What if you are always alert to your surroundings and don t like people approaching?

You are overly sensitive to the people around you, and we don't need to be scared, it's more about trusting. People should get along with each other more, communicate more, and communicate more, so there will be no contradictions and no contradictions, and we don't need to be too wary of others. Maybe you've been insecure since you were a child, so you're scared of people around you or unfamiliar surroundings.

It's best to try to have more contact with people, don't be too lonely all the time, and learn to talk to someone, so that you can also solve your worries and worries.

People's hearts are varied, each has its own scheming, whether it is daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so that mutual suspicion, the mentality of self-deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life, and struggle is necessary. Otherwise, bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance their abilities, always remind themselves to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, it is not your subjective thoughts that can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

This is just a psychological suggestion, it's not that you really don't like people approaching, at most you can only be regarded as not liking strangers approaching, you can try to socialize with people more, especially with strangers, optimistic, generous, don't be afraid of shyness, exercise is very important.

There is a heart to defend against people, but you don't have to be vigilant anytime and anywhere, immediately relax your spirit, be vigilant when you should be vigilant, after all, there are not many bad people, more contact and communication with people, participate in more social activities, more sports, and make yourself a happy person.

It may be a personality problem, but once you get used to it, you will relax.

I don't trust anyone, I don't care about anything, it's not that you don't care, it's that you don't dare to care! Are you afraid of being hurt?

I think it's because you're insecure. I don't know anything about you, just look at what you say, tell you to relax and try to learn to accept others, these are empty words, I hope you get out of your confusion as soon as possible!!

It means that you are insecure, maybe not in a comfortable environment.

In the previous paragraph, I was the same as you, as long as I went out and heard something very loud, I was afraid, and it will be fine in a few days, but I have a mental problem, and I will not have such a reaction after a few days of rest

It doesn't matter.

If you feel that you are very sensitive to your surroundings.

Then it means that you are a very vigilant person.

Case. Then you can according to this characteristic of your own.

Find a job where you can play to your strengths.

Personality dictates.

I prefer to be alone.

Probably more introverted.

Actually, it's not very good.

Learn to socialize. It's a pleasure.

First, if you hate other people's concerns, you may have set up a wall for yourself. Many people are actually like a hedgehog in their hearts, for fear that others will hurt themselves if they get close, so out of a way of self-defense, they don't want others to get too close to their own care, but it is this kind of defense that prevents many people from wanting to have sex with you. Because you can't be kind to this person and can't like it, what I mean by liking is the simple liking of friends, and you feel that you are not all the way, so you are defensive, so you don't want to have too much contact with each other, because you feel that you will eventually have different directions.

Resistance to intimate contact. Feeling uncomfortable because someone else has broken or broken the boundaries you have set. There may be compulsive sexual behavior or even obsessive-compulsive disorder, where you think something bad will happen to someone else touching you.

Answer: Hello, this situation may be suffering from severe cleanliness mental illness, do you feel that others are close and touched, and crowded places are not clean, uncontrolled change of clothes, clean the body, and even wash your hands to open the skin still feel unclean? If so, first adjust your own psychology to see, if the effect is not good, you must see a psychologist to alleviate or cure this mental illness. Otherwise, it will get worse and worse, and if it progresses to severe depression, it will be troublesome.

It was relaxing to be on my own.

But someone is nervous when they come.

It may be that I am used to being alone.

Or the personality is introverted.

That's why that's the case.

It is advisable to try to find out the cause and make symptomatic adjustments.

all interact with others.

Proper going out.

Slowly, you will get used to the state.

This is normal, some people are more introverted and unsociable, and do not like to contact strangers. In fact, many people nowadays prefer to be alone and enjoy solitude. Of course, in life, it is more or less necessary to contact many people and things, so as not to follow the crowd, just be alone, and live for yourself.

It's normal to have this kind of mentality in your thirties, and if you don't have this kind of vigilant person for self-defense, and you're kind to everyone, won't you be treated as a child? Only newborn children who have no life experience will not have this kind of mentality, after all, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers.

This is normal, people who don't know each other very well, it's hard to know people and faces! If you don't take precautions, you can't have the heart of harming people, and you can't do without the heart of guarding against people, and you will not be deceived by doing so.

This is very normal, many people are like this, there is a saying that the heart of defense is indispensable, mainly because of the sense of security, caused by the lack of sense of security.

It's normal to be defensive, but it's not okay if it affects your own life.

Usually learn more about the other party's character, and naturally don't be too vigilant if you have a good character.

It's hard to say, because I don't like people approaching me deliberately and feeling uncomfortable. Especially if someone you don't like deliberately approaches you, you will be annoyed.

It's normal, after all, everyone's personality and psychology are different, some people just don't like the approach of others, don't overly reject, just maintain normal interpersonal relationships, you are you, there is no way to change it.

Maybe your meaning is aimed at you personally, maybe everyone's sense of security is relatively high, and then your personal sense of security is relatively low, that is, this sense of security is, others give you, it may be you or what kind of injury you have, in fact, I suggest that you should still let go of this mind, of course, a little more precautionary heart is there, but it can't be completely with the society or or, the person I want to contact with you now, is self-consciousness is a shield and an obstacle, So maybe what you want to see in this idea is to enlighten yourself.

Normal. Loneliness is the norm in life, especially as you get older, such feelings become more and more obvious and intense, as long as you feel happy and comfortable, what can't or is abnormal.

It is normal for people in their thirties to have this kind of mentality, including myself in my twenties, which can be regarded as a kind of self-defense psychology of people, which is very normal.

If people don't have this kind of self-defense vigilance and are kind to everyone, then they will not be treated like children? Only then the newborn has no life experience, there will be no such mentality, after all, the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers.

There's always someone who will walk into your realm without offsetting you. If the impact isn't significant, leave it alone.

It's normal, it means that you are a very decent person and don't like to slap horses.

It's normal, what's abnormal, I'm such a person, I'm a slow-burning person, I don't like that kind of deliberate approach, deliberate approach must have a purpose, now that I know, shouldn't I stay away from him?

It's normal. But. People who don't like it.

You definitely don't want to get close to him. But. You're a bit of an introvert.

You're going to get rid of it. If someone introduces you to a girlfriend. You don't want to talk to others.

No, it doesn't. You have to be assertive with yourself. Get rid of your faults.

You'll put it. Someone you like. Get close to yourself.

It's normal for you to do that.

It's normal! That's what I am, it's a kind of self-protection. If it's someone I don't really like or someone I don't know very well, I feel that way.

Because you don't like how close people are to you. This is normal, I don't like others to deliberately approach me. It's okay, maybe you are resistant to comparison. It will be easy to be sensitive.

It can only be said that you are a more introverted person, you have your own inner world, in fact, you are a little withdrawn, you have a ...... in the past

It's normal, the people in society are sinister, the law is not reliable, you can only protect yourself, and those who deliberately get close to you have a non-purpose for you.

You should be vigilant and be responsible for yourself.

It also depends on the identity of the other person, the purpose of approaching you, and so on.

Generally, such people have a purpose, and you can savor the specific purpose of the gods.

Some people will take the initiative to approach you and build a good impression of each other in communication. This kind of person is more clear and enthusiastic. On the contrary, some people have to observe you secretly for a long time before they start to be friends with you, probably because of their personality...

You are not the kind of person who loves to play and make friends very much, you may prefer to be alone, maybe you were too strict with your parents when you were growing up, at first you were forced to leave the group, and then after a long time, you always feel that you have no common language with the people around you, you have a psychological fear of the outside world, you don't know what to say in the group, you don't know what to do, you don't feel comfortable in anything, you always feel out of place with your surroundings, and finally you will escape from this environment under the effect of your own self-esteem and return to your own closed world.

This is due to the fact that you like the other person too much in your heart, and the other person's words and deeds attract your nerves.

And you are afraid of approaching, this is a kind of mental activity because you like it to the extreme, you are afraid of losing and being rejected.

Friends are advised to be brave and confident, and happiness is not obtained by cowardice, but by firm greed and daring to pursue.

Don't be taken advantage of at work. I feel that I am being tricked, I don't need to think too much, and I do my own thing steadfastly.

You are very depressed at work. You have to be vigilant at all times, you work hard like this, and if you continue like this, you will get depression, so it is better to change to a light job again.

Others don't want to get close to your own problems, have a better personality and a smaller temper, be realistic.

Friends around you are reluctant to get close to you, this is your own understanding, others don't necessarily think so, why bother.

How unreliable you have to be Friends around you don't want to be close to you It is recommended to watch more soap operas or Korean dramas The actors' behavior can be imitated Friends Emotional intelligence really needs to be improved I look forward to you meeting a better self.

Not really. The contact between people is mutual.

Only if you give others true affection, can others give you real emotions in return.

Character is accumulated, if the friends around you don't want to be close to you, then reflect on what you don't do well, and change it.