What should I do, a girl around 23 years old helps

Updated on society 2024-02-09
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's best not to make any moves in the near future, first of all, you were rejected before, and it is estimated that the impression on the other party is not very good. After a while, the other party will forget some bad things, and you will have the opportunity to start over. In addition, in the case of indifference in the case of close pursuit, it will make the other party have a strong psychological gap, if she feels that there is something missing from your hospitality, then your future road will be better.

    Also, give yourself time to figure out if you really have to be this girl.

    Agree with the above point of view, you really have to "leave immediately" for women, and "hot and cold", otherwise you will wait for yourself to be crowned with the title of stalker.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    ...It's up to everyone, if that girl doesn't feel good for you, no matter how you are, it won't help. Occasionally, text messages or chats show that people don't hate you, but they don't want to associate with you.

    Anyway, you can't send a message when there's nothing to do, the other party will be very bored!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel that the sisters are so good, I admire them, haha The opportunity is created by yourself! You won't even be able to figure out a girl, take the initiative, and you have to see if you have a reason to be liked! If I don't like you, don't waste your time, know that there is a girl waiting for you in the distance, and you have to find the person who loves you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're sure that she's not annoying about you, then you have to find something she likes, because you have common interests, you will have more topics, you will gradually get acquainted with each other, and you will gradually get to know each other, and you can't rush it, that will give her a bad impression, this is just my personal opinion, it varies from person to person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to learn how to have you in his eyes first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    yes is first and foremost a reason to be loved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't send frequent text messages that don't work. Text messages to be sent, words to be spoken. Text messages can be used to care for her, such as if she is unhappy about something, or sick or something, you can use it to care for her, because some unspeakable things can be replaced by text messages!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, I don't care, I like to have a sense of security, be good to people, have ideals, and the way of pursuit is not very important, and the most important thing is to be good to myself! But a lot of girls like romantic and emotional! As long as you like it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Running a company is not agreed. Unless you both don't want to work there! Let it be. Why is it so clear?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It feels very happy to be chased. It feels happier to be loved. So you should take it.

    Although it feels ordinary now, it is necessary to believe that the relationship between people will become more subtle with the passage of time. I think you're going to get a crush on him. As for the family conditions, it should not have much to do with modern young people, as long as two people are healthy and happy with each other, they can stay together for a lifetime.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm 21 years old

    Let's make a suggestion, the person you said is not bad, and then pick and choose may not necessarily return to a better one, maybe you like it and don't like you at all.

    Why not find someone who loves you with all his heart?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I, 23. Nowadays, girls generally take into account material factors. In fact, it varies from person to person. Personally, I think that personality accounts for the largest proportion, if the boy has a bad personality, how to continue to get along, let alone grow old together. ——40%

    Self-motivation is also very important, knowledge is always the ** of wealth, if you find an unmotivated man, you will live a hard life in this life. ——20%

    Mature girls don't pay too much attention to their appearance, as long as they look pleasing to the eye, they don't have to be handsome, and they don't necessarily feel safe. ——10%

    Economically, I personally think it accounts for 30 Of course, if the boy is studious, has a good personality, is willing to endure hardships, and has a future for development, he has no money now, and he looks at the long-term development prospects.

    There is another point, to add, which is what I value more - the thoughtfulness of men. When a girl is looking for a boyfriend or husband, she wants to find a man who is good to herself, loves herself, and has no other girls in her eyes. Small things, if you can move her - a dish, add clothes, wrap crabs or something, girls will feel very happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's pretty much it.

    But I personally think that self-motivation is the most important thing

    You think, if he is not motivated, no amount of economic foundation can withstand his messy creation

    The second is personality , you have to understand that it is scary to live a life with someone who is not compatible with personality

    The economic foundation and appearance are not too similar, maybe the economic foundation is more important, after all, the relationship does not depend on drinking the northwest wind

    Most good-looking men will definitely have serious flaws in several other areas, so as long as it doesn't last long and doesn't make a lot of excuses, it's good

    Married, you still have to live happily, it's really meaningless to look good If you think it's good-looking, other women will think it, and even this man himself will feel the same, how troublesome you say

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since it's a little more mature, it's not too irrational.

    Then sweet words alone should never be considered.

    The other party's economic conditions should not be the most important, the key is the ability and potential to make money, but the existing conditions can depend on their own patience.

    For example, if you don't have the patience to wait for a flower to bloom, you can't choose the poor who have the patience to wait, and you might as well see how the poor boy who loves you around you is stepping under your care.

    The character is not too strict with the wife, but it must not be too irritable, most of the time there is a tolerant person, so that women.

    Self-motivation must be strong, otherwise there is no hope, unless you want to be a strong woman with a general appearance, you can see it yourself, and others will not drool, too handsome and too ugly are not advisable.

    If you have a high degree of education, it is also a plus, but a master's degree is enough, a doctor is easy to become a pedant, there is no ability to live and the body must be healthy, and you can be filial to your parents if you are taller than yourself (no more than 175 yourself), and you are as filial to each other's parents, so the first thing is quality, virtue!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Responsibility 30%.

    Self-motivated 20%.

    Personality 20%.

    Economy 20%.

    Appearance 10%.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For choosing a boyfriend, my conditions are not high, the economy is not considered, what boys have now is their parents' money, not their own, parents cannot follow us for a lifetime, parents have money does not mean that they will be rich!; Don't look too handsome, and your face can't be eaten, it's useless!; The character must be bold and the temper must be good, but the person must be ruthless enough, so as to survive in the competition!

    The most important thing is his determination and absolute loyalty to love me! I'm a wild horse and all I need is a knight who can be tamed!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When I was 23 years old, I had to look good and make me feel comfortable, and then I had to be financial, and ability, in fact, there were really not so many reasons to fall in love with someone, just look at it, and it was very helpless.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Economy 20%.

    Appearance 20% Personality 20%.

    Self-motivated 40%.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Self-motivated, character, economy, appearance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what kind of level you are.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Economy, how can you do without money?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First impression 10%.

    I think the first impression of two people is very important, especially the kind of blind date that meets once, and there may not be a next time, and colleagues or people who can often see each other for a long time will not care so much about the first impression.

    Character: Personality 35%.

    This is too important I can't be with a person with a bad character for a long time I'd rather have a dog Most people's living environment Education determines their personality A good boyfriend will make you feel happy and reliable all the time.

    Talent 25% working ability

    The basic expenses and tastes of life depend on this pull, and you don't want to be with a stuffy pot all day, and you have good work ability, and the family factor is negligible, because your boyfriend is him, not any member of his family.

    Taste 20% of its own conditions

    On the basis of a certain economic ability, taste is quite important, good taste makes a man very attractive, his own conditions are a little worse, do the above points, and then + good taste, you can cover up this deficiency, so this is not so important.

    In the end, 10% of no matter how good a man is, he has to love you, but there is such a good man, even if he can't be a boyfriend, it's not bad to be friends.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Family status 20%.

    Appearance, 30% of stature

    Talent 30%.

    Take care of yourself 20%.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This doesn't have to be a person, if you like her, you will chase her, and you will have no chance if you are timid!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Big brother to give a little sprinkle...

    She belongs to the cold beauty type, chasing for a long time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I guess you're a little bit worse.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you don't like it, you don't like it, you can't do anything.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I agree with the second floor. It's just that if you don't feel it, you don't like it, you can't do anything. If a woman doesn't like you but is moved by you, it is only a short touch, if she has not made herself like you after the touch, she will still leave you after a long time. Do you understand?!

    Besides, in one unit, see each other all day long. Over time, there will be contradictions. The freshness is lost quickly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's never too late to learn anything. You can take a diploma, or you can learn some professional skills, such as English, psychology and so on.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Knowledge – the ability to support oneself in the future.

    Being a human being - taking good care of yourself in society.

    Love - to perpetuate the love and the right to give birth to your mother.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all, you need to identify your own shortcomings, and then analyze what you should learn based on your shortcomings.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Vero Moda, I'm 24, I like their more mature clothes.

    There is also a shopping bar on the Internet, and sometimes you can find very pp clothes.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Jiangnan cloth. Natural elements. La Chapelle.

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