What should I do if I want to change my boyfriend who is 3 years younger than me

Hey, it's really a colleague, my parents were like this during the Chinese New Year, but I later convinced my parents, I asked them if you want me to divorce in the future or find a boyfriend by yourself, everyone grew up in a different environment, and their habits are different, and it is difficult to change, unless he loves you very much, this kind of blind date is hopeless at all He wants you to become the same as him, can you do it? If you can't do it yourself, don't ask others. Otherwise, there will only be disappointment.

o( o Alas, what's wrong with this, now many people are on the Internet every day, as long as he cares about you, can think of you at the moment of putting down the mouse, can respond when you call when playing games, play with you, accompany you shopping, that's it, you can't really change his life like to surf the Internet, you force him to put down his game, which will only make your life very weak, you can find something to do by yourself, don't have to deliberately interfere with his life every day, it's OK to have a little more personal space with each other. He is like this now, you wait and see, as long as he is a responsible person, it will not take 2 years for him to change his life on his own.

When you're in love, don't try to change, try to accept it.

Let him be cool on the Internet When he is confused on the Internet, you are going to change him.

I'm so bored playing games and chatting with the Internet that I don't know what I'm going to do in the future, so I'm spending my time reading books and knowing. PS: I'm a man.

You just do something you like to do when he is playing games or chatting QQ, and when he finishes playing, you are talking to him, or introducing your interests and hobbies to him, so that he is interested, and you keep thinking about him, which will only make him more and more disgusted.

Try to find something common to talk about! Slowly, it will be a long time, and he will listen to you! The main thing is to have a common language. The most important...

One of the questions I get asked most often is, "I'm not happy, can you help me change the other person?" ”。In fact, problem-solving thinking should be: whoever is unhappy will change!

Change the mind of a person who is not a mature person in the first place. You always feel like you don't like him, so you always see him surfing the internet and seeing him playing games. You should try to let go of your preconceptions about him from your heart and slowly discover his strengths, rather than hoping to change him or him for you.

Love cannot be forced, as the saying goes, lifelong masters are parents. But I think that now that the reform and opening up is still cared about, don't you think that life in the future is very tiring.

If he is really good to you, a man in charge, and responsible, you can choose to be together. I have such a column around me, and they are doing well.

Then let's be together, don't care too much about age.

Women are always sensible earlier than boys.

It's all boyfriend's name.,Haven't you been together yet?。

Age is not a problem, only whether you like it or not, if you like it, you don't need to look at opinions, go your own way and let others see it, now it's time to make your own decisions, and you don't have to let your parents make decisions.

Two people love each other and make some achievements to show them, after a long time, they will believe that persistence is victory.

As long as you truly love each other, try to convince your parents!

You are truly in love with each other, and the raw rice is cooked into rice. It is useless for parents to object.

How old are you? When you reach the age, you will keep talking, time will tell.

Parents are generally not very optimistic about sibling love, because they feel that the other party will be immature and not a "big husband", so they should let their parents see his advantages and ability to do things.

Stick to what you think in your heart. Don't be swayed by your parents. Happiness is in your own hands.

Age is not a problem, the question is how to make your parents feel that he can take care of you.

What do you think of it yourself? Is it reliable? Is it responsible? Is it intimate? Be filial to your parents?

It's good that the two really love each other! It's your boyfriend who will grow old with you.

What's right for you is right!

You know if it fits or not!

Parents are just giving advice, and it's for your good, but if you think he's mature enough to be worthy of TOEFL for life, talk to your parents.

If you have to be together sooner or later, it really doesn't matter if it's later.

Wait until he's your age.

Two people truly love each other. Age is not an issue at all. It's not much bigger.

Don't treat him like a child. An 18-year-old boy is a lot. He'll understand.

Besides, boys generally mature earlier than girls. Even if it's not very mature now, it will be in the future. It's all about having fun together.

If you're 18 years old, you already know everything.

I think as long as he is good to you and you are sincere, there is no problem. The important thing is that you can be happy for a lifetime.

Love doesn't get in the way of age.

If you don't like it.

Even if you're the same age, it's not good.

If you don't like it, let it go.

Falling in love cannot be forced.

You look like you're looking older, if not, then the first obstacle doesn't exist, but I still don't approve of dating a man younger than me, after all, hehe's a little weird.

I don't believe that there is no age limit for love. However, the difference of three years is far less than that of two people who truly love each other.

Quite normal.

One of my colleagues is the same.

His girlfriend is also 3 years older than him.

However, they are still doing well.

Love knows no age.

Bold love it.

I think there is no age limit for relationships, and if you have a good relationship, I don't think there is a problem!

I'm five years older than my boyfriend, I started out too, I always felt so much older than him, very awkward, he and his friends told me that age is not a problem, and I was also depressed for a long time to be with him, well, we're really happy to be together now! ～～

If you really love each other, I don't think age is really an issue

The third year of female college is a good thing, the old man said, he used to like this.

There is an old saying: female juniors hold gold bricks; You were born to be destined!

I also fell in love with a man younger than me, I wanted to leave him, we always quarreled, he never let me, I always apologized to him, I felt so tired of living. I've thought about forgetting him, but I can't forget him, I think you still ask yourself if he loves you?

The age gap is not a problem, my cousin is four years older than my brother-in-law, and she is very happy.

Alas! Sibling love is not good for you. Really @

If it's love, 30 years old is not a ditch.

I think I'm you, too, will be under a lot of pressure.

It depends on the situation, if you have children after marriage, it is really troublesome, if you don't have children, communicate more with his parents. To tell the truth, since this man wants to marry you, he should let him face his parents. Of course, true love for each other is the key, you might as well show your merits and sincerity, prove that you are a good daughter-in-law, and let his parents accept you.

It depends on whether the man is sincere to you, as long as you are happy, don't care about his parents, and accept it after a long time.

True love is to stick to the end and don't regret it.

As long as the other party loves you and loves you. It's your happiness that you pursue.

It's up to your boyfriend to decide!

Actually, it's okay to be a little smaller.

But the key is for boys to be mature.

Otherwise, even if you are old and mentally immature, you can't do it.

How old are you, do you like him so badly?

Give them the example of France.

This situation is really difficult to have in the future, after all, in this society where there is talk about material things everywhere, there is no way to continue without money.

I can understand you women, you Mingmin can find a richer person to live a better life, but it is really difficult to be with a man who has no financial means for the time being.

Go your own way.

It depends on whether you like him or not, men don't have to be rich, because true love is hard to find.

Just be nice to you. As long as it's sincere.

Since you mentioned money, let's forget it.

If you really love each other, then money and age are not a problem.

Age is not a distance, height is not a problem.

It doesn't matter if you don't have money, I'm insecure when I'm younger than me.

The key depends on whether the boy loves you or not.

If it were me, I would have separated decisively.

You're 12 years older than him, and he can still feel 3 years younger....I have to say that the questioner's maintenance is a bit too sharp....Let's be honest.

In a few more years, you'll look like a, and women age fast.

How old is your boyfriend? See how much of his psychological capacity is, and then tell him appropriately.

The gap is so big. Is there a **? I see how young you look.

It should be said that he thinks he is older than you psychologically, can you tell me how old you are this year?

If you really love you, let's be together. In fact, I think my boyfriend who is younger than me will be worried, because women are already aging faster than boys, what will I do in the future!! In case he doesn't like it!!