I have plenty of time and want to read books that are useful to me. Communication is not very good s

Is it useful to read a book? As the old saying goes: listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years!

If you want to overcome such shortcomings as yourself, first of all, you have to understand for yourself that I am going to talk to others, not others, and I don't scold him, how can he be angry with me?

If you can't cross this hurdle, try talking to an acquaintance first, and then the most important step is to ask for directions! When you go to a place where you are not familiar with life, you will inevitably have to ask for directions, ask a stranger for directions, and as long as you pass this level, you will find that communication between people is actually so simple.

Thoughts and sentences are not synchronized, or you are too shy to speak, and you are speechless when you meet strangers. As for co-production, it's even simpler, I don't know much about the field that others talk about, so don't speak, just listen, meet your own familiarity, you can insert a few sentences, you can also compete with others for your own opinions, no matter who is right and who is wrong, don't have pressure, if you are wrong, you are wrong, and the other party can remember you better.

But you can read more extracurricular books and increase your experience, it's also good, it's purely a suggestion, no wonder!

Study books such as "Business Communication" or "Management Communication", and you can also listen to lectures on communication.

"The Weakness of Human Nature" is a good one.

Show up in public and learn from other people's ways.

When you see too much, it becomes a habit of your own.

Communicative or workplace communication.

A few days ago, my best friend Damei went on a blind date, and she was introduced by her family, and she was said to be a promising entrepreneurial young man. I didn't expect her to complain to me as soon as she came back......

I asked her what was wrong? Doesn't it mean that people have bought cars and houses in the imperial capital? Da Mei said that the conditions are okay, but I really can't chat!

It turns out that this is the case: Da Mei has been **, so I ordered a salad at mealtime, and said that I usually eat a healthy diet and like to eat these green vegetables.

Unexpectedly, the blind date man actually took a mouthful: in the countryside, vegetable leaves are used to feed pigs.

**。The scene was embarrassing for a while, and when Da Mei told me, I really sweated for this man.

I know that the other party is not really bad-hearted, but the way they speak is always uncomfortable, and it is sometimes not a good thing to be straightforward.

In the final analysis, these people lack the ability to empathize and do not understand the basic skills of chatting. But a lot of things are negotiated at the dinner table, and not being able to chat means that many opportunities are lost.

Personally, I don't think there is a single book that can improve your communication skills in a short period of time. Communication skills are actually a comprehensive embodiment of a person's inner self-cultivation and oral expression skills. If you want to improve your communication skills, I personally think that you should first strengthen your knowledge and life experience, learn more about the current hot topics, and it is best to understand the topics that people are keen on and have some opinions of your own.

In this way, you will find common topics and talk about them when you are with others. If you don't just understand a little bit and say all the words that others have said, it won't be interesting. It will also make others think you are offended.

Secondly, you can read more stories about the debates of famous masters in history, ponder the way they speak, and learn how they deal with urgent questions. Again, let's learn more about the growth stories of famous diplomats and care about their work.

Last but not least, we should strive to improve our content and broaden our knowledge. No matter how well you can speak, you must also say it with reason and basis, and only then will others be interested. If you encounter a more important occasion, you can first anticipate what topics and people you may encounter, and prepare for it in your heart.

Be prepared, lest you get into trouble.

In summary: good communication skills are the perfect combination of speaking skills and inner cultural heritage.

Read more books on psychology, and communication starts from the heart. The most important thing is to be able to read a wide range of books, have a wide range of knowledge, and speak more convincingly.

I think "Parchment" is very good... I've changed a lot over it. If you have a chance, take a look.

Good book recommendations to effectively improve communication skills:

1.The Art of Carnegie Communication and the Wisdom of the World

Publisher: China Overseas Chinese Publishing House.

2.Speak Like TED: 9 Tips for Creating World-Class Presentations

Publisher: CITIC Press.

3."Don't let not being able to speak hurt you".

Publisher: China Business Press.

4."People who can talk, life will not be too bad".

Publisher: Beijing Times Chinese Book Company.

5."Soft Dialogue".

Publisher: CITIC Press.

The above is for reference.