The relationship of nearly 4 years broke up, and I want to study hard in college to recharge and reg

If you really like him, don't give up, it's best to keep in touch with him in college, even if it's just to retreat to ordinary friendship, but don't bother him too much. Now everyone has their own freedom, their own opinions. After a long time, you may forget about the past and try to think about the best things!

Be optimistic! After 4 years, if you really like her, you will chase him again, and I wish you a good time!!

If it's me, I'm not rare in this relationship, and I won't be nostalgic, after all, I really don't really love someone, you're different, you care about him very much, but if you like it, you have to fight for it, but he's tired of it, and really let go, so why should you be persistent, sometimes we really have to respect ourselves, so we have to take it as a memory, at least I really loved that person, and it was tears in retrospect? Is it satisfied? It doesn't matter if you regret it, as long as you have it, although you are very possessive, I will not be reluctant to fall in love, it is too painful.

Time will be your problem,。。 You're just too dependent on him. After four years of college, I always meet different types of people.

Now what you need is time to forget about it. Change yourself after four years. Let him be impressed.

Love is not like marriage, you can choose the man and woman who enter the marriage in the besieged city, the person in love is outside the besieged city, he is the same as you, he can't let go, you should fight for it now, after 4 years, the variables are too great, you and he will change.

Four years is also a long time, and when the time comes, you may meet someone who is more suitable for you and makes you like more, and emotional things can't be budgeted, so everything should be natural.

When love comes to an end, there is always someone who will quit first. But years later, we will find that the tears that were once shed are not for him, but for others. Hope you get your wish!

As long as you firmly believe that he will still be waiting for you in four years, and devote yourself to a new life without distractions...

If you meet someone who is really suitable in four years, you won't think like this.

Go with the flow.

Then you will do everything you can to keep his heart, keep in touch, and let him know that you are the person who loves her the most in the world.

What will change in 4 years, no one can say. The point is that he doesn't like you now, is there a future?

If you like him so much, try to chase him, don't be angry if you can't catch it, at least you have done it.

Take the liberty to ask how old you are, if you are an adult, then you don't need me to say more, if you love her, you will be brave enough to say it, don't leave yourself any regrets, maybe she is also waiting for you to speak. If you are a minor or still in high school, you should focus on studying, if you are really in love, you should pass the test, you can make an appointment, meet in college.

OK! Why are parents opposed? Is it because both of you are too young?

It's better to be an ordinary friend first, and then fall in love when you grow up! It can also dispel parents' concerns! Best of both worlds!

You can usually contact more often, and I wish you good luck

Or don't want it, maybe she has a last resort, or maybe she won't let you know about it!

Is she single now If so, you can try to save the meeting, is her family still very opposed If it is to do the work of the first to do the work.

It's up to you, if you want to chase it back, if you have a lot of concerns, forget it.

There will be great resistance if your parents disagree, but everything is possible with love, the key depends on whether you love her enough, whether you have enough courage and confidence.

If the family doesn't want to, it's going to be a little difficult for you, but with love, there's hope.

The way is self-paced, and the way is self-chosen. By the time you know you're on the wrong path and on the wrong path, you may have no turning back!

There must have been some reason why you parted back then!

Think about what you love about him!?

What did he (she) love about you when he was with you!?

And what is the reason for breaking up with you!?

Did you change anything with him or her!?

Have you given anything for him or her!?

Did he or she do anything for you!?

Do you find him (her) together again and still have the same feeling as before!??

Or will it strengthen your relationship?

Still not as good as the previous relationship?

You find out if he (she) can live with him (her) and keep it for a lifetime!??

Can he (she) live with you and keep you for a lifetime!??

Do you like his (her) strengths, can you accept his (her) shortcomings!?

Does he or she like your strengths, but can he accept your shortcomings?

After thinking about it, I'm going to redeem it, and I think you know if you can redeem it!

As for what has happened to you in the years of separation, it's best not to mention it, not to ask!

It depends on whether you can still bear him! ～

If you don't know how to cherish it, you won't give him a second chance.

If you don't know how to cherish it, you won't give him a second chance.

Agree! Even if you chase it back, it will feel very different from the previous one.

Can you guarantee that the reason for your breakup in the first place will no longer be the unhappiness after you got back together? Will it reappear.

Let the past be passed! Why bother? Your fate is over.

Love is not based on time, since it has passed, let it pass, people should look forward and not look back! There are even better things waiting for you ahead!

Love is an adolescent period, this is inevitable when you are young, you will understand the sincerity of the future after tasting these sadness, otherwise the youth will be worse, it is better to think about giving up, after all, he also has a boyfriend now, there is a kind of love called letting go, but there is also a kind of love called accommodation, you can go to impress her.

Now that the best explanation is lost, tell her that if she still has in her heart, you will come back, but you have to be prepared to never be sorry for her again, or if there is a next time, you will really lose her forever.

Alas! Ask what the world is like, only teach you to regret every day and be sad every day...But there is no regret medicine in this world, and there is no medicine that makes you not sad...Only time can dilute everything.

She said she would give you a chance, so you should take advantage of it! In fact, if she says something like this, it means that she still loves you! If you really love her, don't miss it!

She's testing you now! People have feelings, and besides, you've been talking for three years, how can you say give up and give up? You said you were sorry for her, and all you have to do now is admit your mistake to her!

Call her at least three times a day, even if she says you're annoying!

Is it because you feel sorry for your feelings, or because you feel sorry for yourself, and you don't feel worth it.

You still have a chance, she may have a last resort.

It's only been 19 days to find another ??? Kicked!

All she said was that she loved you. Wait eleven more days. During this period, I kept in touch with her every day, so don't be too annoyed. Say how you regret it, hope to continue with her. Give her a promise. Go find her.

Originally, I wanted to say something to you, you later added to this question that you are a very rational and wise person, four years can not let go of the means that you are very affectionate, sometimes the way to relieve the pain is time, because whether it is a short period of time to escape the pain or good, listen to **, travel, etc., are temporary relief, for people like you, only time, in addition to time, the better medicine is to start a new relationship. Judging by this girl's description, she is not very sure about your future. She is very realistic, and when she has a suitable one around her, she will meet and start a new relationship.

Therefore, it doesn't matter if you are separated, if you really get married, you need a lot of foundation. Be happy, give up is her loss, start your own new life, young man, believe in your sincerity and single-mindedness, you will definitely meet a more suitable one. It's not you who is upset, it's her, isn't it?

1. No matter how bad you did at the beginning, her betrayal can only show that she doesn't love you enough, and she is not a trustworthy woman;

2. You are not mentally prepared to accept her and forgive her past, but you rashly hit the past, what do you want? If you're wondering how she's doing, then you've got the answer; If it's just because you're lonely, then you're too bored.

3. To put it bluntly, your pain is not pain at all, it is boring. Only when you stop letting go of your emotions and cheer up can you get out of the so-called pain.

4. A good man is ambitious in all directions, if you don't put your energy into your career, invest in your own self-improvement, think nonsense all day long, your children's private feelings, and your mind is restless, you will ruin yourself!

You're not very mature right now.

Some impulsiveness. If you can accept the betrayal you have had, it will not affect your relationship with each other in the future, but you are hesitant yourself, well, or do you not mind the outcome at all and just want to work hard?

Why bother, you said it yourself, maybe it's too idle, I think that's the point!

After a man graduates, he should focus on work, and when he is depressed at work, he becomes more and more lonely, it is recommended that you find a way out at work, and strive to recover that girlfriend It is better to work hard to raise your ability level first, so maybe which woman sees that you are developing so well, and she will come back to you, what do you think?

Don't insist on it, I have the same experience as you.

Even if you are together, your heart is a shadow, it's not good for you, just pass, it's experience, it's growth.

Forget about it slowly, such a woman will still do this kind of thing sooner or later, you will only hurt yourself, whoever can really control her will go, and you are not that person, you are all over, you can't let go, it doesn't hurt.

Don't be silly, buddy.

It's easy to forget, find a good girl.

I can't forget that nothing worked but I found a girlfriend and my heart faded and I recognized the growth of the past, and I think this is not just bad for you and us, we have all grown.

You have a four-year relationship, you can't give it up, and you can't forget, of course to chase her, not vigorously chased love, how can you taste it, it is recommended that you go to her, your person to represent your sincerity, and then insist on fighting for it, success is good, not also a decision, hurry up to reorganize the mood, the pursuit of new feelings and new life, it is much better than your hesitation.

Actually, you can have more things to do besides work, and there are so many good girls that she can't help but be lonely and choose someone else, but if she comes back to you, then what, do you make sure that she can work in your city after grad school? If her parents let him go home to work, do you have to put down your hard-earned career and follow her home? Okay, it's okay to go back, but just starting out, you're going to have nothing, will her parents approve of her marrying you?

Do you promise that she won't quarrel with you and end up breaking up? In fact, it is easy to reconcile no matter how you break up in love, such as misunderstanding and quarreling, but betrayal is very rare, because there is a crack in your heart, and when you encounter similar things in the future, you will be suspicious and will turn over old accounts.

If you can't be in the same city as her, there's little hope.

But going to her city will not develop well, and you want to keep her and develop well. There is no best of both worlds.

It's yours after all, and you won't run.

Work well, live well.

It's hard to give up on her, but the first step is always hard.

It's not that she's good, others are good, it's just that you don't see it.

There is a girl in the world who belongs to you, or maybe she is not.

Maybe you're stupid this time, and that's after, and that's going to be the next.

Think about it carefully, no matter how much others say, it's just advice.

The one who can really give you the answer is yourself.

More contact. The love of the long-distance ** is really painful. My girlfriend and I graduated in Beijing, one in Guangzhou (first from the right), more than half of them gave her every day with her, text messages, ** fee, put the fan of the fan up, although a little heartache, but still very willing to spend.

Doubt is inevitable, but it is still necessary to believe that the other person thinks that you love it. There is no doubt that you do not love him. Some of the tribulations of love are no longer eternal things.

Bless you to think of yourself too. 。Oh. 。

Who doesn't make mistakes?

Why be harsh on someone else's past?

She regrets it now.

Do you want to make yourself regret it?

Sometimes feelings always make people fall into the quagmire, but sometimes you really have to face reality, live in reality, don't always have unnecessary, constantly hurt your expectations, in fact, she has expressed it very clearly, I really don't love you anymore, you really have to think about it carefully, let go when it's time to let go, this kind of girl is actually not worth doing for her? can't bear the loneliness and betrays love, and deeply hurts another person who likes himself, makes others suffer, and doesn't think about others, really, it's not necessary.

How to say this kind of thing, you can do anything, the key is to see what kind of person you are, what kind of decision is the best for you, for now, why are you not her who wants to get back together, does this mean that you care more about this relationship?

Send you a word, only the feet know if the shoes are not suitable, think about it yourself, be calm, and don't cause trouble to each other.