My child is in the second year of junior high school and doesn t like to study, what should I do, pl

Updated on educate 2024-02-18
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Be a role model for parentsWords are better than examples. A parent's love of learning is the greatest encouragement. Children who grow up in an environment with a strong learning atmosphere tend to have a strong interest in learning.

    Parents and children learn together. Children who have just entered school have poor self-restraint, so parents can accompany them to read for a while, pay more attention to their children's learning, understand their children's homework, and help correct their mistakes in time.

    Try to improve your child's gradesImproving children's grades is the most important and effective way to cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should try to improve their children's academic performance, even in a particular subject. Friends who have used speed reading memory training know that it is very helpful for children's attention, memory, reading ability, thinking, etc.

    Good communicationParents should communicate with their children spiritually, learn to listen, and be good friends with their children, so that they will share their little secrets with you, learn to empathize, listen carefully, and ask their children with a positive attitude, and do not mix negative emotions with themselves.

    Be sure to keep your child's secrets secret and trust each other.

    1. Eat more vegetables and fruits, eat less meat, especially don't eat chicken;

    2. There are outdoor sports activities every day, every day, for an hour;

    3. Can't drive at night, focus on school classes, and listen to good classes;

    4. Have 8 hours of sleep;

    5. Listen to your favorite classical**.

    While studying, don't listen to songs;

    6. Have enough rest every day;

    7. Completely eliminate material desires;

    8. Recall your best mental state often;

    9. Don't expect any way, learn the way.

    It is often hype, learning to rely on its own steadfastness;

    10. Eliminate jealousy, vanity, and bigness.

    Eliminate complaints, eliminate excuses.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.It seems to be a child's problem, but it is not a child's problem.

    2.Whether the parents or the family are harmonious, a family environment that often quarrels or blames each other, children are actually the object of blame! Imagine if you work in such a unit, do you have no fighting spirit, just messing around.

    3.Crisis Education! We Chinese have too much sense of worry, what will happen in the future if you don't do your homework?

    What happens if you don't work hard today? What happens if you don't get in? How hard we knew when we were kids!

    How can you not get there! In fact, the vast majority of these children receive criticism, which lowers their underlying cognition and self-esteem level of learning! For their self-directed learning, it is generally devastating and does not help!

    Parents' crisis education is essentially parents' lack of confidence in their own lives and their denial of their past! How can a failed mentor be a role model for children? Crisis education can only make children feel the hardships of life, and there is no happiness and hope, let alone hard work.

    4.Today's children do not have the lack of material life, they do not understand the so-called hardships in your heart, but your joy, your enthusiasm for life. They can feel it for themselves!

    Educate children to love life, then start with you at this moment! Living a wonderful life is our practice, and no one should not live a life like this.

    5.To experience the beauty of life, you need to start from your own heart, learn to transform, and learn to switch perspectives! Of course, this requires learning and process! But it's worth it!

    6.Education is the ability to teach people happiness, which is the ultimate goal of education! Happiness is just a matter of experiencing every second of joy and sorrow at the moment, and being grateful for every moment of experience!

    Those who come do not refuse, and those who go do not stay! Live at any time, and don't tie things up! I believe that children will also be happy to face every day!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This can only sit down and have an in-depth communication with the child, urging him to study actively and lay the foundation for his future life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    <>1. Improve children's interest in learning. Not having enough interest in learning is an important reason why children are tired of learning, we must find the shining point of the child, spare no effort to praise the child, so that the child can see their own value in the process of learning, and can feel the joy of learning. Many children are tired of school because of low interest, and low interest is often associated with poor learning habits, so parents had better actively observe their children, accompany their children, and let children have good learning habits, so that children can embark on the track of benign development.

    2. Give the children the encouragement they deserve. In fact, there is a lot of pressure on children to study in school. Children's learning needs the encouragement of parents and teachers.

    Some children do not have good academic performance, and they are already under a lot of pressure, and if they do not get the affirmation and praise of teachers and parents, it will often cause broken jars and falls, resulting in boredom in school.

    3. The parent-child relationship is very important. After the child goes to junior high school, most of the time is in school, parents should cherish the time when the child is at home, actively cultivate the parent-child relationship with the child, let the child trust himself, let the child have something to say to you, so that you can monitor the child's thinking and learning changes at any time, actively guide and educate the child, correct some of the child's bad ideas, and change the child's disgust with school.

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