How to balance study life and love in college?

See if you put study and love on the top, the relationship between men and women in college... A leaf in the wind, no one knows where it will fall! Should it be a heads-up or tails-to-face landing.

I advise you not to take the current woman's affection too seriously, since you have arrived in college, you should grasp it, accept her when the emotional matter comes, and let her go when you leave. There is still a long way to go in life... There are many changes!

Love is very fragile. You have to build your love on a stable life!

Learning should be learned well, love should be taken into account, love can promote learning more, but you can't be trapped by love, there is a degree, love will not affect learning, the two are mutually reinforcing. In college life, you will not succeed without either, and you will regret it in the future.

Study hard, live seriously, and love naturally, this is balance, and there is no need to emphasize any aspect.

If you want to go to school with you, you can eat and study together.

If it's not a school, then you just have to contact him every day, and this mainly depends on the two people understanding each other.

There is no contradiction between studies and romance, but we must learn to grasp the priorities. Don't spend too much time in love, you have to understand that feelings are not all you have, whether it is a student stage or a work stage, you must have your own things to do: study, your own social circle, self-improvement and so on.

Because if you put all your energy and time into your relationship, we don't care if the outcome is good or bad, you're bound to lose something else. It's nothing more than two situations, the first one: you have paid a lot emotionally, and in the end, when the bamboo basket is empty, you find that the relationship is gone, you haven't studied well, or your circle of friends has faded or you have given up a lot of opportunities for self-improvement, anyway, it is not a good result.

The second type: in exchange for your relationship with him or her, but you invest too much energy and time, and you still lose a lot of things like the first case. So the best way to do it is:

You can be in love, but don't put all your time and energy on it, love is only a part of you, you have to continue to do what you should do, and you must be independent.

Today's society is an open society, for college students, the school has become a small society, and love not to mention, two people can be together, but in study and love we should control the time, not be able to put the time in love, we should grasp the time arrangement, should study well when the class should study, not only for themselves, but also we can drive the love object to study together, so that we not only get along for a longer time, there will also be progress in academics. But for students in long-distance relationships, we can take classes seriously when we are in class, and when we have a break, we can talk about how the two of us are doing today, and share the interesting things we have done or encountered with each other today, which not only deepens the relationship between the two, but also does not relax in study and work.

The relationship between love and study: First, we must strive to obtain love from the success of our studies and careers, enrich our spiritual life, and stimulate the potential of college students; The second is the resistance theory, which believes that there are more disadvantages than benefits, and the study at the university stage is intense, the time is limited, and the love takes time and energy, hinders learning, affects unity, and is not conducive to all-round development; The third is the equilibrium theory, which believes that the pros and cons are balanced.

In real life, there are two possibilities for the role of love on college students' studies and careers: one is that the relationship is properly handled, which can become a catalyst for study and career, making people study hard and their grades rise; The second is that the relationship is not handled properly, which may be distracting, waste time, mood swings, and declining grades.

Falling in love in college has both disadvantages and advantages. On the positive side, although falling in love takes up part of the time, it makes us more deeply aware of the preciousness of time like a white horse, so we can think about how to make the best use of time to be efficient and do twice the result with half the effort.

If you don't fall in love, how can your experience be made up for after you get out of the college campus? And they share resources and complement each other's advantages, so they will not fight at night to pass English Level 4. At least half of the results should be attributed to the TA who occupies the seat as scheduled each night.

It is a kind of close relationship between people, which will expose a person's shortcomings, and in getting along, they will let each other learn to modify themselves, tolerate others, and promote the growth of two people. Falling in love also contributes to the perfection of their personalities. And knowledge learning needs inspiration, and love is inspired'One of the best and helps develop interpersonal skills and much more.

I think we can only fall in love when we have spare energy to study, we come to college mainly to study, if we have not finished studying and fall in love at the same time, then there may be two ends of suffering, and life will be a mess at this time.

If you want to be a qualified college student, you need to pay attention to the following two points:

1. Balance your studies and life.

There is really a lot of free time in college, but there are still people who feel tired and lack of energy. Mainly because it is too easy for us to turn "pastime" into a kind of "consumption".

We cut our time into pieces every day, and after completing some necessary things, the rest of the time is not to read this book quietly, or listen to the classics, but to choose to swipe the mobile phone and play the glory of the king.

In fact, playing games is really a particularly big internal friction, and it requires no less concentration than you do in learning.

After all, eating, drinking and having fun is only a part of life, and learning and life are the whole.

As Mr. Lao Shu said: "This matter will not be successful, let alone others." ”

Since our current task is to study, let's do a good job in this part first, balance study and life, and don't lose big because of small things.

2. Have self-judgment and don't lose your "self".

There are many clubs and departments in the university, and some people have a more swinging personality and like to move with the wind, so they often have the behavior of following the trend, thinking that who is in our dormitory, which department or club has been reported, then I will also report it, but have you ever considered that department or club is really suitable for you?

I should come first, my judgment, my decision, my thinking is crucial. After all, you will only do what you feel like and what suits you.

Otherwise, I always feel like I am missing a few screws, and I can't do it loosely.

The reason is that I am really not active, but at first I couldn't stand the encouragement of my friends, so I ran to report it when I was hot, and then I felt that it was not suitable.

How to balance study and life, this should be balanced in combination with your own learning situation and goal planning, whether you will directly participate in work or graduate school after graduation, or go abroad for further study, whether you want to engage in management or scientific research in the future, or start your own business. These goals can all guide you to balance your studies and life.

First of all, learning is the first place, this is undoubted, many people walk into the university gate, relieved, high school is too hard, study for more than ten hours a day, and now finally admitted to college, leave your parents, liberated, relax your requirements, relax in learning, college is a bastard day, college is "general learning", this is not advisable, and even become a stumbling block to your life progress.

The professional knowledge of the university is very important for the future work, and it is necessary to cultivate learning into a lifelong habit, even after joining the work, it is necessary to continue to learn to ensure that the knowledge is updated and not eliminated by the society.

Therefore, first of all, you must do a good job in studying, and you can't be limited to not failing the subject, which is definitely not good, and everyone knows the seriousness of the failure, which will affect your studies, employment, and even longer-term life goals.

In the case of learning the basic knowledge, you can broaden your interest in learning, pay attention to the latest developments in your professional field, and master the latest knowledge in this field. In addition, you can take other courses that you are interested in.

Secondly, actively participate in activities, for the subject mentioned the problem of "dealing with interpersonal relationships", by participating in some activities at the university is a skill that can balance life. After all, university is a testing ground for people to participate in the society and work, and they need to exercise themselves in all aspects to prepare for entering the society and participating in work, and they cannot just bury their heads in professional learning or textbook knowledge learning.

Life is rich and colorful, while improving professional knowledge, we must continue to expand our horizons, increase our knowledge, exercise our abilities, cultivate ourselves into a comprehensive talent, and be invincible in the fierce social competition.

There are many university activities, such as class work, student union work, as well as various interest clubs and even public welfare activities. According to your personal situation, you can choose to participate in some activities you like, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, develop your own strengths, and make like-minded friends.

Balancing study and life is actually easy to say and difficult to say. Learning, it is necessary to listen carefully, consolidate after class, and understand the content, concepts, and questions that the teacher says, which may require you to listen carefully in class and not desert, self-study after class, and have a lot of spare time outside of reading books on weekends, you can eat, walk, chat, and play games with your classmates and roommates, as long as you feel fulfilled, learn knowledge, and feel happy is not idle.

Contemporary college students must focus on their studies and do not forget that they are students. You are a minister, a secretary of the Youth League, a class leader, and so on in the university, but you must not forget that you have always been a student. Isn't the most important task for students to study?

When you feel that your work has seriously affected your studies, then you have to make a trade-off, and don't regret it until you end up failing the course.

When you are in college, you should plan your life reasonably, stipulate when you are studying, and when you can relax and have fun.

Study hard when it's time to study, relax and entertain when it's time to play, focus on your life, and don't compare.

When you are in college, you also have to study hard, accept the school's arrangement, just go to class step by step, and you can live a good life after completing the task.

When it's time to study, you should study hard, and when it's time to play, you can relax and have fun, focus on your own ideas, and don't compare yourself with others.

We are self-taught in terms of entertainment, and we need a high degree of self-discipline in learning. So in this regard, we should make a schedule for ourselves, and maintain a habit, let the habit urge us, and then we don't have to force ourselves to study so hard all the time. <>

First of all, in terms of learning, we should give ourselves a goal and a schedule. The goal is how often we have to get this certificate if we want to get it. And then to refine how long I need to spend on this aspect every day.

If the daily course changes a lot, and there is no class every day and the class is full every day, then we can calculate it in weeks, which will be more reasonable.

In addition to the research aspect, more importantly, in terms of our own professional knowledge learning, here we can basically keep up with the progress. If that's not enough, you can expand it yourself. This time can also be planned on a weekly basis, ensuring that the average time spent on these aspects is not less than two hours a day, which is 14 hours a week.

Then refine these times, so that those days without classes are a few hours longer, and those days with classes are a few hours less. In the long run, after two or three weeks, we will gradually get used to these arrangements, and we will learn on our own.

And for entertainment, we can add more clubs. Or you and your roommates organize a few trips to the city or other places, whether it's a short distance or a long distance, there are certain benefits. We can also participate in some activities and competitions, which can also effectively enrich our campus life. <>

In particular, the entertainment in the club is relatively rich, and we don't need to organize it. They already have a lot of experience, and almost every class has organized quite a lot of events. So they have a lot of games to play, and when a large number of people participate in the activities, it will be more lively, so there will be more fun to get out of it.

There is no conflict between university study and entertainment, but there must be a principle, there must be a degree, you can't use all your time and energy on entertainment, of course, you can't use all of it on studying, in addition to studying or when you are tired of studying, you can completely through physical exercise or cultivate your own interests and hobbies, so that you can become particularly fulfilling.

When studying, you must take it very seriously, and when you are tired of studying or on holidays, you can relax your body and mind and do something more meaningful to relax yourself.