Ask the question if you are in favor of celibacy

Not deliberately in favor of celibacy, but not against celibacy.

Is marriage a sign of success, I don't want to pour cold water on many people; Is celibacy a symbol of failure, I don't want to offend many good people by saying things against my will. You don't see the surroundings, and I don't know who envy whom. I have been born once, I have seen it, laughed, cried, and stayed, and I thought it was a success.

Life is like an ant, don't worry about it.

In this good time, none of us should give up hope and joy at such a good time.

Happiness is preferred, and it is all out of the way to the back.

Disapprove, that's a mental illness, people are originally social animals,

It's not that if you can't help it, don't do it.

It varies from person to person, and I won't.

This society has left me aside! I also want to simply fall in love and get married. Let's live ordinarily.

But this society has to abandon me. I'm single all my life!

Approve. It's okay to be in love, but don't get married.

Because I don't believe that in today's society, love can remain unchanged for 60 years like my grandmother's generation.

I also believe that love has nothing to do with marriage, and it is useless to be tied up when you like it, and it is useless to have marriage tied up when you don't like it.

I appreciate a simple, casual, free life, and everything I love will disappear when I get married.

I appreciate celibacy, probably because I'm still young, I haven't met anyone who makes me feel like I have to get married, and maybe I'll change my mind later.

Personally, I'm in favor of it, but I guess I'll regret it when I'm old.

It varies from person to person, and for me, disapprove.

Fashionable new mainstream single aristocrats.

I like that my brother is a nobleman!!

It depends on the person and the time.

I thought that only one person in a group of fox friends got married, and we all said that he couldn't think about it and broke away from the organization.

Now there are only a few singles, and people who are married say that these people can't think about it and can't keep up with the organization.

This"Organize'The hall of fame is too big.

I'm in favor of rich single people, and those who don't have money don't have to say

You can not have confidence in your relationship and marriage, but you have to have confidence in yourself, you don't have to think so much about it now, just live every day happily.

Everything is changing, and in six or seven years, you're going to meet enough people and things, and maybe by that time, you've met someone who has given you a renewed faith in relationships and marriage, or a new perspective on your lifestyle.

Move with affection, know with reason.

Of course, there is only one life, and you have to be free and free.

Yes, you only live once!

Whether you want to start a family or be single, I advise my friends to think twice!

Dudink, it looks like the descendants are going to be cloned.

There are pros and cons. Whether or not it is beneficial to society as a whole depends on the circumstances of a particular country.

As far as the points discussed by the landlord are concerned, they are indeed beneficial to China and are also in line with the actual situation in China at present. China is still overpopulated and has a large number of potential fertility populations. As you said, there is a shortage of educational resources, employment problems are very serious, resources are insufficient, and environmental pollution is serious.

The presence of a dink is beneficial in alleviating these conditions. But for some countries that are concerned about ageing, they have to encourage childbearing, because they don't have enough labor, not too much. The policy of any country is formulated in the light of its own overall situation.

China does not currently discourage or oppose Dink's policy, and it is also based on its own situation (I think it is still lacking). There are too many Dinks, and China's pension insurance system is not perfect, and too many elderly people who cannot live independently in the future may affect the operation of society, so the state does not encourage it. However, the country has too many people, and Dink helps to relieve the population pressure of the country, so the state does not object.

Of course, the direction of the state can only be in terms of policy, and in a democratic country, the right to reproduce or private rights is decided jointly by the husband and wife.

Personally, I still think that the country's current policy on Dink is still lacking, and it should maintain the same treatment as people with one child. For example, families who have only one child in Shanghai have certain benefits and subsidies, but Dink does not. This is not good, because Dink is also in line with the general population trend of the country.

Agreed!You've already summarized the reasons. The expansion of the population will give rise to contradictions between man and nature and many contradictions between people. But there is no need to advocate celibate Dink, what choice is someone else's private matter, and others have no right to interfere and criticize.

In addition, in this era, I can't support myself, and I really don't know how to afford to hold a child

Inequality is inevitable. In the case of limited resources. More work, more reward.

Our country is dominated by peasants, as long as they have fewer children.

There is an only child fee, 120 yuan per year, this fee is for children, if the in-laws raise the child, you can take it, vice versa, no.

I'm in the same situation now, but you're much better than me, my girlfriend's family is strongly against it, it's up to you, and it's up to you whether you're worth following her. Love him or not. Love sometimes requires perseverance to be happy, and this may be a test for you.

Think it through and make a decision you don't regret.

Maybe leaving is a relief, so let it go and find a better one in your own home.

There's no need, and there's no need for your family to beat you.

Don't think about it like that, it will become a situation after a long time. If you really have a deep relationship, are you willing to wait a few years for each other? Let him work hard and make some achievements, and maybe your family will agree.

But your family is also for your own good, and your family wants you to live a good life. You also have to understand the painstaking efforts of your family.

Love is a good thing, but it's also painful to really love each other and not be together, and I'm sure you must know what you want....Then there is an answer. (Believe in yourself).

Is this relationship worth cherishing?

Is the same thing as love really destined?

The Creator has given us freedom of mind, freedom of choice: we can be diligent, or we can be lazy; We can be friendly or perverse; Of course, we can choose to believe in the Lord or we can choose to follow the devil, and it is all in our own hearts.

I want to be celibate, I've been emotionally traumatized, I've seen the world cold, I've experienced a lot of things that others haven't. I already feel a little bit like seeing through the red dust. People live in this world, and what they yearn for and pursue is feelings.

But love is no longer there. The heart is also lost. What else can be taken to love.

I have nothing for my career or relationship. I wanted to die in the past, but I still lived. But friends, the world, can the world make you and me single?

It's impossible, one can only think. Very little has been done. After all, as you grow older, the emptiness in your heart will want someone to care for you and take care of you.

Were you forced to make a choice or were you hit by something?

Don't be so dashing

nothing si impossible ！

It's just that fate hasn't arrived

...When I was younger, I thought about this myself.

But it's hard to say, maybe you haven't met someone you really like, maybe you haven't thought about it that much for a while.

People sometimes don't live for themselves, but also for your family, and what about the eyes of your parents.

Everything comes at a price. is the so-called Pei Duofei's groan"Life is precious, but love is even more valuable. If it is free solid, both can be thrown. "

I want to be celibate, but not because I like freedom.

Freedom is relative, maybe your work is too depressing, and you need a free self-space.

Take it easy. The kite is free, but he also has a string.

Bless you too.

I think that the average single person is a person who is busy with work or has been deeply hurt emotionally!

It seems that you must have suffered setbacks in love.

Maybe she doesn't feel for you, doesn't reply to your text messages, doesn't let you go to her house, doesn't let you send her home. These actions are some of the messages she wants to convey to you, that she doesn't want to associate with you anymore.

Maybe he has something, you should do it more sincerely, move her with your heart, send messages every day to ask him about everything, ask him how he is doing, ask him if he has eaten......Something like that, it should work.

You can ask, tactfully, and offer to go and see the girl's reaction again, right?

Personal reasons. What has changed between you and what you have done recently.