I feel that my parents are really too biased, what should I do?

Summary. What to do if your parents are eccentric, you don't need to be sad about it, you have to adjust your mentality, everyone has his established path to go. Your parents are partial, this is your parents' own problem, you really don't need to say anything chilling, you have your responsibilities, you have your future, your future does not lie in your parents' escort, but in what kind of road you create for you, I know you may complain in your heart, feel angry and wronged, but this is the test that life brings you, this is the truth that reality tells you.

What should I do if my parents are eccentric, you don't have to be sad about it, you have to adjust your mentality, everyone has his established path to go. Your parents are biased, this is your parents' own problem, you really don't need to say anything chilling, you have your responsibilities, you have your future, your future does not lie in your parents' escort, but in what kind of road you create for you, I know that you may complain in your heart, and you may be angry and wronged in your heart, but this is the test that Zheng Kai brings to you in life, this is the truth that reality tells you.

As a parent, it is impossible to achieve a bowl of water. Everyone has a selfish side. Parents tend to favor younger children or boys. Zai Yanna is a disobedient party and always makes his parents angry. I think you belong to the former.

Is there anything else to know.

I think there will definitely be some small conflicts and disagreements between family members, and in my family, maybe my parents will be better for my younger brother, so I don't have much opinion to understand this situation.

If there is an uneven bowl of water in the family, how to solve it?

1. Ask your parents for an explanation, or just say what is in your heart and tell them that you are hurt.

In the face of your parents' partiality, you can say it directly to your parents, and maybe you can change your parents' practices. Let them pay more attention to your business.

However, sometimes speaking up doesn't necessarily change the situation, it just lets your parents know that what they're doing has hurt you severely. It's the same parent, why are they in two situations?

2. You can be a silent person, not to compete with others, and silently bear this unfair treatment.

In the face of their parents' partiality, they bear it silently without resistance, which may greatly hurt their hearts, and they are even unwilling to pay attention to their parents. Slowly drifting farther and farther away from your family, the loneliness in your heart can only be soothed by your partner. Or turn this unfairness into motivation and make a career of your own.

3. Divert your attention, turn your anger into unbridled strength, strive to make a career, and become independent as soon as possible.

In the face of the status quo that you can't change, you can only divert your attention, have the ability, leave home as soon as possible, and be filial to your parents. Try not to mix things at home, so as not to enter a state of cutting and messing. Distract yourself.

4. Family and everything is prosperous, repay grievances with virtue, and impress parents with their sincerity.

If you have a softer temperament, you always hope that the family can be harmonious, and it will be good to do your own thing, and one day your parents will crack and show your goodness.

People are always in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings, and only when they are about to lose do they understand who is the person who is truly good to themselves.

1.Change from cognition.

If the parents are always partial to the son, then the daughter will definitely have a jealousy mentality, which will make you feel sad and even make you hate your parents and brothers.

If jealousy gradually deviates from rationality, then it may become more and more extreme, such as frequent quarrels with the family, complete loss of family feeling, and fear of marriage and intimacy.

Therefore, in the face of this situation, the daughter must first change her recognition and rationalize jealousy, because of the partiality of her parents, you can improve your ability and make yourself your own master.

2.Increase self-awareness.

Parents are always partial to their sons, and daughters need to remind themselves that only love for themselves is the most important thing. In other words, it doesn't matter what your parents think or what your parents do, what matters is that you know that you are unique, that you can realize your own value through hard work, that you live in your world, not in their mouths.

Psychology believes that if a person has self-awareness, then she will know herself better, and she will be more able to work hard for her goals and make long-term progress.

3.Establish a sense of boundaries.

Faced with this situation, daughters must establish a sense of boundaries between themselves and their families, and do not try to gain a sense of accomplishment and values by pleasing their parents and brothers. Understand that there are boundaries between you and your family, that you don't have to help with everything as a brother, and that when you learn to say no, you will find that your guilt is reduced because you are more responsible for yourself.

I understand what parents should do when their sons are partial to their daughters, and master the tricks to deal with parents' partiality, I hope you can handle the relationship with your family and strive to realize your self-worth.

Family eccentric sentences to talk about feelings:

1. People are mostly selfish animals, they will only be wholeheartedly for one person, because they only have one heart; Maybe it's a little bit like another person, but most of it is for others to see, or even for yourself. Just like parents of two children, they will always favor one person.

3. Since I was a child, I have never experienced what it feels like to be biased by my parents, but now I feel that no matter what you do or how you do it, she thinks that others are good, the things others buy are good, the way others take care of their children is good, and even being called by others is good.

4. Eccentric parents, patriarchal parents, from the moment they are eccentric, don't expect justice! It is still eccentric until death.

5. How can parents who have given birth to several children be fair to every child, that is just a lie of parents deceiving themselves. My parents are just eccentric and boundless, and they tell me about fairness.

Parents are always partial, so let him be partial!

If you make yourself productive and excellent, they will be partial to you.