Mom and Dad often quarrel, what should I do? 5

Landlord, I understand your feelings, because my family is like this;

What you must not do is persuade your parents to divorce.

The only thing you can do, if you are a student, then you study hard and get good grades, then your parents will value you, and what you say will have weight.

If you are from a rural area (me too, hehe) and you are an office worker, then you work hard, send more money home, buy more things for your parents, take your children home more (bring your girlfriend if you don't have children), take your parents to the outside world to see, travel or something, let them know that the outside world is actually very exciting, then they will not quarrel over a little thing.

If you are a rich family, then you can't just spend your parents' money like some rich second generations; You have to prove that you are capable or even more than your parents, and that your parents really value you.

These are just some of my personal takeaways. Hope to help the landlord.

My mom and dad also often quarrel, in fact, I feel that most of it is my mother's reason, from childhood to adulthood, really, every quarrel is started by my mother, my dad always let my mother keep silent, but when my mother is getting more and more excessive, my dad will also get angry, my mom is more short-tempered, is the kind of person who is straightforward and fast-talking, but almost every day, our whole family has to be taught by my mother verbally, my mother can't allow us to do a little bit of wrong little things, not to mention big things, But she did anything unqualified by herself is to laugh, she feels that she can't make mistakes, if she also makes mistakes then we definitely can't, our whole family let Mom. In a situation like mine, there is really no way, because my mother is unreasonable, she thinks she is reasonable, there is really no way. My sister and I are also very uncomfortable living every day, but fortunately, I have a sister, so I don't feel that lonely!

In fact, when I was young, if my parents quarreled, I felt very scared and afraid, and I felt that parents quarreling would also affect their children. When Mom and Dad quarrel, I feel like I have a headache, because I can't do anything, and every time I watch them quarrel, my heart is so uncomfortable and hurts! When they quarrel, they must not listen, and when they are all well, you can talk to them, tell them that in fact, a harmonious family is happy, tell them that every time they quarrel is actually the most hurtful is you, tell them that life is short, happy is not happy, and nothing can not be solved, as long as the family is together.

I hope you can all love each other, I hope it helps you, and even if you don't, I hope you have a good mood.

I think you can adjust it in the middle, if you're not young and your parents are just arguing because of personality issues. You can mobilize your parents and you can have a good chat together.

But if the problem between parents is serious, you can actually try to look at it in another way. Emotional matters are sometimes forced together, and it is also painful.

You should find out why they are arguing, whether it is a discordant personality, or because of something else, so that you can grasp it well, and then you can solve the problem, I hope you can solve this problem.

Ran away from home and went to live with relatives. Tell them when they won't quarrel and go back, and if they go back, they will never give birth to your child and never go home! Don't scare them!

They have the right to pursue their own happy life. If you are really sensible and you understand what kind of life they want, then be strong and help them achieve it.

Children are the lubricant of the family.

You can usually watch them tell them about your classmates' events when they are not arguing.

Can be apocryphal.

For example, a certain classmate's academic performance plummeted, and I heard that his classmates said that his parents quarreled and divorced, and he didn't have the heart to study.

So-and-so skips class and mixes in society. It's because of ......

So-and-so always fights at school because of ......

I think your parents love you. will think about it for you.

If you are over school age.

It can be mentioned that so-and-so can't find the object because of ......So-and-so object blew because of ......There is one more case.

In fact, it is impossible for every family not to quarrel, and some couples quarrel every day, but it does not hurt their feelings.

That's where you need to understand.

Like my parents, they are grandparents.

It's still noisy every day.

It's been arguing for decades.

I'm used to it, and I won't be used to it if they don't fight one day.

Let's deal with the specific problems on a case-by-case basis.

You should pack up your things and pretend to run away from home (be realistic.

Persuade them to divorce, my parents are the ones who always fight, the very ruthless kind.

It's up to the adults to solve their own affairs!