I said to my blind date, let s be friends first, okay? 110

Updated on society 2024-02-22
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The blind date was originally intended to deal with the object, but you said to be friends first, so this kind of talk is not very good for the woman.

    The woman will think that maybe you don't like him, so she said this, which may be a polite decline.

    So in the future, the woman will not put her whole heart and soul into this. Because just as friends, she doesn't need to be in contact with you so often.

    In short, your statement is definitely not very good. Since there is no match, don't continue to be together. When I get along with ordinary friends, I don't feel like there's any need.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Here's the thing, first make friends and get to know each other, but it's better not to talk about it, you can say it; We can try to get along, or we can try to deal with someone! Although the meaning of the expression is similar, it can better explain the mood of wanting to go on the road of a couple with her, and your first impression of her is good! If you say it's making friends, it's okay if the girl is cheerful, but if she's shy, she will think that you refuse politely or have a general impression of her!

    After all, it's a blind date, the theme is the relationship between men and women, I wish you a successful blind date!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good, just went on a blind date, I don't know each other, it's quite appropriate to be friends first.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can do that. Because both sides are not familiar. Be friends first. So that both parties can get to know each other. The character of the individual. Both sides have their own hobbies, and if they get along, slowly. Friends can become couples.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Okay, since we are not familiar with each other, we can start with friends, we have a process of understanding, and there is also a comfortable space, don't be so depressed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, this shows that you are more responsible for this relationship, because if both parties do not understand each other, they will establish a relationship, and there will be hidden dangers in the later stage, and the damage to both parties will be greater at that time, so you can tell the other party your concerns honestly, I believe she can understand. I also sincerely hope that you are both the most important person in each other's lives and will be happy forever.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're right to say this, without understanding, it's normal to date first, and slowly get acquainted with it, and naturally it's a lover relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think this is a very correct choice, because the blind date is not very familiar yet, so you can try to be friends first, and then get to know each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There's nothing bad about it, I don't know each other, there is already this embarrassment in introducing acquaintances, get along slowly, look at the personality and hobbies, after all, love at first sight is a minority, and blind dates are all about getting married with a clear purpose, of course, you must understand carefully.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People say to be friends first, that's okay, it means that you still have a chance, if people say forget it, there is no chance directly, after all, friends can develop, and the relationship also needs to be slow, and you may become a girlfriend in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether you have a good impression or not, you should understand first. With perceptual understanding, there will be rational coexistence. If you don't understand each other, you're in a hurry to establish a relationship with each other, which is very irrational.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you're quite proactive, and it's good to say that, but in fact, the purpose of a blind date is to find a suitable partner for each other, rather than simply looking for friends, if the other party is not willing to be friends with you, you may miss a partner who you think is good.

    If the other person is willing to be friends with you, you can also start as friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, it's not a big problem, after all, it's not familiar, but if you don't understand your extra meaning, you may think that you are completely uninteresting to her. You can improve it and say: I feel good about you, but we don't know each other yet, can we start with friends?

    Personal views only.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's good, be friends first, understand first, if you talk directly, it will be a little embarrassing, and if you feel that it is not appropriate in the middle of the conversation, it will be very embarrassing to mention the breakup.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Today's blind dates are not like in ancient times, where you get engaged and get married when you meet, you can say that you are in one place first. Learn more about it. I didn't say that you would settle down once you met, and you would be boyfriend and girlfriend.

    This is a gradual process of learning, a process of understanding, so it is not wrong to say that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be friends with the blind date first, and then further fall in love, so that you can understand the other person's personality and hobbies first, and see if it is suitable to continue the conversation, which is good for both parties.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is normal, there is nothing wrong, at least you have to get to know each other first, so as not to find out that it is not suitable when you get married, which is not good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, it is also possible, this way of dealing with it is relatively calm, because everyone can get along better after having an understanding process.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're right, first of all, we are all strangers, we have to get acquainted with it first, we have feelings. I want to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with him, and it's not too late to confirm. There's always a run-in period.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's a girl, you may think a lot, the woman thinks that she is a friend because she is afraid that she will cheat the man's money (the woman thinks the man's idea), if you want to be friends first, you can try it, after all, no one can say for sure about feelings.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Generally speaking, blind dates are trying to find their other half, no one will use blind dates to make friends, you are a man, it is easy for the other party to misunderstand that you are not really looking for a partner.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's obvious that you still don't understand, and you're not particularly satisfied with her, so if you want to understand it for a long time and then observe, you can understand it, after all, you just met.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Be friends first, of course. Get to know each other. Only when you have a relationship foundation can you become a couple.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you say this, it may cause misunderstanding, what does it mean to think that it is easy to think? It's just that you get along with others, and you don't necessarily get married. The situation should be everywhere first, and it is necessary to develop two things depending on the object of belief.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This depends on the personal situation, some people mind, some people don't mind, not to mention that the friends developed by the blind date object are very strange in themselves, and the friends and relatives around them will also question the two parties, the relationship is already friends, why can't they communicate further? Besides, if both parties have their own families in the future, this kind of friendship based on the blind date will affect the lives of both parties, and the gains outweigh the losses.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it's easy for the other party to misunderstand when you talk like this, you have no interest in him, and in the end, let such a blind date go unfinished.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Honest communication is best, and communication that starts with friends is the calmest. Only the sincerity at the beginning can have a good relationship, and even if it doesn't work, it can be decent.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course you can, this is a normal blind date.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It can be said that after all, they met on a blind date, and they are not familiar with each other and do not understand each other, can they be friends with each other first? Get to know each other for a while before confirming a relationship.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the blind date says to be friends, the hope is relatively slim, about two or three layers, it depends on your personal will, and then whether you can make yourself better, or show him your excellent side.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The blind date object said to be friends, whether there is any hope in the end, I personally think there is still hope, and there are mainly the following possibilities for analysis.

    First, the blind date said that he was friends with you, that is, he directly rejected you, that is to say, he didn't want to fall in love with you, and there was more contact and interaction, it may be that the other party didn't take a fancy to you, so he used making friends as an excuse to give you a face, for fear of directly hurting you!

    One point may be that the other party, through the excuse of making friends, is a bit of a test of your meaning, because she is not sure whether to fall in love with you, and she is also hesitating, so you should not give up, or should you work harder to show yourself, communicate with her more, you can make an appointment to eat and go shopping together, etc., in order to increase the goodwill between each other!

    If you have been together for a long time, you may have a spark of love, and it is not impossible to be together, so treat the relationship with this love, don't be too thin-faced, and have a spirit of persistence and not giving up, so that it is possible to pursue your own happiness!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    That must be hopeless, because people are only willing to be friends, and they are not willing to develop a relationship with you, so it must be hopeless for a blind date, so it is best to avoid these things by mastering a situation yourself.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The blind date said that there should still be hope for being friends, because he wants to start as a friend, to see if two people are suitable for each other, and if they are suitable, they may be able to be lovers.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The blind date object said to be friends, but in fact, it was to give face to the landlord, which was equivalent to a polite refusal.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That, of course, is hopeless, and it is a tactful rejection of you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Since we talk about being friends, this should be an indirect rejection. The blind date itself has no emotional foundation. Just treat it normally.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think this is a euphemistic refusal, generally blind dates don't believe each other, so they will use such an excuse to be friends.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think this kind of thing is polite, that is, it means that there is no hope.

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