I didn t want to be together, and I was hesitant to leave him

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, landlord! I've had similar troubles and confusions, and I'm sure there are many people who have them! My advice to you is:

    First, what is the reason why he gave you this idea, that is, what causes you to think that he is not the ideal person?

    Second, analyze it well and ask yourself, is he motivated, does he really love you, can he give you happiness, and what do your friends say about you?

    Third, (you can try to do this) make more friends (friends of the opposite sex) but be measured, don't be a betrayer and hurt him who truly loves you. Compare these friends of the opposite sex with him to see if there is really a more ideal lover than him.

    Fourth, the two tried to be apart for a while, to let themselves be quiet, to see if it was slowly fading or becoming more intimate. I think it's probably because you both see each other every day that makes you feel bored!

    Finally, I wish you a happy and happy life, and send a word: cherish everything in front of you and don't give up easily!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Oh, if you love him, just work together with your heart If you don't love it, leave it, Reluctant love is the grave of marriage Your question is tangled Can you find someone who is as good to you as he is? This is definitely okay There is only one in front of love is to wait patiently There are so many people in the world Maybe you will meet it as soon as you rub shoulders Right, put your mind at ease

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then try to leave him for a while if you can't eat

    Then you are destined to be inseparable from him

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If there is a "ideal person" who is better than him, you will not hesitate to kick him, I am really sad, I would rather lack than abuse The meaning of this word is not very fond of people like you To be honest, and I look down on him...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well! I've felt this way too! I don't feel dead in one piece, I want to find someone better than her, but I feel reluctant to be separated from her! So think about it, understand what you want, and choose what you like!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Rational people are mentally retarded in the face of feelings. When a love comes to you, you no longer have the right to love, but your indiscretion is broken, so that you unknowingly, into the whirlpool of love, unable to extricate yourself, lost your mind. At the beginning of love, thinking that you are very sensible feels like playing a game of feelings, when you have fun to the fullest, you lose yourself, and feelings are more attractive than drugs.

    This relationship is exactly what you dream of, she proves your worth, intoxicates your life, embodies the meaning of life, you accompany and never want to give up, so indulge in the arms of love. Marriage is exclusive, feelings are also exclusive, how many people understand this truth, but in the face of a new relationship, everything becomes pale and powerless, let love sway, let love drive arbitrarily, and become a slave of feelings. This feeling that should no longer be had, how many people have paid what should not be paid, and how many people have been in a tangled psychology for a long time, let go of reluctance, love has no power, so helplessly love, dreaming that Lu Mengheng God can give a miracle, so that there are people who love, become dependents, go on happily, do not hurt others, do not hurt yourself, I don't know when such expectations can really favor you.

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