What if you want to be with your lover but don t want to make your parents angry?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because he is poor. Not tall and no education. But he is absolutely capable, and when I see your words, I will know what's going on. Maybe he's just out of luck.

    You can give him more time.

    If you're always unlucky, there's no way around it. Let it be.

    With such parents, I really want to die. It's so tiring.

    When I see your words again, I know that your character is still too immature.

    Perhaps, you are just indulging in the dreams you weave with him.

    Maybe my assumptions will never hold.

    Either way, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you all said he was fine, that's fine. Find a time to talk to your parents and talk about your thoughts.

    But the parents are all good for themselves, and they are also kind, don't blame them! In fact, you said that the person you said was poor, not tall, and had no education, and in reality, he himself was weak. If you don't care, then what's not to do.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will talk about it on a blind date and discuss it with my blind date, preferably in a very formal way, that is, when both parents and introducers are present, explain what it looks like, not anxious, not humble or arrogant, and talk about it with everyone.

    As for what natural and man-made disasters will happen after they tell it, it's their business.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nine-headed bird in the sky. Ground Hubei Yankees. Show it to your parents. No matter how blessed you are in the future, you will enjoy yourself. Guilty of their own suffering.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People's hearts change people's hearts, if parents can kiss their daughter-in-law like their sons, she will feel it, however, the living habits of the two generations will always be different, or keep some distance as the best policy, in this way, hello, I am good, everyone is good, don't force each other too much, leave it to the old man of time to slowly run in all this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    "If your lover doesn't want to have a good relationship with his parents" who doesn't love his parents, who else will he love? It's better for such people to leave as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Change your lover. It's not easy for your parents to feed you with a handful of and urine. If you want your daughter-in-law to do the same to you in the future, you think that your son should do what he should do, and parents are the best teachers for their children.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In that case, do you think you will be happy together, your lover and your parents are in trouble every day, you are in a dilemma, and this is the only way to change the relationship between your lover and your parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find out the root cause of the problem, try your best to coordinate, and resolve the conflict.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find out what the problems are on both sides, and then communicate them with each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find the reason.

    Analyze objectively and then figure out a way.

    You didn't say anything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    We must do a good job in educating and loving people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't have a good relationship with the other person's parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then live separately, if you are unhappy and forced to be together, you will be even more unhappy, separation does not mean that you do not honor your parents, you can also honor your parents well, leave your parents, and your wife and children will be more comfortable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In family life, husband and wife should tolerate each other. Once you are really excited to make a conflict, you will make feelings, you have a conflict, your lover runs away from home, Father Tian knows what to do if you don't say it, this kind of thing can not be decided by your parents, you should have a statement, you should take the initiative to admit your mistakes and tell your parents, don't let your parents be embarrassed, the matter of the two, who let a step is nothing, it means that you are generous and self-contained, so you have to take the initiative to do it, take your lover back and tell your parents that they will agree with you, husband and wife and parents will be happy, and everything will be prosperous

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When something like this happens, the lover and her parents must be very angry and sad. That's why it's like this. But as long as you have a good attitude and make the old people realize that it is good for their daughter, they should tell you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello. You can quote 110. My lover ran away.

    Missing. Tell the police everything you know. I can't have conflicts with my lover in the future.

    When two people live their lives, there is something not to discuss. When your lover returns, you have to admit your mistake to him. Apologize to your loved one.

    I will forgive you. Think about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have a conflict with your lover, your lover runs away from home, her parents know that they don't tell you, it's because you don't have the sincerity to find her back, if you want to come back to her parents** sincerely admit your mistakes, let him feel your sincerity, they will say that she is **.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Choose by yourself, have love and cherish and evidence, no sincerity and no love, only follow nature, parents do not say that parents are unwilling to spare your life, let you choose your own things, two of your compatibility, parents do not fully love and accept.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That's if you don't show the determination to get her back, or you don't perform to the satisfaction of others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If there is a conflict between you, you can communicate with each other, but if there is a conflict and the other party runs away from home, his parents also know, whether your relationship has broken down, if the relationship is broken, then break up. As the saying goes, persuasion is not persuasion, but there are many reasons for the breakdown of the relationship, so communicate it well, and let it go if it doesn't work, otherwise it will be painful for both parties to be together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I thought of a reason, a bit utilitarian, but I can't help but say that it is right.

    If there is a conflict between parents and lovers.

    What to do?

    Let go of the family first (be careful not to hurt them too much), choose a lover because the family is the family, and it will not change because you let go and avoid it, but the lover may be gone, so get the lover first.

    With the change of time, the relationship with the family will be restored (low-profile active peace) and this is OK.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you really love each other.

    Leave it all to yourself, and of course, it will take a lot of determination or even a break in your family relationship.

    Therefore, if you choose love, it is very giving.

    Then, you need to figure out whether he really loves you, how deeply he loves you, and if they are together, whether life can be happy.

    If you choose a family, then you need to consider whether you will be able to heal your wounds later in life and whether you will be able to heal the rift between you and your family.

    In fact, the most important thing is your own choice, don't let yourself always regret how good it would have been in the first place.

    I wish you happiness and joy too! ~

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Subjectively in themselves, they talk, not parents.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you love each other, stick to it, or break it up early.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's more troublesome, it's up to you to see if you really like him and love him, try to convince your parents, or find out the reasons why your parents are against it and consider their opinions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This kind of thing is really a headache! First of all, you have to determine whether you really love this person, and what is the most important reason for your parents' opposition?

    Generally speaking, parents are deeper than us in the world, and the consideration of the problem is more comprehensive than ours, and parents will not harm their children, they are all for our good, we are often not sober in love, so after knowing the opposition of our parents, think about it yourself, if what your parents say makes sense, then you should talk to your lover about your heart, if he can change your parents' views for you, this is the best, if not, you have to think about it!

    If you feel that your parents have a misunderstanding of your lover, then try to let them have more contact, understand each other, and find the advantages of each other after spending time with each other.

    I wish you a speedy ride out of your troubles!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you love each other, stick to it, otherwise you will regret it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    We also broke up because my parents didn't agree.

    I think I'll regret it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Just see what the problem is and solve it.

    If it can't be changed, try to do better in other areas.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You don't really love him.

    Or is there something between you? If you really love her, then keep loving her! You can think about why your parents are against it.

    The hearts of parents all over the world!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If it's someone you love who has something that turns them off, then you let him or her change. If it's because of factors such as the other party's family, this is a bit difficult. The only way to do this is to show you and your parents that it's not what they thought it would be.

    There is always a solution to many things. Don't be too impulsive, that is, don't do stupid things.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Listen to Mom and Dad! The thought that a man should have.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You'll know what to do.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's up to you what you think

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Of course, I would choose my parents, because they have nurtured me.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Choose your parents, because family affection will never change, love, hehe.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think I would still agree with my parents' choice, after all, family affection is more important.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I usually choose my lover, after all, I feel that as long as I love him, I will be with him.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If the parents don't agree, I will definitely ask why they don't agree. I'm not going to make a choice, I'm going to do both

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I will definitely choose my parents, but I will also try to make them accept my lover.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Of course, I will communicate very well, but my parents still don't agree, so I have to give up on my lover.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I feel that if I had chosen this, I would still choose to be with my lover.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If my parents don't agree, I feel like I'd better communicate with my family to see if I can solve it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You have faith (raw rice cooked and matured), and your parents will not always be difficult for you;

    If you don't have faith (you can't tolerate hereditary diseases), of course your parents will oppose you.

    The symptoms on your boyfriend's face should not be a medical disease that should not be married, so if you don't marry him, he must get married. It can be said that the disease he received may affect his appearance but not his health, or his health but not his marriage.

    You want to be beautiful, you want to be healthy, you want to get married, you want to be perfect, of course, you have to think clearly, and blame for perfection often backfires. Good advice can be hard to swallow. If your boyfriend is sick, he should tell the truth.

    Can the fact that the genetic disease caused by his father's death be established, but also whether the foundation of your relationship with your boyfriend is strong? Is your boyfriend really faithful and reliable to you? Are you tolerant of your boyfriend's shortcomings?

    Would you rather he hurt yourself, are the words from the heart? and so on. Actually, you can think of it as follows:

    His father did not die, you don't know that he will be like his father, you and he got married smoothly, and the son born to him is slightly inherited, until the child's grandfather dies, do you know so, will you still feel happy? If the answer is yes, I think you can be confident. If you feel a lot of remorse, or a little remorse, you should not be anxious, test your boyfriend more, if it really doesn't work, your parents should be willing to be black for you, what are you afraid of?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You need to determine if your boyfriend really has a genetic disorder.

    If there is one.

    You can go and find out if there is anything that you can**.

    Some genetic diseases can be cured.

    It's hard to find a man who loves you.

    As long as you love each other, there's nothing you can't do.

    Communicate with your parents for a long time, and they will understand.

    I wish a lover a family eventually!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Life is your own, and the future is her and hers. You can do it! I wish you happiness.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    There is no right or wrong, true love is true love!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Don't give yourself to someone else.

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