My boyfriend suddenly said he couldn t let go of his ex girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dear, what should I say to untie the knot in your heart? He, it's not bad, but he's really not suitable for you, love is a lifelong thing, what you need is a person who will take care of you and be good to you, just like when he just chased you, but at that time he wasn't really him at all, maybe it's your appearance that makes people want to be close, maybe it's your character that makes people feel at ease, so, when he was hurt, when he met you, he depended on you, of course, this dependence is emotional dependence, that is, it can make up for the place where he was just hollowed out, so, He promised you, yes, he must like you, but that's not love, otherwise he wouldn't have proposed to leave after recognizing the facts, even if a week later, he is willing to reconcile with you, but one day he will still use the same reason to leave you, because he is a man who is easy to understand, he doesn't want to see you sad, so promise to think again, is this sympathy in exchange for tears is what you really want? No, I know that a person who is in the graduate school entrance examination will not even have this bit of pride, in this case, why not let him go as a gentleman, maybe when he is a little more mature, he will know who is really worth cherishing, maybe he will look for you again, then, whether he is willing to accept him again, it depends on your attitude at the time, well, these are my personal little suggestions, the decision is yours, life is also yours, say so much I just hope you can live a better life, girl, You must learn to love yourself in order to get true love!

    Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have you ever watched "Nana's War of the Roses", there is a sentence on it: A man's promise, just like a woman saying to be **, says more and does less.

    Of course, I don't mention this to make you stop believing in promises, but I just want to tell you that promises have no way to bind men.

    Have you ever wondered why he suddenly stopped contacting him? Is it really just because you don't know enough about it? I thought, no.

    The two are together, and some time is to take their time to understand, and there are only two situations: first, he and his ex-girlfriend have been in contact again, and there is a great possibility of getting back together; Second, there are unspeakable troubles he encounters. Women, you should be more careful.

    Think about it carefully, understand it in many ways, whether this kind of person is still worth being together, if it is the first type, then don't expect it anymore, because he is not worth it; If it's the second option, then let's go for it.

    Happiness is in your own hands, all in a thought.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Silly girl, is it worth it? If you really let you be together, aren't you afraid that something like this will happen next time? Let's be honest, if you really get together again, you have lost your original trust in him, and you will slowly become neurotic, think about it, why bother?

    He already told you that he couldn't let go of his ex-girlfriend, so let him be. You're a good girl, he's not worth having.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, the two months you spend with him, what he does, what he does, how you feel or think.

    In the two months you have been together, have you ever said or done anything that made you feel that he loved you?

    After all, 2 months is too short, and love is not so easy to see.

    However, our opinion can only be used as a reference for you, maybe you really believe that he will return to you, maybe you are not afraid of being hurt, I just hope you can cheer up, you said, you still have to go to graduate school, maybe you can create some pressure on yourself, so maybe it can be better.

    Finally, I hope you can get the most beautiful love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Either you give him a chance, or you break up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be careful, don't be blinded by the fact that you're just a spare tire.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What does it take to let go and not let go, don't you think this man is very emotional? You give him a time to adjust, once such a man moves his true feelings, do you think he will let you go later? As soon as you got to know each other, we talked about it, I think it's because he wants to make up for it with a new relationship, but later I found out that he still can't let go, and he doesn't want to hurt you, because he still thinks about her with you, he feels that it's unfair to you, you give him a little time, and he will give you the answer.

    In fact, once a man moves, true feelings are more difficult to give up than women!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of man? It's better to be careful

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your boyfriend can't forget her. Men are monsters, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he broke up under external pressure, got a new girlfriend, but he still contacted me on Q, but I ignored him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The most disgusting, entangled, and nostalgic for my ex-girlfriend is understandable, but there's no need to be so indecisive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Generally speaking, it can't be put down.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In his heart, you are nothing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, you should quit, because no matter how much you pay, your boyfriend won't care about you, in his heart, he only has his ex-girlfriend, you are just a substitute for his ex-girlfriend, if you don't quit, you will only hurt yourself more.

    After many men break up with their ex, they will be very uncomfortable, and they will remember their ex, but they dare not go to each other, so they will find another person to replace their ex, but as they get along, he will miss his ex more, and he will be even more unable to let go of his ex-girlfriend, so when girls find this kind of thing, they must learn to stop losses in time and withdraw in time, so as to avoid themselves being hurt more. It will only make you the most humble person.

    If two people are not suitable, then you should choose to let go, so that it is a good thing for each other, so that you can meet a more suitable person, if you find your boyfriend, you have been unable to let go of your ex, and have been contacting your ex-girlfriend, then you should choose to leave, because such a man is not worth your reliance at all, even if you give him more love, she will not love you, because in his heart, there is only his ex-girlfriend, Although he is with you, his heart is not here, so there is no need to guard a shell.

    When everyone is in love, they hope that they can become the happiest man, if their current can't let go of their ex, then there is no need to continue to be with each other, he might as well choose to let go, which is also a very good thing for himself, because we give up a person who doesn't love us, which also avoids causing us more damage, although it will feel particularly uncomfortable when we break up, but continue to be with each other, it will also make yourself more uncomfortable, and this discomfort will be more long-lasting, So in order to reduce these unnecessary harms, we should opt out.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    should quit, since the other party can't let go of his ex-girlfriend, then he should leave this man, because this man is not a responsible man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then if your boyfriend has always been in his heart, and his ex-girlfriend has been for so long, it is better to break up directly, you can quit. Then your boyfriend just can't get the best mentality.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think you should quit. Because this man is unreliable and this man doesn't like you, there is no need to dwell on it, and you should choose to quit.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You have to quit, and if you don't, you may get yourself hurt a bit, and you may even feel particularly wronged.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Hello, dear. There are two possible scenarios:

    1.He can't forget you and wants to forget you by forgetting old feelings with new ones. 2.

    He's a scumbag, seamless, what he told you before was just a lie, and the purpose of this is to hurt you.

    My ex-boyfriend said a few days ago that he couldn't let me go, and a few days later he said he had a girlfriend.

    Why did my ex say in the last second that he couldn't let go of me, and it didn't take a few months to have a new love.

    Hello, dear. There are two possible scenarios:1

    He can't forget you and wants to forget you by forgetting old feelings with new ones. 2.He's a scumbag, seamless, what he told you before was just a lie, and the purpose of this is to hurt you.

    But since the other party already has a new love, then you don't have to worry about it, it will only annoy yourself. He doesn't have anything to do with you anymore. One farewell and two widths, let's enjoy the rest of your life.

    I've been separated from him for three years, and in May he messaged me that he couldn't let me go, and now he has a girlfriend.

    Hello, dear. After being separated for so long, people's hearts and feelings will change, and he didn't come up with anything to show that he really can't let go of you, and the final result shows that he really has let go of you. So it's good to listen to what he says, and don't take it seriously.

    But he told me that he couldn't let me go.

    Hello, dear. It's that you can't let go of him, he said he can't let go of you, but he actually has a girlfriend. Is this called not being able to let go of you?

    Anyone will say nice coaxing words, the key is to see how he actually acts, is it that he can't let go of you, but does he have actions to show that he really can't let go of you? If I really can't let go of you, will there be no contact and action for you in the past three years?

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