Why I can t help but like men who are a lot older than me

Older men will have a mature and calm beauty after years of precipitation, deep eyes, and resolute courage between gestures, which cannot be found in those little boys. In fact, it is normal, which means that you have a certain taste, have grown up, and matured. What might it have to do with the horoscope.

But it should be noted that you are very young now, and it is not suitable for you to associate with such a man, especially a man with a family (remember) This is very dangerous, and you will regret it for the rest of your life if you make a mistake. Studying hard is something you need to do urgently.

For one, it may be that at home you have a lot of admiration for your father, and your father is also a more successful person. Gives you a lot of love and security.

Second, maybe your father got married at a young age, and he doesn't know how to love your mother or love you, so subconsciously you think that older men know how to love better.

Third, you may think that older people have successful careers and stable people. It's a great choice for choosing a mate!

Do you lack fatherly love? Was there any particular experience you had as a child that made you have a crush on older men?

Cancer girls are more insecure and want to hide in their shells and not be hurt, while you have an idealized idea of older men than you, thinking that they are mature and stable and can protect you, but in fact this varies from person to person, older people may have more experience and knowledge, but it is not suitable for you, whether they can be dedicated to you, take care of you, and appreciate you, which is not certain, so some emotions are your unilateral thoughts in it.

My dear, I'm also a Cancer girl.

Cancer women have always been sentimental and easily moved, and it is not wrong to like older men, but you are now a high school student, and you should focus more on studying, and when you really grow up, you will find that your likes will not be real likes, maybe just out of admiration.

The aesthetics are different, it's normal, I just like it.

This situation depends on the individual personality of each boy, and not every boy likes to find girls who are older than him.

In real life, because everyone's personality is different, everyone will have different attitudes when looking at their other half. Some boys do like to find girls who are raised by themselves, and sibling love is also very popular. Personally, I don't really object to sibling love, but I very much reject boys being irresponsible in their relationships.

In a way, if the girls are much older than the boys, the girls will have a hard time and the boys will not grow accordingly.

1. Not all boys like to find girls who are older than themselves.

The question itself is a false proposition.

For most boys, many boys can't accept that their other half is older than them, because boys will feel that they are being taken care of, and many people don't like this feeling. In fact, most boys like to find girls younger than themselves, and boys also hope that they can take on the responsibility of being two people together, and hope that they can take care of their other half. <>

Second, some boys do like to find girls who are older than themselves.

Some boys are relatively dependent on people, and sometimes even a little naïve. For such boys, when these boys are with girls older than themselves, they can be taken care of by the girls, and they will also feel that the girls around them are very attractive. As I said above, there is nothing wrong with sibling love, but I personally think that girls in sibling love will have a harder time, and boys and girls need to be mentally prepared.

3. Everyone will have their own personal choices.

When two people are not together, two people may be entangled in personality and age, but if two people really love each other, I believe many people will not be entangled in these factors. Because everyone's emotional life and upbringing are different, everyone will also have different attitudes and standards when looking for their significant other. I think everyone has their own personal choices, and the same is true for marriage attitudes.

Yes, boys will like girls who are a little older than themselves, because such girls are more gentle, sensible, considerate, will not look for trouble, and will understand their choices.

Personally, I think that boys will like some girls who are older than themselves, because such girls will make them feel very interesting.

Would love it. Because they think that such women are very attractive, and it will be easier to get along with such women.

In general, men will like women who are older than themselves for the following main reasons:

1 Some men prefer women who are older than themselves because they are more mature, intellectual, attractive, and experienced than women of the same age, and can bring more security, comfort, and respect to men.

2 Some men will like women who are older than themselves, because they have a certain psychological complex or preference, such as a mother-lover complex, a sister complex, a teacher complex, etc., or have been influenced by something, such as culture, **, society, etc.

3 Some men will like women who are older than themselves because they don't care much about their age, and as long as two people can attract, understand and support each other, they can ignore the age gap.

Of course, these reasons are not absolute or complete, and everyone's situation may be different.

The reasons why people fall in love with another person are complex. Age is definitely not the most important factor.

The impact of the age gap on a relationship can vary from person to person, both positive and negative.

1 The age gap may bring about differences in different life stages, values, hobbies, physiological states, etc., which may lead to difficulties in communication, understanding, coordination, etc., and even lead to conflicts and conflicts.

2 The age gap can be subject to social and family biases and pressures, and these external factors can affect the confidence and well-being of both partners, and even threaten the stability and sustainability of the relationship.

3 The age gap may bring different advantages in terms of attractiveness, maturity, experience, etc., which may increase the sense of security, comfort, respect, etc., and even promote complementarity and growth of both parties.

Therefore, the impact of the age gap on a relationship is not absolute or singular, but depends on how both parties view and deal with the issue.

If both sides can understand, support and respect each other, then the age gap is not necessarily an issue, but a challenge and an opportunity. If both sides are not able to do this, then the age gap could become a problem or even a crisis.

Yesterday I chatted with a friend and listened to her say that her view of mate choice has changed from a domineering president to an obedient younger brother, but instead thinking about her own view of mate choice has also changed to a gentle and considerate type, it would be best if she could be ten to twenty years older than me. He never denied that he had a father-love complex. I thought it was a change in the three views, but I suddenly found that the reason for the state end of the pyramid was a change in personality.

Women can have a paternal complex because fathers are usually less demanding of their daughters than their sons. Think about it, when women enter a relationship, the lovers they get along with usually have some kind of resemblance to their father in some way. It makes sense to think that the first man a woman comes into contact with is her father, and so do men.

What happens if a woman grows up without a father and a man without a mother?

Take myself as an example, I didn't live with my parents since I was a child, I grew up in my grandmother's house, my father was busy doing business, making money to support the family, and I didn't feel my father's love in my childhood, but my heart was very eager to get my father's love, forming a kind of psychological expectation;

I am more attracted to the kind looking, warm-hearted, amiable father-like uncles, in whom I feel that I can get the fatherly love that I have been lacking all along, if not what I imagined, at least better than the current situation. I was more of a sustenance for them, and I didn't want to have sex.

Until he reaches the age of choosing a mate, he also hopes that his other half can take care of himself like his father, and he likes the calm and funny of a middle-aged uncle and can take care of people;

"Father-lover" is not an unsightly thing, it just shows that we are psychologically attached to our father for a longer period of time and to a deeper extent than ordinary people; more eager to be cared for and pampered;

Meow Meow, who has a father-lover plot, sent a marriage notice by the way, hahaha.

Requirements: An uncle like the male protagonist in "My Physical Education Teacher".

Make yourself feel very secure and have the charm of a mature man when you're older.