The girl I liked borrowed money from me and said it was to start a business

Updated on society 2024-02-09
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on your relationship, if you can be sure that you are going through a lifetime, it doesn't matter if you borrow money! But knowing people and knowing faces but not hearts, no one can guarantee whether she will change in the future, you still have to be careful! At this time, your distress may be borrowing, and you are afraid that you will be deceived when the time comes, and you will lose both your money and money.

    Don't borrow it, after all, it's the girl you like, and most of them get scorers. If you want to lend her something, if you ask to write an IOU with legal benefits, it will ruin your relationship. Right?

    What I'm going to tell you is that a girl who really wants to create her own career must be very strong-hearted, and generally will not ask men for money! Because what they want is their own life, and they don't depend on men to live. Today she borrows money from you, tomorrow maybe you can't satisfy her, and she will turn her eyes to someone else.

    You have to understand this!

    If you say that you break up because you don't borrow money, if you break up now, this kind of woman is not worth pouring your love!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She will borrow money from you because she likes her. Be careful. Didn't succeed.

    It hurts feelings and loses money. If you agree, you will borrow a small amount. If you start a business, you will have to pay dividends.

    If the amount is too small, you have to make an IOU. Otherwise, it will be unreasonable to explain in the future, and there will be many such cases. Use public and private to distinguish between public and private.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The ground floor makes a lot of sense.

    Don't be taken advantage of and deceived by feelings.

    If you are really going to borrow her, you must also know in detail what she is going to do with the money, and if you are a business, you are still a shareholder! You have the right to know her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Friend, do you really like her?! If the answer is yes, then borrow only for you to like her People don't meet many people you like in your life, of course, you also have to consider whether she likes you...

    There's no more, there's no less, hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If she really starts a business. You talk to her first. You have to understand what she is going to do and how she is going to do it, and if she won't tell you or what she thinks of you. That's what happened to her!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Money friends can go or not. If you have money, you can make money friends, if you don't have money, then you don't have money friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you're a good friend, girls who want to start a business don't put their minds on their feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love, not blindness! To love others, learn to love yourself first.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find out about his business plans before making a decision.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no one in the world who is not profiteering, so you have to look at people with colored glasses, and imagine that everyone is profiteering, and you are no exception. This is to be doubted.

    Personally, I believe that everyone should have a corresponding self-esteem, and they will not ask others until a certain time. If you so easily lower your self-esteem and beg others, you have to consider whether she is really short of money or is cheating.

    You can consider her personality, if she usually likes to take advantage or like to deceive people, or if she is very casual and needs to get to know her deeply.

    In short, to know the inside story of her matter.

    Of course, the most important thing is your attitude. If she really started a business, would you be willing to borrow it? How much can I borrow?

    From your question, you know that you are not very old, and you must not have a lot of savings, what about your own life? What about parents? You have to be prepared in case she's lying to you.

    You need to know her home address. If she borrows money, she must set up a certificate, she must have a notary, and if she does not repay the money, there is a way back.

    If she doesn't, chances are she's lying to you.

    Good luck!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to figure out the situation, the girl you like doesn't have to sacrifice your own interests, you know how much she has, whether she really uses it to start a business, after all, the money is not a small amount, you promised not to have to achieve it, because it is related to personal interests and her conflict of interest!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think two dilemmas, one is to borrow money, the other is to repay the money, ask others to borrow money, embarrassed, ask others to repay the money is even more embarrassing, friends ask you to borrow money, the dilemma is nothing more than fear, will it be like a meat bag beating a dog, never go back? One is that a friend dragged on and didn't return it. You can analyze whether the business she wants to create has development prospects, whether she can make money, and second, what kind of person is usually, if you agree again, and now you don't know how to be good, you can borrow her 1 2 or 1 3 first, and the rest depends on the situation, besides, he is not only a friend of you, not self-made.

    At least she had a bit of a bottom before she dared to think about it. By borrowing a little from her, you can meet your commitments, and you can also leave some room for yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't borrow... You shouldn't have said yes to this ... Anything that has to do with money ... It won't last long.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't borrow the person who is in love, the IQ is really 0 You are not married, why don't you ask her parents for money to start a business Good girls will not do this thing I don't pay attention to it at all.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Does she like you? Is it possible for you? And what do you like about her?? You ask this to mean that you don't know her very well, do you suspect that this is not the purpose of her borrowing money?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have money, borrow it. Shede's treasure is revealed. If you are willing to exchange pearls for agate, and if you are willing to give up children, you can get a wolf.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you have a lot of money, borrow it.

    Beware of her being pyramid schemed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's borrow it depending on how crazy you know or like her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Whether it's in real life or online. It's better not to borrow.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You look at her purpose and her chances of success.

    Think about it yourself.

    Don't talk casually in the future.

    People remember it.

    Oh, woe comes out of the mouth!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, what is said upstairs makes sense, but I think that whether it is worth borrowing or not, the landlord should know best. Good luck!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm reluctant, it's reluctant, what do you like?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on your specific situation, beware of being deceived.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It depends on her character.,If it's credible, lend it to him.,It's a good way to connect feelings.,But if she's the kind of person who spends money and borrows money casually, don't borrow it.,Find a suitable interface yourself.。。。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want, you can borrow... If the girl asks for a note herself, that's fine

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't know who she is.

    But seriously, judging by what you've written.

    I think you're right that you didn't borrow her.

    Do you know. A really good girl.

    I won't easily bow my head and borrow money from others.

    I won't borrow money from people I like.

    You guys were fine at first.

    But let's say so.

    The nature of both of you has changed completely, and it is true.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Just don't borrow it!

    Don't be stupid there.

    Just don't borrow it!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In this regard, the money lent to her must not be returned, and if you feel that she is worth helping her if your financial conditions allow, then lend her it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Look at her character.

    If you lend her a good character, she will pay it back.

    If it's not good, you just make an excuse.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Lend it to her first.

    I think she might really need it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Actually, you don't like her very much, you come to ask, it means that you don't want to borrow, but you think you like her, you shouldn't borrow it?

    Don't borrow it, because you don't like her.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Analyzing her past life and attitude from all aspects, it is worth borrowing It's very prodigal, forget it, it's an addiction to this thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Most of the girls who ask you to borrow money will not fall in love with you, because everyone is very embarrassed when it comes to money, and the girls either deliberately embarrass you or want you to give up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Sure enough, men are still thinking about money at this time... How borrowed. Since you've thought so, you've gone bad.

    You don't believe her put. Then don't borrow it, look at his reaction, you say easy-going, I don't have anything like that. Look what he has to say.

    If he's interested in you, he should be over in a word.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't borrow it.

    But any serious girl, with your current relationship, will not talk to you.

    Besides, won't you borrow from a good friend if you are short of money, is her character so bad that even her friends refuse to help her?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Forget it, if she is sincere to you, she will not borrow it from you, let alone meet on the Internet, no matter how much, she feels unreliable.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Men are afraid that they will be reduced to a kind of ATM in their relationship, but sometimes they meet a woman they like, and they have a request for themselves, and they are embarrassed not to help. But if it comes to borrowing Q, I'm afraid that the other party is just using himself. So what do we do at this time?

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Weakly asked, she asked you to borrow money, why did it mean to you?? This short-mouthed thing.,I can only say that you're a friend of hers.,It's still far away from boyfriend and girlfriend.。。 Unless you just want to ooxx her, if you want to get her heart, there's still a long way to go.

    Another: borrowing money, it doesn't matter if you have less money, if you have a lot of money or often ask you to borrow, then you have to keep your eyes open. It's not a matter of money anymore.,Everyone doesn't want to be a good person.,Others are still scolding themselves for being stupid.。。

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think he just thinks he's just a good friend of you!

    Fate came very suddenly, although sometimes you don't have to worry if it comes later, it's yours that you can never run, not no matter how much you pay, no matter how much you pursue, you will get nothing!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I never like to talk about money in front of my so-called friends, and I certainly don't borrow money. I find it boring.

    And some people borrow money when they like each other, and it is not good for the other party not to give it, and they feel that it is not appropriate to give it, and they still give it when they are in a dilemma. Did you find it interesting?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Don't take more, it may be that she is testing you, but you have to be sober and you have to find a reason to reject her.

    You say, I like you, you know, if you want to go to graduate school, I am willing to share all my money with you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Just adjust your mentality, don't try to socialize first... Ordinary friend relationships.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Learn to wait and see.

    If she takes the initiative to repay the money, she will chase after her.

    If she doesn't take the initiative to pay it back.

    The landlord still polished his eyes a little and looked at it clearly.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Try it, don't let the woman open her mouth first. You're okay to ask her out for more. If she doesn't go, it will be no show.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You don't have to ask yourself.

    Say it directly.

    If she didn't have the idea to just be friends.

    Wouldn't it be better to break that mind earlier?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Excuse me, this is a great opportunity! It's not always a good idea!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    No play. It's still important to focus on your career

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Lend it to her. I can take this opportunity to bring you closer.

    Maybe she likes you too, and she also takes this opportunity to have a good relationship with you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Then you create an opportunity to take the initiative to borrow...

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I like you so much, such a nice person, lend me it, I've been short of money lately. Kindness?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Lend me a million to play, it shouldn't be a problem.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    If you like her, I feel that you should give it to her, whether it is a lie or not, she can't lie to you all the time. Since things have come to this point, it is possible that her good impression of you will only decrease, so you can ask her attitude directly, if not, separate, don't contact.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    In fact, sometimes, care about people, don't have to think too much, at this time, just a simple sentence "are you okay" "how are you doing recently" maybe she is very comforted, if you still want to chase her, you have to act as if nothing happened, as usual, otherwise she will feel very embarrassed, girls are like this, even if she has rejected you, but you are good to her, she still knows and will remember, I hope to help you!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Now you don't have to ask, that's all, you didn't lend her money, no matter what her situation is, you are looking for her afterwards, there is no point anymore. Because between you, you like her, she doesn't necessarily like you

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Forget it, you, it's obvious, this kind of thing is not visible, you ask in vain, you won't say if you ask, you still bother you if you ask, it's not together anyway, give it up quickly! Do business well, have the capital, and then find a good one! She rejected you, with your current situation, it is not suitable to chase her, she will not accept it, change the status quo !

    Hi, and I'm a virtuous landlord.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    If it's me, just post: I heard a friend say that you are borrowing money for a man, I am not as stupid as you think......**, the treatment of the disease, it can be said that it is for another man. If not, she may think that you still like her, and use it when you need it urgently, and tell you why you want to borrow money.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    In fact, there is no need to discuss this kind of thing. I can't say what a good way to do it. The so-called party is a fan. Emotional matters are not something that others can help. LZ still has to think more about what to do.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    She's lying to you, she must have borrowed money for some other purpose, but this use is unspeakable, and it is inconvenient to tell you.

    She doesn't agree to fall in love with you, and now she thinks of you when she uses money, and I don't think she has a good character.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    According to common sense, you will never be contacted to borrow money from someone far away. Second, you yourself said that you don't usually keep in touch with each other, so what's the point? Finally, is it necessary to ask people again? Whether it's true or not, I don't think you need to go to the contact again.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    You might as well give up this kind of girl! I also have a friend who knows a woman who borrowed money like this, and I care about her and don't want to say that she really likes you, and it is important to believe in your feelings.

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