How to face him in the same class after a breakup and be friends? Or turn a blind eye? 80

The probability of this kind of thing happening in college is very high, and everyone has different ways to face it, and they have all come over, but you make me feel funny, of course, what is really funny is that he is not you, I appreciate your character, it belongs to the kind of person who can afford to take it, can put it down, and has a charm and generosity that only boys have, so you choose to face him generously like a friend, what I didn't expect is that he had such a reaction, maybe you are too kind, thinking about him, So I don't know how it's supposed to be when we meet every day, and it feels like you're asking this question for him, because you've already found your way, haven't you? So, that's good, you treat him as he is, find a time to talk to him, tell him your thoughts and your current environment clearly, let him know how to do it, if he doesn't want to talk, then you write him a note or send a message or something, tell him that you want to be friends with him, don't be a lover, you must get along like an enemy, use your mentality to drive him, and use your identity as a friend to understand why he is like this? Maybe he has some misunderstanding about you in some way that makes him want to break up, or does he ignore you?

Oh it seems、My girlfriend and I also came to college together.、And it's also a class.、I also broke up with my girlfriend a few days ago.、After a few days of quiet.、I was also tired before I proposed to her to break up.

Since you have broken up so ruthlessly, then let it be, bless each other, I feel very uncomfortable when I see your question, but I am not like yours like him, I still talk and laugh when I see her, after all, we have been together

Look away, there are fewer injuries, I hope you are all quiet, after all, it has not reached the point of complete collapse, quiet for a few days, or ask him for clarification, he may have unspeakable secrets, there is no tiredness in front of love, only boredom, if it is really ruthless, then it is not worth cherishing, "It seems that I am laughing at myself, hehe".

If you want to open some, it hurts less.

I can relate to this problem because it happened to me. But I'm a boy. My girlfriend and I started falling in love in our freshman year, and we broke up in the second semester of our sophomore year because of a conflict.

Later, we reconciled as before, and I often think about that time, because we still loved each other. There is a saying that is reasonable, it is not that love is wrong, but that love is expressed wrongly. In my opinion, LZ and my boyfriend still care about each other, we have to cherish this relationship, my girlfriend and I have graduated for a year, and the relationship is still very good, and it is not easy to find someone who cherishes yourself.

I can also understand LZ's troubles, and the best way is to go with the flow, because people who care about each other are still together in the end, but LZ also has to take the initiative. I remember that it was my girlfriend who took the initiative to contact me, and I was the same as LZ's boyfriend, pretending to be very cold. Now I think about it and I'm ashamed, and I'm very touched by what my girlfriend has done.

Having said all this, LZ should also think about what he should do, in fact, it is not a big problem, I hope LZ is happy, and by the way, I recalled my past. So much has been written, so let's do it.

You are naturally good, you love to say hello, see that he is not interesting, just don't talk to him You don't have to be awkward with yourself, the more you look at you, the more he feels successful, but, what is the good thing to say, I really want to break up Awkwardness is certain I can only slowly not think about it It depends on time For a while and a half, maybe he can't do it as if he has nothing to do with you Maybe he loves you more than you think Can't let go Maybe. Personality problems.

If you feel uncomfortable, turn a blind eye and don't force yourself to maintain a superficial friendly relationship with him. If it's not suitable to break up, stop entanglement, it's already a very rational and mature approach, and you don't need to be strong. Take care of your emotions and mood and find something happy for yourself to divert your attention.

When you can really let go and calm down, let's look at the situation and deal with your relationship.

If that's the case, the master will tell you a trick, and when you pass by him, you deliberately cover the view with your hands.

When a teacher is in class, if he sits behind you, every time he turns his head, he covers his textbook so that he can see his direction. Don't be embarrassed, this behavior will definitely him off.

Just broke up, just like in the Cold War, ignoring each other, but caring a lot. Maybe you will reconcile again in the future, or you will continue to have a cold war like this, and you will be out of sight and out of mind until you graduate.

Let's calm down with each other first, and if you want to break up after a while, just ignore it.

In my experience, he'll regret it.

Hold your breath and wait for him to beg you. The more you show that you don't care, the faster the time for him to regret it will come.

Go with the flow. Time will tell.

Just wait.

It's mostly about your mental attitude. Since you can't love each other, let's be bland!

Let's get used to this slowly, in case someone else is still like that, you don't care, but it's better to talk better. Don't force it.

Like a normal friend, don't think too much.

A colleague is a colleague. Nothing else.

You'll be able to put it down over time. Let it be. Don't try to run away.

Maybe he's still in love with you, and he's just angry with you! You ignore him! And then hide from him! Either that's his problem! It's not your fault!

There's a saying called "Strangers."

Since he can do it, you can also cooperate with the performance.

You can get along like normal classmates and friends.

When I was in school, there was a boy and a girl in my class, but they fell in love and broke up. But the two of them broke up after the special awkwardness, the two of them did not speak when they met, if they encountered common problems in study and life, the two of them were like strangers. I don't think there's any need for that.

First of all, it's still friends who broke up.

In fact, many men and women who fall in love and break up can become friends in a relationship. Two people are not suitable to be a couple, but it does not mean that two people are not suitable to be friends. Many people feel that the relationship between two people will be better when they are friends than when they are lovers.

There is no need to become an enemy or a stranger after a breakup, but to accept the change in your relationship generously. In the same class, if you look up and don't look down, if both of you are embarrassed, then it's uncomfortable.

Secondly, the camaraderie will not change.

I have a friend who fell in love with a male classmate in her class when she was in school, but then for various reasons, the two of them felt that it was not suitable, and then they broke up. After the breakup, the two people often contacted, so later in the future work, the two will help each other in the name of classmates, and the other half of both parties does not mind. If you can't fall in love, your classmates won't change easily.

Don't throw away the friendship between classmates because the love between two people is ruined.

In fact, many times we have to treat the fall in love and breakup of classmates as a very ordinary thing, and falling in love is not the beginning of a strange relationship, but the reconciliation of two people after deepening their understanding. After the classmates broke up, we should be more generous and calm to face each other's friendship, and regard the time between each other as a beautiful memory in life.

This kind of thing, you don't care too much, since he has chosen to break up, then you don't need to keep it, because the more you keep him, the less he will cherish you, since you have broken up, you are strangers, there is no need to contact, because you have broken up, you can't be friends, you don't need to be classmates, you don't need to think so much, since you have broken up, you should put him in the bottom of your heart, don't think about him anymore, because this will only make you more sad and sad, So you should think about it, since you have broken up, don't think about him anymore, because you don't have any point in thinking about him, so you should let go of your mind and stop thinking about him, because you have broken up, don't think about him anymore.

In modern times, people's minds are already very open-minded, so even after classmates break up, they can still get along indifferently, just bless each other, and don't need to be deliberately embarrassed or anything.

Answer: Try to avoid frequent encounters with the other party, and avoid some occasions that will be encountered. In addition, develop more of their own other circle of friends and stay with other classmates, so that there will be no support from other people and there will be no embarrassment of being alone and meeting friends with ex-boyfriends.

Ask a good question, thank you, I'll try, it's about to take the college entrance examination, and now I feel that I will be annoyed when I see him, and I'm not welcome, yes, then I'm going to face the college entrance examination and I'm in the same class, so it's recommended to try to avoid communicating with him as much as possible. When I can't avoid it, I go with other classmates more. In addition, after leaving, you will definitely feel disgusted with each other, and it will last for a while, you can think more about the various beautiful pictures after you are admitted to the university of your choice, and then reduce this disgust to divert your attention.

In addition, I wish you excellent results in the college entrance examination and admission to your ideal university

Try to have as little contact as possible in the future, so as to avoid embarrassment, and the two of them get along like other ordinary classmates, as if they were strangers to each other.

After the breakup, we can see each other and not part, because after the breakup, it will be another class, which will make me feel very embarrassed, and it will not do us any good.

I think no matter what kind of couple they are, they should not bother each other after they break up, but if you don't look up and see you in a class, you should put your mind at ease.

If you break up peacefully, then how you should get along, or just get along normally, just treat it as a friend.

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

After a breakup, you could have been friends or even confidants, but some people feel that they are very arrogant, and others should be good to you and obedient to you like a lover. Naive, I'm the most unaccustomed to that, I'm still saying that I like it so much, I don't want to give up this relationship, and I'm relieved faster than you. This wisdom is hungry and grows old love, and it doesn't matter if you don't be friends, it's not interesting.

Let's slowly experience the taste of the taste in our hearts.

People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, and respect each other's love

In fact, if you are really in love, you break up a lot, but you divide very little, and you often divide and close quickly.

If you want to break up and still be a good friend, it means that you actually like him very much.

If you want to propose a breakup, you actually want to warn him and make him nervous about you even more.

Your real thoughts are not to say to break up, but to hope that he knows what you think, and that he will not continue to find fault with you.