How do I communicate with my boyfriend????!!!!

You should sit down and have a good talk, tell him what you want to say, and clarify your ideas to each other. If he feels that he is not able to speak, he can ask his parents or his friends to persuade him to correct it. I feel that women are very practical now, and they don't like men who spend money lavishly, because in the future, considering that they can't save money after getting married, they are not very comfortable living a very tight day every day, and they think about spending money in useless places, which is called living.

This is probably related to the formation of the acquired concept of education, and their family has money for him, and it is very difficult to change.

Your boyfriend typically enjoys life. If there is no plan, let him have a plan. You ask him how much he loves you, and he says he loves you very much, and you say that we can save money together to buy a car, buy a house, buy an aircraft carrier missile base, or something like that, anyway, let him save a lot of money, of course, don't really buy it when you have money.

Preaching alone will not work. Don't indulge him too much. But be careful not to hurt the harmony.

I wish you a good love.

This needs to be communicated, tell him your thoughts well, you are looking at life in the long run, and he only looks at the present, this must be thought to let him know, but can not give him a feeling that you care too much about money, I think if he really has a good relationship with you, it will slowly change... It takes time to get rid of these problems ... Judging from the situations you mentioned, he still cares about you very much, but he doesn't know how to make you happy, you have to be patient to guide him, or give him some convincing examples, three dollars a month, it is difficult to go down in today's society...

I support your opinion!

Let's talk about the future, maybe we can understand it by talking about the future

Let's change homes. You don't give him money.

First of all, you have to understand that you can't be completely compatible with your boyfriend or husband, you can't be with anyone, and you have troubles with everyone.

You can tell him the idea that you don't want him to buy you things but give you money, and I'm sure he'll understand.

As for the problem of consumption concept you mentioned, this is cultivated since childhood, it is not easy to change, you can inadvertently tell him what you think, I think as long as the money he spends will not affect his normal life, it is okay, and I think this problem can be solved after marriage.

You can say to him: I really like you. But it's time for us to meet the parents.

I'm getting married. I hope we can save some money. Have a plan.

You can't do this job for the rest of your life. Three thousand dollars may still be enough for you now. When it's time to live later.

When I have children. We can't help but plan for the future. At the age of forty, he exchanged his life for money.

After forty, take money for life. There hasn't been a minor illness or disaster in the future. We still have to ask for food, do we?

You can talk to him more. Tell him everything you want to say. See what he intends.

If he thinks he can't change it anymore. That's it. Three thousand are so arrogant.

Don't let it be. No future.

Never compare your own woman to someone else's.

Don't turn yourself into what you hate.

Able to express their own clear needs, but also tactfully take care of the other person's emotions. This is the communication formula of perfect love. In fact, it is in intimate relationships to master the art of a good sense of proportion, and to know "when to speak directly and when to use voice-over euphemistically".

If it is not suitable, it means that you can not have a common language and are not on the same channel.

This problem is the problem of long-distance relationships. I think the chance of a long-distance relationship being able to achieve a positive result is not 10%.

If two people love each other, when he goes abroad, you should consider whether you can withstand the test of separation.

Not every love can endure. Even if two people love each other, many things will happen in reality when they are separated, and it is not something that can be endured by just having love. Forced to break up, but the two people still love each other, and there are many lovers in the place.

Since he has decided to go abroad, you should also prepare for a long-distance relationship. Then I think you're ready. Now that he is prepared, he has no reason to be angry at all about the situation you are talking about. On the contrary, he is very ignorant!!

Even if two people are separated, they must live in each other's own society and environment. Life is colorful, then you will encounter all kinds of sudden problems. You don't have time to stare at his phone all the time, you have to live, but as long as you live, these are unavoidable.

Unless you are an otaku for him, waiting for your phone 24 hours a day, waiting for you at any time. You have to wait for news from him when he's busy, and you have to wait for news from him when he's not busy. Because you don't know when he'll have time.

He may send you a message every time he goes to the toilet, and you are also in the toilet without your mobile phone. Various situations.

So, you agree to a long-distance relationship, but in fact you don't have all the conditions for a long-distance relationship. You are all kinds of immaturity, all kinds of mistrust, all kinds of incomprehension of each other. Since you don't have the conditions, don't play long-distance relationships and look at the problem rationally.

You will occasionally get angry with each other, and when you are angry, you will have to quarrel. Practice has proved that playing ** will not solve any problems. Expensive international roaming is all for nothing, just to vent.

So the most important thing is that you have to fully understand him and consider the problem from his point of view, and he must understand you and consider the problem from your point of view. Can you do that? He only thinks that you don't care about him, that you are busy, and that you are not paying attention.

Why doesn't he want you to actually act has proven that you are waiting for him to come back. Otherwise, I would have had tea with other men.

The solution is to be silent, wait for him to lose his anger, miss you, calm down, and explain the problem in return. There's no need to move the problem out and try to solve it, it will get worse and worse.

Thanks, right.

Then you take the initiative, you first tell him to understand your situation, but it is not easy to notice the problem with the phone, and then you can send him more text messages. Don't always let your boyfriend take the initiative to find you, you also have to take the initiative more, then doesn't he think you care about him? But there is a degree to everything, don't text too often, and give each other free space.

He should understand your work, how to do this, trust each other, and don't let the distance get farther and farther away.

It is recommended that you communicate with him well, explaining that it is not that you don't care about him, but that you do have something.

If he doesn't trust you, do you think this kind of love is tiring, and can you go on in the future!

What exactly is the problem?

I don't think that's a problem.