment plus points.) ）

You should look for the friend who chatted with you, not a third party who is a friend, embarrass yourself, embarrass others, learn to quit, learn to fulfill, not only love, the same is true for friendship between girls, when your weight is far less than the other two people, don't struggle, because even if someone has a problem in nature, don't try to expose it, because girls themselves are not right for people, blindly joining and summing will only make yourself more embarrassed, grasp the proportion, rather than competing, it is better to retreat. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, you can.

To be honest, a man's friendship is not divided into two people, three people, one friend is not many, and two friends are not many. Men are prone to conflict, and it is not strange to quarrel and fight, but after the quarrel, they can be friends afterwards. There will be no touching blessing language when a man separates, and there will be no tearful scenes of hugging his head and crying, but no matter in **, we all hope that each other can live better.

We will all silently bless our brothers.

If the three of them are together every day, the girl's friendship will be more difficult to last, and it will inevitably be out of balance, but if you don't see each other often, sometimes the relationship will be stronger, and at this time you need someone who will take the initiative to contact friends, I am the role in the threesome, and I will always contact friends every once in a while.

The three of them should maintain the best relationship for a long time, no matter how they treat that person, they must be even-minded, treat them the same, and put a bowl of water on the table. Don't say anything like this, provoke the relationship between the three of them, and say this, what, and that in front of him, this is the worst, and this will make the other party contradict the most.

I'm a prep, girl, and now I'm experiencing a friendship of three people, I'm almost a month into school like this, the two of them are two-dimensional, I'm chasing stars, of course, the two of them have a common topic, and I can only listen silently, and then the current situation is, the two of them are chatting in the back, I wear headphones in front of me to play with my mobile phone, although we will break up at the end of the next semester, but I can't be a person at the moment, I just told them my thoughts in the past two days, But the first time they passed it, I just talked to a better girl privately.

The conversation of the three people is more interesting. Just like when you communicate, your ideas are not simply two-way channels, but can go through more collisions and look at problems from more perspectives, although it is just one more person, but this kind of small talk and nonsense always brings more inspiration.

If you want to maintain a permanent friendship all the time, all three of you must show a sincere heart to communicate and do things. People should have the right heart to heart when they are together, and when they encounter unavoidable things and requirements, don't quarrel, and think about it more in their own ways.

As the saying goes, "one person is not single, two people are companions, and three people are not happy", I think "three people are not happy", which is obviously aimed at three women. The girl knows best, but the most annoying thing is when there are three people, and suddenly the two of them whisper. "What are you talking about?

It's nothing. ”

Yes, but I will tell you from my own experience, don't believe in three-person friendship!

I had two girlfriends in the second semester of the fifth grade, and we were three friends, and we had a good time at first, and we often made appointments to play, but when the sixth grade was in the first book, things seemed to have changed.

During the summer vacation of fifth grade, my mom wouldn't let me go out, so they just got better and better during the summer vacation. When school started, they ignored me. Once, I made a joke on Xiao Fan, and she ignored me (Xiao Fan couldn't stand any jokes) and then on the third day of our cold war, I found another best friend, Xiao Fan and Xiao Zhu and their new best friend played together, and isolated me.

We used to wait for each other every day after school and then go home together. Now because Xiao Xu (their new best friend) is not on the way with them, they don't wait for me, every time I ask them why they don't wait for me, they all say: Forget, we thought you left early.

Their eyes were full of mockery and ridicule, but they just didn't want to wait for me. And I also believed that as long as I kept pleasing her, she would ignore me, but the truth immediately poured cold water on me.

Until the day before the online class, I was still currying favor with her, like a "licking dog". And since we started online classes, and now we have winter vacation, we have not paid attention to each other.

And every time we have a cold war, no matter who is wrong, I have to please her in the end! Comfort her! Why!!!

I've been hurt by her many times!! I....I already hated her!!

Yes, but it's hard to see.

For example: I have a good relationship with both of us, but when the three of us are together, I always treat one slightly better than the other. If one is good, the other will be unhappy, and in the end it will be your own fault.

The friendship of the three people is there, but it's really hard. You can try, if your friend still treats you the same as before, you don't have to worry about him too much; If your friend's attitude towards you has changed, then you can think about it. At the same time, don't be so stiff with other people, ignore what you don't like, and give others a worse impression.

Not everyone you know will become your friends. and your true confidant, and in the end, they will also become "enemies".

Yes, but very little.

I also had a three-person friendship where it was difficult to maintain a relationship, and between three people, there would always be two people who played better and ignored the feelings of the third person, and I would try to build that relationship, but I was really tired and broke up.

A person can also be wonderful, no need to deliberately fit in, interesting souls will attract each other, no one will be my haven, take your time, do yourself, do what you want to do, make friends you want to make, you can't deny the friendship of three people because of my ideas.

Of course there are, I have two friends, and we're fine, I'm like their big sister.

In fact, it seems that no matter how many friends there are, as long as they can get along happily and be more united together, then the friendship of several people can last forever. One more friend and one more road, everyone on the road of life can not be smooth sailing, it is inevitable to encounter many small problems, so one more friend will have one more idea, so that there will be more strength in solving difficulties.

I think the friendship between the three people can also be long-lasting, and the three people should also pay attention to ways and means when getting along, so that the friendship between each other can be better and better.

I think the friendship of the three people is also very good, and the friendship of the three people can get along very well, and this kind of friendship is also worth cherishing.

I think the friendship of three people is particularly fragile, and it is difficult to maintain such a friendship, so I don't like the friendship of three people very much.

Acceptance. When you suddenly have one more person around, the friendship psychology of three people, feeling awkward and unaccustomed, is a very normal thing. First of all, don't resist, accept new friends from the bottom of your heart, understand her character, goodness, and three views, and it is also a very happy thing to have a good friend who can chat and go shopping together.

2.Inclusive. No one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings and strengths, and the same is true for yourself, it's just that people tend to be easier to spot.

Ignore the shortcomings of others and ignore your own. So when we find some shortcomings in our new friends, on the premise that there are no major drawbacks, give a little more tolerance and understanding, and you will be much happier.

When you suddenly have one more person around, the friendship psychology of three people, feeling awkward and unaccustomed, is a very normal thing. First of all, don't resist, accept new friends from the bottom of your heart, understand her character, goodness, and three views, and it is also a very happy thing to have a good friend who can chat and go shopping together. 2.

Inclusive. No one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings and advantages, and the same is true for you, but people tend to be easier to find. Ignore the shortcomings of others and ignore your own.

So when we find some shortcomings in our new friends, on the premise that there are no major drawbacks, give a little more tolerance and understanding, and you will be much happier.

Normally we are together, but this afternoon she went out shopping and suddenly didn't call me.

You must know that it is fate that the people of Jindong Chongdao can be together. What's more, it's a friendship between three people. In the journey of life. You will find that friendship is the longest relationship. Don't be a little conflict. That's how they broke up. That's a pity.

No, without warning, the main thing was that one of them spoke and did things to answer me, and the other one was better with her.

Don't know what to do anymore.

How do you get along with your friends?

Is there a misunderstanding between you?

Let me tell you a fact first: if their emotional intelligence is really high, then they will not stay away from a good friend who has always had a good relationship.

If you want to share two points of view with you, you can refer to:

1. Between friends, it is necessary to allow the fact that the other party will also have new friends.

When a friend is estranged from you, it's not that your friend is really alienating you, it's that you're comparing yourself to your friends and new classmates. Do you think that introverted selves are not as good at social interaction as their friends, who are cheerful, talkative, and have high emotional intelligence? Therefore, when you and your friends are not in the same position, there will be a gap in your heart.

And at this time, another classmate with the same personality joined in, which increased your awareness of this gap? In fact, sometimes we feel that the other party has snubbed us and is far away from us, not because she doesn't regard us as friends, but as people, when we meet people with similar interests and personalities, we will definitely be happier. But that doesn't mean you've given up on your past friends.

2. The definition of the so-called high emotional intelligence should not be taken lightly.

You are still on campus, and you are relatively simple. High emotional intelligence is often understood as a cheerful personality that is able to speak well and attract people, and that's right, it's true. However, high emotional intelligence also makes people comfortable to get along with, does not hurt people, and will cherish the feelings of the people they meet.

Since you are friends, if she is really as you say, she has high emotional intelligence. Then I believe that she will not give up on you as a friend.

The friendship of three people, two of them are true love, one is an accident, and it is obvious that you are the accident, they have similar interests, tempers, and can talk better, you are more suitable to be an audience, and you may sometimes not be able to interject into their topic. It's inevitable that you will be a little lonely, but it's not your good friends who are alienating you, it's that you can't enter their communication circles.

Since they have high emotional intelligence, they are naturally very good at talking, it is natural for them to have a better relationship with each other, you can become friends with them, in fact, you should learn from them and integrate into them, they are not deliberately alienating you, but you are too introverted, and sometimes there are some things that are difficult to say with you, you should also be closer to them.

People like new things, so the reason why your friend is temporarily alienated from you is because he has just found a new friend, and when his enthusiasm passes, he will think of you again.

It's like when you get a new toy when you're a kid, there will always be two days when you want to play with the new toy and can't remember the old toy.

When it comes to personal friendship, there will always be a lot of things, and then I think the most important thing in these things is to work hard to make these things not happen. It is also the tolerance of each other.

If you feel that his feelings have faded and his face is not as healthy as before, you can directly hang ** and ask him, what is going on?