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Big brother, in fact, the problem you said is not the root cause, what I want you to know is why girls care about details. Most of the boys are rough-leaved, and that's normal. In fact, girls don't really want you to be so meticulous, but want you to be wholeheartedly devoted to her, truly love her and care for her.
And these are often reflected in the details of the boys. As long as you are sincere to your girlfriend and you are sure that you love her very much, then you don't have to pay attention to the details that ordinary people pursue, you will naturally think about her everywhere, that is what girls really want!!
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There are many kinds of details.
It's up to you to see if you're sure, and the most important thing is to dress appropriately for your date, preferably early.
Everything else has to be the first thing that comes to mind.
When she's in a bad mood, you try to make her laugh.
Also, be kind to your friends.
This is the most important thing. Also.
You can't lose your temper with her, as long as you are really careful with her, girls won't be so picky.
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Girls are very detail-oriented people, and what they really examine in dating boys is whether the boys are in place in terms of details.
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Normally, the details that girls talk about are caring for girls in details. Be able to notice any changes in girls and what is uncomfortable in their daily lives. This will make the girl feel special warmth.
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1. Care for the details of life.
Caring enough to feel that you care about her, especially in the small details of life.
For example, greetings after a cold, or how you feel today, if you encounter anything bad, etc.
Caring is the embodiment of details, and it's good to know that you have her in mind. 2. Be good at discovering her strengths.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and if you only focus on the shortcomings of girls, it will be difficult for you to continue dating.
The details that girls want are nothing more than praising her strengths, tolerating her shortcomings, seeing through them without demolishing them, knowing that you are not perfect, but I can still accept it.
3. Complete the promise to her.
People can't stand without trust, they can't talk and don't count, and if you promise a girl's thing, you have to work hard to do it.
Even if you try your best, it is still difficult to achieve the desired effect, and the girl will not blame you.
But the fact that you are aware of your commitments and work hard to achieve them is in itself a reflection of the details. 4. Remember what she said.
You can remember what a girl said, which in itself is a kind of care for her. 5. The sense of ritual of life.
In addition to the reluctance of firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are also poems and longings for distant places.
On ordinary days, girls can tolerate men's carelessness, but on some special holidays, such as Valentine's Day, girls will be especially concerned about whether the man has prepared gifts for her.
The details that a girl wants are not that you can do everything well, but that everything about her should be taken seriously as a holy decree. At the same time, yes.
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You have to know what dishes she likes to eat, which brand of cosmetics she uses, when her aunt comes, and what she likes to do usually, which reflects your intentions.
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You can block the corner of the table for her when you look down.
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Preferences are in the details.
The detail is that this girl sent you a message in the middle of the night, and you should not care about the content of the message, but why she hasn't slept so late.
When talking to a girl, you must slow down, because this will make the girl feel that you are a very caring boy, and will not make the girl feel that you don't care about a girl so much, and when you talk to a girl very slowly, it will make the girl feel very comfortable, and there will be no special nervousness.
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Details are some sense of ritual, or something that is easy to be overlooked, and there is a look or an attitude, these are all part of the details, and girls pay special attention to these things in the relationship.
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It's something that is easy to be overlooked, I don't say it when I'm uncomfortable, but he can notice that when I'm unhappy and don't want to talk, he can also enlighten me very well, and he can also find my emotions, and he will take care of me very much.
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Girls will be weaker than boys in many aspects, but girls will pay attention to details, which is much stronger than boys, in many things that need to pay attention to details, girls tend to do better than boys, which is why girls often say to pay attention to details, in some trivial things a small detail will make people look at you impressively, so that their probability of success will be greater.
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For example, girls will be uncomfortable when they come to menstruation, their faces will be paler, and they will be more irritable, but they will not say it, if the boys notice the changes in the girls' mood and the changes in their faces, it is the girls who are careful and pay attention to details.
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The details in the mouths of girls are the specific manifestations of the details of things, and you can see a person's temperament from here.
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Pay attention to appearance.
Don't be unkempt, dress neatly and cleanly, and be proactive.
Keep your breath fresh and always have some gum on hand. You can be bad at words, but you must not be filthy.
Fresh breath is an important manifestation of the mental outlook, even more important than dressing up.
If the smell is annoying as soon as you open your mouth, any woman will be scared away by you.
Be punctual. Punctuality is a sign of integrity, and a girl can deliberately be late for a date as a test of the other person's patience.
But boys must be punctual, this skill reflects the importance you attach to this date, and it can also reflect your attitude towards life, honesty and trustworthiness everyone will have a good impression, and it is very ungraceful to let girls wait for you for a long time.
If you run over panting and say, "I'm sorry, there's a traffic jam on the road", I'm sorry, why did you go earlier, you give the impression that you are unreliable, so go out early on your first date, otherwise there will be no next chance.
Be humorous when you talk.
When looking for common topics, you must be natural, and don't keep asking questions, like checking your account. Try to find common topics to induce the girl to talk more.
Make some jokes appropriately, laughter is the best mood regulator, reduce the atmosphere, let the girl relax, and your conversation will be more effective.
Especially when encountering embarrassment, you can easily resolve it with humor, which not only adds points to your image, but also doubles your confidence.
But we must pay attention to the sense of proportion, there is not much to say, the key is nature.
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Girls care more about boys being polite and filial to their parents, and they treat themselves very well, and boys themselves also need to have a sense of responsibility.
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First of all, concentration is very important, cultivate concentration. Concentration refers to the state of mind in which a person is concentrating on a certain thing or activity. If she is disturbed by the outside world while concentrating on things, she will be emotionally unstable, impatient, and unable to concentrate at all, and it will be difficult for her to get things done.
Therefore, while the girl is focused on doing things, we need to eliminate all distractions. In this way, we can pay more attention to the details of the bad luck.
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Know the cold and know the heat. When she is on her birthday, you take the initiative to buy a gift to surprise her, quickly smile and deliver it to their company, pick her up when you get off work, take the birthday cake you have prepared, take her to a restaurant with a strong sense of atmosphere, and then prepare a thing for her that she is usually reluctant to buy but needs (Dior's lipstick, **necklace, bag, or seasonal**clothes, skirts, shoes).
When she tells you that someone has asked her to play, give her a racket and a cue.
When she said she was uncomfortable, she didn't say you drank some water, but brought a bowl of porridge and called him when she got to the door and said "open the door".
When she is unwell and needs to go to the hospital, you must accompany her, even if you are busy working overtime, you must ask for leave to accompany her.
Take her to eat, you haven't eaten the beautiful blind food.
Wear Feng Shen Chong high heels to the street, allow her to walk barefoot when her feet are uncomfortable, help him pay attention to whether there is anything on the ground that will hurt his feet, and then go to the convenience store to buy a Band-Aid and give her a lollipop, her feet hurt, but her heart is sweet.
When I can't accompany her during the holidays, I help him book air tickets and bus tickets for him to go out to play.
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