Mom always counts me down as if I have no merit

Updated on society 2024-02-08
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is the embodiment of love, don't always be unhappy because your mother counts you, you have to think that she is your mother, she gave birth to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, this is a kind of happiness, maybe you can't taste it now, you have to learn to cherish it, don't feel it when you lose it! Don't really believe these words!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My mom is the same, just in terms of studying, etc.

    I despise him

    Don't I have merit, always comparing me with other people's families?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My mom was like that too. You should be a girl. Actually, Mom just wants us to be better. You can choose to be a deaf ear.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Be strong, be independent, stay away from her in the future, and don't live with her, but don't forget to honor her Usually send her money I'm really going crazy by my mom What a knife mouth tofu heart fuck fuck It's only a matter of time before I'm forced to die.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're already very happy, my mother is out and telling outsiders everywhere that I'm not good or wrong, I'm already numb, let her go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The opposite of counting you down is to motivate you, work hard, and prove it with the results of your actions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you really have no chance, and if you want to be productive, he won't dare to count you down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then try to make yourself productive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't go back to your mother-in-law in the future!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can't afford to hide, old man, it's all like this, you can't say anything, you can't have a conflict, you want to open up by yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Work hard and slap her in the face! Earn some gas on your own!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, your mother is for your own good, and you can take her advice. If you feel that she is wrong, you can also not adopt it and insist on being yourself. Secondly, people don't look down on you, not because of your performance, but because of his vision. You don't meet people who appreciate you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time. If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost? - Zhang Xiaoxian.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Liking is a feeling that only a careful person can perceive.

    Like is a kind of giving, and only sincere people can have it.

    Actually, it's easy to see that I like someone.

    Will he giggle stupidly.

    Stupidly looked at the man.

    I hit ** but I don't know what.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell your mom, it's all inherited by you, and I often use this trick.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't communicate, run away from home for a few days first.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Understand what responsibility is first? Are you really responsible? We must first reflect on ourselves, do things to reassure our parents, and prove that it is better than anything else with actions.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Feelings are more important than facts, she must have an explainable reason for this, and she needs professional psychological analysis, or you can also try to analyze why she is like this, what kind of banquet silver does she need in her heart, maybe she wants to rely on you, rely on you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How did I count you, how old are you. Is it in the rebellious period?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Use a good tone and tell your mother how you feel.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's all like this, who is not like this, think on the bright side.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You have to understand the good intentions of adults.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How to say it, girls should really learn to dress themselves when they are older, right, you should communicate with your mother, and I think girls should have a good figure Baby, if you are too fat, clothes and everything are problems I still feel that it is not enough from 138 to 108, and I am said to be fat by my classmates every day This is my comparison of 3 years In fact, you will feel quite proud when you lose weight.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not right for your mother to count you ugly.

    She's supposed to be responsible.

    But you also have to understand her, it may be that she blames herself too deeply and takes her resentment out on you. Maybe she's not good-looking either, so she's lived a boring little life, so she's very anxious that you're going to do it again. Maybe she doesn't have anything to say to you, so say something you agree on to increase your feelings.

    All in all, it is difficult for a fat and unattractive little girl to have confidence. Even if your mom doesn't hit you, someone else will hit you. You have to be strong****************************************

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hey.. Believe in yourself, you can't decide what you look like, you must have a strong heart! Mom counts you down and she's wrong.,But don't worry too much.,Be your own.。。 Read more books, I believe you can find a lot of happiness in books.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, it doesn't matter if you're fat, as long as you find your own shining point, you can make your mother impressed with you, like a classmate in our class, she is also very fat, but her classmates like her very much, because she draws very well, and often helps classmates who can't draw to make drafts.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You have to build confidence for yourself, you have to be confident, your mother also wants to hate iron and steel, don't be discouraged, adjust your mentality, and it will be okay slowly!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What's so great about being fat, don't care too much about what others think, it's best to be a confident self, whenever you feel unconfident, think about your own success stories, or jokes that you think are particularly funny, you can distract yourself, this method is super easy to use!!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's really sad, even the dearest mother said, hey, it seems that you are really hurt enough, but the mother shouldn't do this, no matter how bad your own children are, they are also their own treasures. If you want to open up, do what you want to be, live the life you want, if you also feel fat, you can also try**, in case it doesn't work, it's not a big deal to smile, right!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You take it and say it to her. I'm not your own, am I... Then see what she can say, if she still dares to say it, just say that you didn't feed it, and say, then you can only say, then you should treat it as if you have fed pigs all these years (so self-harming).

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't worry, you'll be fine, you have time to pay more attention and exercise more, and you will become a busty woman.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Mothers do not belong to the number of children, but true love, I often see my daughter chubby, affectionately call a few words, don't be too sensitive, you will understand when you become a mother.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That's **ah,,It's still good for a talented girl with a good figure.。。

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Your mother's literacy·· Don't dare to compliment, she doesn't be a literate person, so you should be a literate person.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    How can mom be like this, did you give birth to her?

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Absolutely not, this is the disadvantage of Chinese-style family education, most parents will only keep counting down and never encourage and guide.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I don't think so, it's just that I'm more disgusted with her, and it's going to provoke our rebellion, and even make people give up on themselves

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The more you train, the more boring you get, and the more annoying you are, the more headaches you get! In fact, everyone has self-discipline, but in the eyes of adults, we are children no matter how adult, and we always like to compare us with someone, and your father may be as painful as you. It's a mother, it's also a woman, it's like this, be more considerate, and when you're depressed, just think more about what is good for you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This problem can be said to be unsolvable, and I can only try to communicate, and the effect of reasoning is almost zero

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Many times when you encounter this kind of problem, you don't think that your parents scold you too much and quarrel with them. Because the more you quarrel with them, the more angry they become, and the more fierce they will scold... In any case, there is no parent who does not love their child ...

    It will pass ...

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Then talk to her less messy things, do more housework, help mom buy something she likes, food, clothes, and wait until this time has passed.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    According to his interests and hobbies, just find him something to do, and when he is in a good mood, everything will be fine. Doing yoga or going to church can be relaxing.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Go out for a walk when you are resting.

Related questions
7 answers2024-02-08

Don't think like this, now some units are required to have academic qualifications, but they are not strict requirements, at least you should strive for an interview opportunity, show your talents, a good unit will not pay too much attention to academic qualifications, but ability, perform well, or have a considerable chance of being hired. Secondary school students are not necessarily worse than undergraduate students or college students and the like, believe in yourself. >>>More

10 answers2024-02-08

Your mother is protecting you, she is afraid that the man will touch you, and you will be there...What if I get pregnant...And in this society now, who can say well, in case you are separated in the future, what will other men think of you...Moreover, if your mother lets you go, the man will think that you are easy to get, and the man's family or others will think that your mother has not taught you well and that there is no tutor.

8 answers2024-02-08

This problem is not a minority, and as far as I am concerned, my mother is sometimes very unreasonable. I used to quarrel with her, but now I'm too lazy to argue. Calm down and think about it, she is your mother, who provides you with food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and also brings you into this world, because it is not good for you to resent her for this kind of thing. >>>More

8 answers2024-02-08

My parents often said this when they quarreled, you must not cry, otherwise your parents will be very upset. You should talk to the two of them, be behaved, and don't let them worry about you.

12 answers2024-02-08

What is such a man coming? Do you have nowhere to spend your money, do you need someone to spend it? Give up on him, there are many good men in this world! ~