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Although I have never experienced a long period of time alone, I think it must be a wonderful feeling, and although it is lonely, it has unprecedented freedom. It is a very good option compared to long-term group living.
People who live alone for a long time can have unprecedented freedom, because everyone who lives alone can do whatever they want in this private space. You don't have to think about the feelings of others, and you don't have to think about whether it will affect others, and of course this does not include making a lot of noise and causing dissatisfaction among the people upstairs and downstairs. The latter is about morality.
People who live alone for a long time can express their true feelings in their own rooms, and when we get along with others, we will have more or less concerns because of different personal habits, while people who live alone do not need to think about these.
A person who has lived alone for a long time must be a quiet person. They always prefer a quiet environment where they live alone and are reluctant to be disturbed by outside things. They have a quiet heart, and only when they are alone, can they listen to their inner voice.
On the contrary, even if they are placed in the crowd, they will feel out of place in the crowd. People who live alone for a long time will rely more on this quiet environment and enjoy the carnival of being alone in this kind of solitary atmosphere.
However, people who live alone for a long time occasionally feel very lonely. Because there has been no one around me who can communicate with him anytime and anywhere for a long time, there are too many words in my heart, but no one has to tell them. When they are lonely, they yearn for a group life, but this thought is only a thought.
People in the world feel lonely, even in a communal atmosphere. No one can escape loneliness. This feeling of loneliness is even momentary, but it is real.
So from that point of view, there's nothing about loneliness. And those who can live alone for a long time are bound to be people who can endure loneliness.
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Living alone for a long time, the biggest feeling should be loneliness, I have had the experience of living alone for more than half a year, and finally I feel that I am about to be depressed. At that time, when I came home every day, the huge house was empty, and I ate: either I didn't eat in the morning, or I bought it outside; There is time to do something at noon, and most of the time to eat fast food or the unit canteen; In the evening, you either eat fruit or order noodles, or you don't eat it, in short, how simple and how to eat.
In addition to work, the rest of the time is to play with mobile phones, surf the Internet, read books, and feel so lonely during those days, no one speaks, and no one cares if you eat or not, sick or not? Absolute freedom, however, is too lonely all the time, I feel like I am about to go crazy, until my mother comes back, there is a voice in the house and life is no longer improvised, can be regarded as getting rid of the deep experience of loneliness and loneliness. People are social animals, they are afraid of loneliness and loneliness, and living alone for a long time is not good for body and mind, so it is better not to live alone than to live alone.
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I haven't tried to live alone for a long time, and it may feel better for a short time. Due to work, my husband and I have lived together for a long time, and we are basically inseparable. However, sometimes I will leave for a short time because of some things, and I feel like I am in a trance, as if I have no master, I feel lonely and lonely, and sometimes I almost make mistakes in my work (of course, my work is not to make any mistakes).
When cooking, it is not easy to cook with little rice, only one pot is cooked; What is heard when eating is the chewing sound of the upper and lower teeth; When I walked, I heard footsteps in a trance; The creaking sound of insects in my ears when I sleep. In a word, I don't sleep well, I don't eat well, and I am groggy and unsettled. That's the experience.
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In fact, it is not lonely at all, it may be that he has a quiet personality. Every day when I get home, I open my favorite **. Furnish the house the way you like.
Invite as many friends as you want. Everything in the home can be configured. As long as you like, you can do whatever you want at home.
is not affected by others, in fact, it is not lonely, because occasionally when I feel sang, I will chat with my good friend**. Regular with family every weekend**. I like the feeling of being at ease, and if I had been younger, I might have liked to live alone for a few years.
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I'm 23 years old and single until now! This is very bad! At first, I felt that being single was free and unrestrained.
Later, I got used to being alone! The scariest thing is habit! Don't run out every day like you used to and actively participate in social activities!
The friends in the mobile phone are also slowly not contacting, and the mobile phone rarely rings. I also began to slowly lose active interest in the opposite sex, and I was too lazy to intersect. Get used to going to work alone, cooking, getting off work, studying, working, relaxing, etc.
It's scary to get used to being single! If you can, I hope you will fall in love as soon as possible, get married, and start a family! Family is a burden, a trouble, and a trouble.
But the family is even sweeter, happy, and home! Being single is not easy, nor is it simple, and it is not free! People who like to be single, used to being single, single cancer!
Two words can describe "selfish"!
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I lived alone outside the school in the second semester of my junior year of high school, plus there were a lot of girls in the liberal arts class, I didn't like to be with them, and I basically didn't go home on weekends, I rarely spoke for a long time, and I would cry alone for some reason, and then I felt that this was not good, and slowly communicated more with my surroundings, there was a kind of loneliness and fear that I really couldn't describe, I had to put the chair behind the door when I went to bed at night, and I didn't dare to go out to the toilet at night, and now I don't want to be too far away from home in college, Because I was afraid to live alone, and now that I think about it, I was also bold at the time, and a girl lived alone outside.
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A person's life, as long as you find the joy of life, it is comfortable! People are social animals and can't avoid loneliness, so it's very contradictory! A solitary pleasure may be another state of life!
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Become more and more cautious, will not order takeout, courier will not write to the house number, anything with its own information is habitually destroyed, and the first thing that comes to mind when someone accostes is **, or someone who has a bad intention. Or go out.
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What is it like for a couple to live apart for a long time? Listen to the personal experience of this netizen, I really want to!
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It's quiet, sometimes enjoyable, sometimes anxious.
In recent years, there have been more and more empty nesters and elderly people living alone, and how to make these elderly people "rely on and support the elderly" has become a social problem. The next step will be to combine the work of community care and home care to study the establishment of a long-term mechanism to care for and help the empty nest and the elderly living alone.
The function of family care for the elderly is increasingly weakened, and the original support function of the elderly undertaken by the family has shifted to social pension services, and the elderly living alone have become a social problem and have attracted much attention.
Characteristics: 1. Among the elderly living alone, the ratio of men and women is unbalanced.
2. The imbalance between urban and rural areas in child support. There are obvious differences between urban and rural residents in the concept of supporting the elderly, and the imbalance is prominent.
3. The problem of difficult medical treatment has become the biggest worry for the elderly living alone. In addition to those who retire and enjoy medical insurance, it is difficult to see a doctor, expensive to see a doctor, and their children cannot afford it. As they get older, their health is getting worse and worse, most of them are riddled with diseases, and there is no medical insurance, although there is cooperative medical care, but the reimbursement is very small, and they have no money for medical treatment when they are seriously ill, which makes them very worried.
4. Lack of spiritual and cultural life. Whether it is the elderly living alone in urban areas or the elderly living alone in rural areas, spiritual and cultural activities are relatively scarce, and the elderly in rural areas have almost no cultural and sports activities, and are relatively empty spiritually and lack comfort.
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Living alone for life is a very special state of life. For some, it's a choice, but it can also be a sign of self-preservation or social fear. For others, it's a last resort because they don't get a partner they like or need.
In any case, this way of life must be self-contemplated and adapted in order to attain a sense of self-satisfaction and happiness.
First of all, being alone allows a person to have more time and space to think and reflect on their own life. In the increasingly fast-paced modern society, solitude allows people to temporarily disconnect from the hustle and bustle of daily life, away from the pressures of work and socializing, so that they can better listen to their inner voice and think about their own values and life goals. Humans need time to think, and this can be a great option for people who are going through precarious situations.
Secondly, solitude can also lead to a broader, freer, and more colorful life experience. A person can do exactly what he wants without being limited by another person's expectations or requirements. She can do what she wants, go on a solo tour, go to another place to eat, or go to a legendary show that interests her.
This freedom makes people feel more comfortable and free, and it also reduces the stress of life to some extent.
Finally, being alone doesn't have to be the same as being alone. Solitude may be a self-preservation strategy that allows people to slowly heal their wounds in their own time and space and build healthier relationship change patterns. Alone time also gives people more opportunities to seek out new social opportunities, meet more people, and make new social networks and human connections for themselves.
In the days when modern society is developing so rapidly, more self-exploration and understanding is the only way for a person's personal growth and success.
In conclusion, there is nothing wrong with living a person's life. Whether it is a personal pursuit or an external environmental influence, this is a new life experience that we need to adapt to and pursue. Of course, we can seek new life experiences and happiness in this independent lifestyle.
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I don't, this feeling is not good at all, because a person who has been living in a stupid room for a long time is more lonely, and every day after going home, only Zichen accompanies himself and everything needs to be done by himself, and after encountering grievances, he can only bear the consequences by himself, and he can only find a way by himself, which is very helpless.
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I've had such an experience, I wasn't particularly used to it at first, and I was a little scared, but after a long time, I felt that living alone was really very comfortable, and it was very free, and I was very happy to do what I wanted to do.
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I've had the experience of living alone, and it's actually a good experience, it makes a person more relaxed.
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I've had the experience of living alone for a long time, which is painful and can seem very lonely.
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From the point of view of social psychology and personal experience, the question of whether a person is suitable to live alone for the rest of his life is a very complex issue that requires a variety of factors to consider.
For an individual, whether a person is suitable to live alone for a lifetime depends on various factors such as the individual's life background, personality traits, life needs, and the surrounding social environment. Some people may be better suited to living alone, while others are better suited to living with others. In addition, people's life values and goals are also different, some people may prefer to pursue a stable and peaceful lifestyle, while others are more willing to take risks and explore new possibilities.
From a social point of view, as society evolves and people's lifestyles change, people's attitudes towards living alone and with others are also changing. In today's world, there are many people who think that although living with others can bring some convenience and happiness, there are also some problems, such as social pressure, loneliness, etc. Living alone can better meet the needs and values of the individual, and at the same time, it can also better develop the individual's potential and creativity.
Therefore, for the question of whether a person is suitable to live alone for a lifetime, we need to consider multiple factors, including the individual's life background, personality traits, life needs, and the surrounding social environment, etc., rather than simply affirming or denying. At the same time, we need to respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, and encourage people to explore and try new possibilities to achieve their own values and goals in life.
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