Would you mind if your girlfriend has more friends of the opposite sex around you?

Personally, I don't mind it, I've had two fights with my girlfriend over this issue. My girlfriend is one year higher than me, I graduate this month, I love her very much, and I want to give her the best, because of her company and dormitory, I don't have time to eat with her on weekdays, she will work overtime from time to time, because I have recently turned positive, so there are a lot of things, and I often can't reply to my messages, sometimes I forget to reply when I am busy, and I reply with my thoughts, but unfortunately I didn't receive it, and I will be a little left out because of this, but in the end, after chatting, I can also understand, to be a sensible man. I also want my girlfriend not to play alone with other boys, my request is to play with a group of people, but only one boy is not allowed, because I will be cranky, the previous thing is just a special case, because that time I didn't wait for my girlfriend to understand that I thought I was going to talk about her because of a friend of the opposite sex, so I got angry, coaxed for a long time, she also knows about watching movies, she thinks it's just watching movies, of course there are no secrets in public, and she can't be asked to break off relationships with other boys (almost this means, I can't ask her to break off the relationship, because this is only yours She has the right to change her social relationship, and couples can't force each other to change, which is not scientific, because the change is voluntary, so she who doesn't want to change for you may be fake.

Would mind because I want my girlfriend to be the only one of the opposite sex around me so that I will be happier.

As a girl, I would be very mindful that my boyfriend has many friends of the opposite sex around me, although I know the truth, boys also need friends to talk to, maybe when I quarrel with my girlfriend. Communicating with friends of the opposite sex can better know what girls think, and some inconvenient topics are not easy to talk to girlfriends, you can find friends. My boyfriend's friends of the opposite sex around him show that he is attractive and has a good eye, etc., I will not restrict him from making friends, but it is only limited to friendly nods. ‍‍

It depends on what level of friends, ordinary friends are okay, for example, you are in the field, your girlfriend is in the local area, it is a heavy rainstorm in the local area, and your girlfriend rides a bicycle and wants to wait for the rain to stop, and then a friend of the opposite sex who has a good relationship with your girlfriend happens to come to her near no car and says that she wants her girlfriend to send him home, then send it, I pretend to be generous, you say that if it is the opposite, it is okay, girlfriend has no car and is sent home, but it is still a man, and my girlfriend is still a big grin to open ** for me, can this be endured? I'm not happy, my girlfriend is still very stupid and asked me what's wrong with you, are you unhappy, I'm about to panic, you hurry up with me, hey, what do you say. I'm not angry when I'm amused by my girlfriend's reaction, it's so silly and cute.

Yes, although I have been mentally suggesting that it is not good to be jealous, it can't be like this, but sometimes it is still very uncomfortable, and I still can't deceive myself, but I won't be angry, I know that she loves me and I love her, although it will be uncomfortable, but I believe in her. ‍‍

I mind very much that my girlfriend has the opposite sex around me, and I know that just ordinary friends will be jealous, every time my girlfriend tells me that I don't play with them, I always chat with them, and I always say something similar to missing you, are you coming to xx? Come to play with me, always think I don't know, love to play a little smart, I have mentioned it a few times on the surface, and after being talked about perfunctory, I hid these thoughts in my heart. ‍‍

If you want to mind, there will definitely be, no matter which man, as long as he really loves his girlfriend, he will basically do this.

Needless to say, both boys and girls will mind, and this is possessiveness. ‍‍

Will mind, loving someone is selfish, and you don't want others to share your girlfriend's good with yourself.

Why do so many people say that there is straight male cancer, mental cleanliness, I say that I am almost all female friends except for my eight room (er) friends (zi), what do you usually do, who complains, usually tell them, so, I think my girlfriend has a few male friends, it's not a big problem, but it can only be friends, can't rise, don't let me find out if it rises, otherwise I'm easy to fly.

Actually, I don't really mind that, after all, everyone can make friends.

Will there be anyone who doesn't mind? Forgive me for being a straight man, anyway, I mind, if you play with me, I'll hesitate, don't say you don't take me.

Everyone in love is a jar of vinegar. It was as if everyone was trying to meddle in their feelings.

Your girlfriend has a lot of friends of the opposite sex around her, I think this is a very normal thing, because she is a person, so she will definitely have a lot of people of the opposite sex around her, this is very normal, you don't need to be unhappy, because she is a normal woman, she has her own friends, she has her own way of life, so you don't have to worry about these problems.

To be honest, I must be very mindful of having friends of the opposite sex around my girlfriend, because no one wants their girlfriend to be nice to other boys. If I don't mind, I think it doesn't matter if the other party really doesn't love his girlfriend. Only people who really love each other will care about everything about her, including anything she does, anyone she meets, and she wants to know, this is what a boyfriend should do!

First, I don't mind my girlfriend having contact with her friends of the opposite sex, but I don't want to stand in the way because I don't want my girlfriend to be in the middle of being between myself and my best friend of the opposite sex. There is also the fact that she has her own interpersonal circle, and I can't limit her circle and limit the scope of her interactions, but I will tell her that the unhappiness comes from a boy's jealousy of another boy, and it would be good for my girlfriend to comfort and comfort me.

Second, because I think I love my girlfriend enough, I believe in my girlfriend, and I believe that she only exists in the friend range of her friends of the opposite sex, so I will not limit it, but if there is a friend of the opposite sex around her who likes her, then I think I can bring it up with my girlfriend. Because it's very dangerous to have a person of the opposite sex who is eyeing me, I have to double down on my girlfriend. And if my girlfriend really loves me, she will naturally keep a certain distance from these people of the opposite sex.

In short, in our relationship, if there is a person of the opposite sex, I will mind his existence, of course, if I have a friend of the opposite sex in front of my girlfriend, she must be my idea, so I will swear my sovereignty to my girlfriend in the presence of all friends of the opposite sex, and keep a certain distance from them, and in the presence of friends of the opposite sex, my girlfriend must also be present, this is the sense of security that my boyfriend should give her.

Mind. Because I don't think there is a pure friendship between a man and a woman, and for the two of them to be friends, one must like the other.

Mind. Because I am a jealous person and possessive, I will be very mindful that my girlfriend has friends of the opposite sex around me.

I don't mind this kind of thing because it only proves that my girlfriend is very good.

I do mind that I have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, because this is an irresponsible and serious attitude towards mutual relationships.

The most important thing between lovers is to be respectful, truly respect each other, and care about the feelings of others, so that they can get along better, and they can get more trust with each other, and work together to create a better future.

1.Keep a calm mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

2.Communicate with full respect for the other person.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride will only become a stumbling block to communication, so it is foolish to judge at least to abandon one's so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3.Communicate openly and sincerely.

In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with the person you communicate with, and do not hide it, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.

4.Be humble when communicating.

I'm right when I shut down", this attitude will only lead to the deterioration of the communication relationship and make it impossible for communication to continue. When communicating, it is best to keep your profile as low as possible, that is, to fully respect the opinions of the other party, and to express your opinions and opinions appropriately and not excessively.

Even if you think that your statement is not wrong or there is a problem with the other party's opinion, you should first listen to the other party's words, different people have different ideas, the ability to express and understand is also different, there may be the other party's expression mistakes or their own understanding is biased, you should lower your posture and listen patiently.

5.Learn humorous ways to communicate.

Humor can bring oneself closer to others, but also resolve many conflicts, when there is a misunderstanding of work communication, humor can change the awkward atmosphere, is a skill that must be mastered in the workplace.

I mind, my boyfriend also has a friend of the opposite sex, the relationship is very good, basically meet every day and chat every day, the other party talks about everything, but this girl is 35 years old (her face is very fashionable, young, she just divorced not long ago) said that she recognized the sister, but she usually calls each other's names, my boyfriend is only 22, and this girl often spoils with them, this girl has a car and a house, my boyfriend is often her driver, and other men are often, they all say that they are friends, and everyone goes out to play that day, When I got in the car, I sat in the back, and the back was not enough to sit, she said that it was his, (the co-pilot was my boyfriend's meaning) this girl was driving, and we quarreled after I got home that day, and he also scolded me for being neurotic, saying that I was thinking about something all day long, and I cried, and he didn't come to coax me. Then I mentioned breaking up, and he came to coax me. Say pay attention to it later.

But it's still like this for a few days, I contact him every day, and that girl is looking for him for everything. But he also often pulls me along, but I still have a diaphragm, uncomfortable, sometimes I don't talk when I'm unhappy, and they have fun as if I'm transparent. Equally important is mutual respect.

You say you mind the friends he makes of the opposite sex. In fact, most people don't mind the object's friends of the opposite sex, or they are afraid that in the process of chatting with friends of the opposite sex, they will find that they are not as good as others, and their image will become imperfect from then on. But to figure it out, no one is perfect.

On the contrary, as long as he has friends of the opposite sex, you interfere, and you always feel that what will happen to the development of the two of them, so are you doubting the purpose of his chat? Everyone has a very normal heterosexual socialization. Suppose you talk to a female colleague in the unit about a little work problem, she will say how do you talk to people every day, are you interesting to others, what do you think at this time, empathy.

At this time, it will make the other party feel a kind of disrespect or even an insult. Am I such a character in your heart? Will I easily give up my current relationship as long as I have the opposite sex?

Of course, I would mind that the object has a good friend of the opposite sex. Because the object's friends of the opposite sex will lead to a very awkward relationship, that is, there will be some friction between yourself and your object, so it is a negative attitude to have a good friend of the opposite sex with the object.

First of all, having a boyfriend with a lot of friends of the opposite sex does add a lot of stability factors, which can also lead to a crisis in one's own relationship. In fact, we will find that most girls are still reluctant to let their boyfriends have many friends of the opposite sex, because once a boyfriend has many friends of the opposite sex, it will also lead to a lot of crises in the boyfriend's feelings for him. So it is precisely because of this that this leads to a lot of unstable factors in the dissipation of feelings, which will also lead to the quality of love.

Secondly, if your boyfriend does have a lot of female friends, it will also lead to a sense of crisis, so it will also affect the development of your relationship in the future. If your boyfriend has a lot of female friends, then there are indeed a lot of problems at this time. And it will also lead to some sense of crisis in yourself, and it will indirectly affect each other's feelings and mutual trust, so it will also increase a lot of emotional uncertainties.

Finally, I have to say that there is also a big problem with the boyfriend's self-control, so once there are more friends of the opposite sex, it will inevitably lead to some emotional disputes. In fact, I have to say that the hero is sad about the beauty, so it is precisely because of this that if the boyfriend does have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, then it will also increase at this time due to the uncertainty of the occlusion. And once you are in a relationship with friends of the opposite sex, it will inevitably be misunderstood, so it will affect the feelings between each other.

In fact, for us, boyfriends have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and we will also mind ourselves very much at this time. And it will also increase your sense of crisis, and at the same time, in the process of relationship development, if there are some abnormal behaviors between your boyfriend and friends of the opposite sex, it will also indirectly affect your feelings with each other.