Is such a marriage happy, can such a marriage be happy?

Marriage is run by two people, there are no big problems, there are many small problems, it is purely the living habits of two people, they are relatively lazy. But you too, don't use the previous idea, the only child also has to do housework, talk to him well, many people also have conflicts because of housework.

I'm also a person who doesn't want to move when I get home, but because I'm afraid of my wife, I'm still more honest to wash the dishes and clean them).

It's a long book, so I think you're very good at experiencing life and observing it in detail, which makes it easy for you to draw conclusions from some details that you could have overlooked.

I don't think others have the right to judge whether this marriage is good or bad, only advice on how to solve your problems. The two of you lack communication, so you should find some topics that you both have in common to communicate more. Also, don't pay too much attention to the details (of course, this is a woman's characteristic, personal opinion), some irrelevant things have to be passed and seize the joy of life.

Life is originally happy, but we feel that life is changeable and complicated. Life needs to be tolerant! (To be continued).

Finally, there are some typos in your question.

Your husband is already fine.

The two of them have to run in and tolerate each other when they are together.

You will have unhappy. But it would be nice to be able to accommodate.

I hope you are getting happier and happier.

It's that you're too selfish, you can clean up your home when you're pregnant, a small amount of exercise is also good for the fetus, how good your husband is to you, what else do you want, it's that you're too dissatisfied, he goes to work every day, picks you up, sends you, and it's also very hard, you should also be more considerate and care about him.

In fact, the two of you don't know each other very well, and now it takes time to get along. At the same time, both of you are not very mature, husband and wife are going to be together for a lifetime, and you should learn to treat each other with a thousand things, so that you can live a lifetime.

Your husband can do it, wash the dishes and sweep the floor. My husband can't move.

There are fewer and fewer such good husbands.

The parents introduced the partner, and decided to get married when they felt that the other party's conditions were suitable, and such a marriage was relatively stable, but it lacked romance and love.

Xiaoyu is a girl with a particularly simple life structure, the elders who know her say that they have never seen such a worry-free child, indeed, her life has been in accordance with the plan given to her by her parents step by step, admitted to a key high school, admitted to a good university, has never made a mistake, and even in the period when her peers have rebelled, she has always been obedient.

Maybe it's because of her conformity, she is also a lot less exciting than other girls, such as she has never been in love. So after her 24th birthday, her marriage became the most important thing for the whole family.

The attentive parents actually found a good partner for her early in the morning, the son of Aunt Zhou Zhou in the mother's unit, two years older than Xiaoyu, the two families know each other, and the family conditions and education level are comparable, so in this way, the two entered the marriage hall.

Is such a marriage good? Xiaoyu can't say no, because they are a match made in heaven in the eyes of everyone, and her husband is also very gentle and excellent, going home on time every day, and preparing surprises for her every small festival. But Xiaoyu always felt that there was something missing in the ordinary life.

In her previous fantasy, love belonged to romance and freedom, and could break all shackles, but now love is born in bondage, and their lives are stable, but there is less expectation and heartbeat.

I think that in such a marriage, as long as both people move in the same direction, although there is no heartbeat feeling, as long as they look at each other's advantages, they will be happy.

Is such a marriage happy? In fact, everyone has a different definition of happiness!

The question of whether the marriage is happy or unhappy is only known to oneself, and there is no point in asking others.

Now, with the increase in intellectual property rights, many women and men are reluctant to get married. 1.Financially independent, girls can support themselves.

Most of today's women are strong women in the workplace, girls are getting better and better, they can be independent in the workplace, and women are also very smart, so girls don't necessarily earn less money than men, which means that women are no longer the same as before, and have to rely on men to live. Nowadays, people and girls live a wonderful life by themselves, they can buy a car, buy a house, and travel alone, carefree, so at this time, they will not get married casually because they are willing to do so.

2.The quality of love is demanding.

With the progress of the times, more and more women have begun to realize that marriage is not two people living together, it is because of love, because of love, because two people get married, because of love, two people live together, this is the transformation of social thinking to self-conscious pursuit, and women have become more aware of the true meaning of marriage.

Marriage is like this, it is carried out on the basis of love to the next step. In the past, you could get married and live with anyone with similar conditions, but now women's ideas are completely different. They pursue love and desire marriage, but many times they can't find someone they like, so they don't need to get married.

Such a marriage lacks sufficient understanding and will have many potential hidden dangers. Weiwei and Xiao Guo are college classmates and fellow villagers, after graduation, most of the classmates chose to go back to their hometowns, and they both chose to stay and work hard, in a strange city, two familiar people soon came together. Xiao Guo was born in the countryside to conservative parents, and in his hometown, many of his peers were already married when he was in college.

Once his parents took the opportunity to say that they were going to send some special products to Xiao Guo, but after arriving, they had to see Weiwei. Weiwei met her parents very passively, and after the parents of both sides got in touch, they took the initiative to discuss the marriage, and Weiwei felt that she was not ready. The days of working hard outside are very hard, compared to working day and night, narrow rental housing, going back to the hometown to get married is indeed a good choice, both parents bought a wedding house for them, plus dowry and bride price, slightly feel very happy.

But the two did not live together before marriage, and many differences were slowly revealed after marriage, such as Xiao Guo always snoring loudly when he sleeps, and always smokes in the room. If there is a chance to do it all over again, Weiwei will definitely choose to understand more during the love period, and the most feared thing in marriage is disappointment and regret.

There is no one-size-fits-all formula for a happy marriage, but there are some key elements, and here's what a happy married life looks like.

While most couples' marital relationships begin with falling in love with each other, it takes effort and sacrifice to maintain affection for each other. True love means that you are willing to value your partner and are willing to give for each other and for this married life.

Being able to show love to the other person through words and actions, and respecting your partner's qualities, thoughts, and abilities means that you not only accept but appreciate your differences. Mutual respect can also help you listen to each other and overcome the challenges and disagreements that come your way in your married life. If the marital partners are not able to respect each other, then the marriage will certainly not be happy either.

In a happy marriage, no matter how busy they are, they will always spend time together doing what they enjoy, whether it's hiking, wine tasting, watching their favorite TV series, or working together.

While enjoying time together, two people also need to have their own private space. For example, he goes to a football match with his best friend, and you go to the meeting with your friend. Just because you're married doesn't mean you have to spend 24 hours together and not have separate interests and hobbies.

In a healthy and happy marriage, you can both understand that you also need to do what you want to do separately. If you don't realize this after the honeymoon period, something may arise in your married life.

Trust is the foundation of any happy marital relationship, whether it's trusting them when they're out with friends or confiding in them when you're upset. No matter how happy your marriage is, you're bound to have problems, big and small, but if you trust each other, you can work together to overcome them.

I understand that a happy marriage is that two people can support each other, love each other and are reluctant to make each other sad, and when they think of each other, they will feel very happy, very satisfied, and very fortunate to be able to meet such a person.

I think in today's society, a happy marriage mainly depends on the individual, everyone's understanding is different, in marriage, two people get along, as long as it is harmonious and mutually supportive, this is a happy marriage.

Every time two people talk about this marriage, they will be very happy, and two people can also learn a lot from this marriage, two people love each other very much, and two people also trust each other very much.

I think a happy marriage is when two people only have each other in their eyes, and they will not quarrel, and they will be very happy.

Personally, I think that my married life is happy, and a happy marriage is a state where two people are very comfortable together, and some people think that if they are not in love, the marriage will be very stable, but in fact, to live a good married life, it is necessary for the husband and wife to work hard together.

1. A marriage in which husband and wife respect each other is happy. First of all, mutual respect between husband and wife is the first important factor in marital happiness. Mutual respect is an important prerequisite for husband and wife to get along harmoniously, which can ensure that both husband and wife can maintain a good communication effect in their daily marital life, and at the same time create a good family atmosphere for both husband and wife, so as to raise a cheerful and lively child.

2. A marriage in which husband and wife appreciate each other is happy. Secondly, mutual appreciation between husband and wife is the second important factor of marital happiness. Mutual appreciation is an important prerequisite for promoting the relationship between husband and wife, which can ensure that both husband and wife can see each other's shining points in their daily interactions, and create more heart-warming moments for both parties, and this heart-warming moment can increase the interest and emotion between husband and wife, so as to achieve the purpose of harmonious life between husband and wife.

3. A marriage in which the husband and wife have the same consumption outlook is happy. Finally, the fact that couples share the same view of consumption is the third important factor in marital happiness. Because having the same concept of consumption is an important prerequisite for husband and wife to get along harmoniously, it can ensure that both husband and wife do not have too many disputes and unhappiness when purchasing large household items or other items, and reduce the opportunity for friction and contradictions between the two parties in life, so as to achieve the purpose of two people being able to live in harmony in the life of husband and wife.

Summary: No complaints, no regrets, optimistic attitude to life, ordinary feelings, extraordinary pursuits, this is a good marriage. No matter what hail difficulties we face, we must work together to overcome them.

No matter how much you sweat, you will smile. will not be oppressed by life, will not give in easily, will only move forward tirelessly, will not have too many complaints about life, move forward silently, and spend each other's day lead.

The married life I'm going through right now. To be honest, it's really not what I imagined. There is a lot of helplessness and hardship. There is a big gap from the life I imagined at the beginning.

1.When I didn't go into married life. I really look forward to that beautiful life.

I feel that kind of life should be carefree. Two people love each other. Care for each other.

It's a happy life together. But when you walk into marriage, you will find out. The happiness of two people is short-lived, and many trivial things will make you feel that marriage is very helpless.

There are many troubles and many things in daily life. Makes you feel tied down.

2.Because there is a responsibility to enter into marriage. This responsibility will make you feel that there are many things that you imagined at the beginning.

You can't do good things. Because you have to think about the stability of the family first. and the happiness of family life.

Although it is said that chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea. It's a simple life. But three meals a day is essential.

It's a very good feeling. Helpless. Sometimes you will cry out to be helpless.

But life is the way it is, and if you want to live a good life, you have to first. Overcome these thoughts, these things, and then point to normalize your life.

3.I used to think when I watched the movie Siege. Some of the things that are said there are not necessarily real life either.

But you don't know until you get married. It's really realistic. For example:

Marriage is like a siege that encloses you in the city. That's exactly how it feels. Because you have to follow some rules of married life.

You can't let yourself go free. There are many things you don't want to do. Like never willing to cook before.

But now it has to be done, if you don't do it, two people won't eat, so some things are really different from what you imagined.

But marriage has its beautiful side after all. Although chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea will make you feel helpless and helpless. But when you are a family, especially when you have children, you will feel very happy and happy.

Children will add a lot of fun to the family. So this marriage is different from what I imagined. But there is also a happy side to it.

In the more practiced, that sentence said. Tired and happy.