I and my boyfriend are getting married, but the man s parents are unwilling to pay the bride price,

Reluctant to eatBride priceMoney, then don't get married. After all, giving less and not giving at all are two completely different attitudes, and if you marry into their family like this, you will suffer even more grievances in the future. Moreover, it is not easy for your parents to give birth to you and raise you to such an adulthood, and suddenly there is a lack of someone in the family, and that mentality is completely different.

If there is no comfort from even a bride price, then is there still sincerity in their family?

First of all, you have to negotiate with your boyfriend first. It is necessary to look at his attitude first, if he also thinks that he can get married without giving a bride price, then I think this man is also very unreliable, at least he does not consider the problem from your point of view. Since he doesn't think about you anymore, it doesn't make much sense for you to be with him.

If so, he also feels that his parents are doing something wrong, and he will communicate with his parents in the psychology of loving you.

The second is to consider your parents' opinions. Because the bride price is for your parents, if their family is not willing to give you the bride price, you should discuss with your parents what to do first. Don't always rely on your own ideas and strength to solve this problem, you are facing the problem of two families.

So, don't be hasty and don't make decisions on your own. There is a high chance that your lifelong happiness will be ruined by your failed decision-making.

In the end, you have to think about it according to your own situation. If so, if you can accept that you have a bitter mother-in-law after marriage, then it is not impossible for you to marry. But such a mother-in-law is generally not a very good person.

You must be mentally prepared to think about what kind of path you want to take. You can also try to mediate the issue, and the result is that both parties give way.

Therefore, marriage is a matter for both families. All girls want to marry a good family.

This kind of family that does not want to give a bride price is really rare. When you choose your love, you must look at this boy. His mediating role in the family is very large, I hope you can be happy.

It shows that their family doesn't want to marry you at all, they don't have a basic attitude, they salute first and then soldiers, tell them well first, and if they don't say well, they won't get married and break up.

If not, there is no taste, whether there is a dowry or not is important, and whether your husband has you in his heart is the most important.

I think it's better to ask your parents for their opinions, after all, it's a marriage matter.

Look at their family's attitude towards you, if it's good, the bride price is not important, and if it's bad, don't you keep it for the New Year?

The man's parents don't pay attention to you, or they really have difficulties, then you need to look at your boyfriend's attitude.

Don't want to give out a point?Or can there be room for negotiation?Many lovers break up when it's time to talk about material things.

Now for the wedding bride price.

It has become a consideration for most young people to get married, and it should be a custom in various places to give a bride price, and I personally believe that marriage is a sacred act carried out on the basis of the will of both men and women, so the premise is feelings, and everything else must be subordinated to feelings. Therefore, regarding the bride price, the two parties communicate and negotiate well, and on the basis of considering their feelings, both parties take a step back. And after all, it is a young couple who get married, and their opinions are the main ones.

And it depends on what your boyfriend's attitude is, the bride price is just a formality. But it can also reflect the recognition and respect of the man's family. If your boyfriend is very good and loves you very much, he will definitely think of a solution and will not embarrass you.

If, like his parents, he thinks that you shouldn't ask for a bride price, then I advise you to leave this man as soon as possible, such a man has no opinion at all. I won't be able to share anything for you in the future.

If the man's family approves of you, even if there is no bride price, they will take care of the customs of your hometown and consider your feelings. If you blindly say that there is no bride price, love is not knotted, do you consider it yourself, is it respecting you?Respect your parents?

In fact, the man generally gives the woman a bride price, and the woman's parents will also give back the same amount or more of the funds as a dowry, as a backup fund for the young couple to live and live, and save it for emergencies. Before marriage, he was so domineering or disregarded, but after marriage, there were many things, and now he has buried the foreshadowing or pimple of disharmony, and it is impossible to be without mustard in the future.

So the woman thinks about it herself, whether it is the marriage you want. Marriage should not be rushed, and you must feel the sincerity of the other party or the other party's parents before you can continue!

Please also focus on feelings, after all, marriage is because of love, if he loves you very much, you think it is a lifelong trust, his family has difficulties in paying the bride price, money can be discussed, as long as he is the same as your parents, no bride price I personally think you can still marry!

I think if the bride price is not too much, but they don't take the bride price because they don't pay attention to you, if they don't want to pay after negotiation, then you might as well divide it as soon as possible.

You can communicate with your boyfriend to see what he thinks, the wedding bride price must be a little expressive, and the woman can prepare some return gifts and explain it clearly with her boyfriend.

Then you should let your boyfriend communicate well with the other party's parents, and if you really can't come up with the money, then you can only choose to break up.

This question you should first ask yourself, do you care about the bride price, and then look at your parents, if there is no bride price, you are willing to marry in the past, you have to think about this kind of thing clearly, if you really love him, don't miss it because of such a vulgar thing.

He shouldn't have promised him, although there is not too much bride price, but it can't be nothing, he just wants to empty gloves The white wolf may just think that you are good at talking before you have this kind of request.

If you don't want a lot of bride price, and your boyfriend can't get it, I don't think you should marry him, and you can't even afford the bride price, which means that he doesn't have much ability, and this kind of man will not be able to give you happiness in the future.

I don't think you should agree to him, because I think the minimum material foundation is needed, otherwise the two of you will only have more and more troubles after you get married.

You can promise that if the two of you trust each other very much, the bride price is not really an important thing, so it should still depend on your own heart.

If you can't take it out or don't want to take it out, it's two different things, but if you can't take out tens of thousands, it proves that you are not qualified to get married, even if you love each other.

It should not be promised. Because marriage requires material security. Although the two parties have feelings, they should not get married if they have no material security.

I didn't agree, because he didn't have any sincerity, even if we wanted a bride price, but after we got married, the bride price was still for two people.

Definitely shouldn't say yes, because the boyfriend probably just wants the white wolf with empty gloves and doesn't want to pay any price.

Actually, you shouldn't choose to say yes, but if your boyfriend is a potential stock, you can also consider it.

You shouldn't have promised him, because he doesn't even want to give you a bride price, and he still wants to marry you, which is just a pipe dream.

If your boyfriend's family conditions are not good, and your boyfriend loves you very much, you can agree.

If two people have a dispute over the bride price, I will choose to communicate with the other party, more about feelings than about interests, and the following methods can allow you to better deal with such things.

1. Calm down and look at feelings.

If the two of them quarrel due to parental pressure, they can be cold first, and then find a time to talk again. Don't break up right away or say something very bad, after all, it's not easy to find the right person. Don't wronged yourself because you're old, it mainly depends on the man's attitude.

Marriage is not child's play, and most of your life will be entrusted to him.

2. Discuss with your parents.

Explain the situation of the man's family to his parents, don't ask for a price, stick to the rules of the family, and live his life by himself. And how much dowry the man gives, he should marry about the same dowry, and even add more. knew that they were asking for a bride price for themselves, and they were afraid that their daughter would be wronged in her husband's house.

At this time, not only did he say, but he also had to let his boyfriend cooperate and let his parents know the sincerity of the man's family. Otherwise, he would be very aggrieved and bargain with his parents for him, but the other party's parents kept calculating themselves. If the other party's parents are not fuel-efficient lamps, to be honest, no one wants to marry their daughter.

3. What should I do if the man can't get the bride price?

If the man is really poor because he buys a marriage house or his family is really poor, he can't get the due bride price. And you still want to get married, which is true love, and you have to ask for bride price money at this time. The woman can prepare hundreds of thousands of cash for the man, and then the man's family will send an IOU to the woman's parents.

If you still insist on getting married, his family will not treat you well after marriage.

Everyone has their own requirements and expectations for love and marriage. Demands and expectations are selfish. Whether it is reasonable depends on whether it is practical, whether it is valuable, and whether you can meet someone who meets your requirements and expectations.

Since love and marriage are two people's affairs, and everyone has their own requirements and expectations, whether two people are suitable for each other depends on whether they can accept each other's requirements and meet each other's expectations.

A truly harmonious love marriage needs to meet this basic condition: if you can meet my requirements and expectations, I can also meet yours. It's fair, but that's it.

The reason is simple, but in reality, not everyone can do it. Often two people fight for each other, each puts their own requirements and expectations first, hoping that the other party will satisfy themselves, but the other party can never satisfy the other, so there is the so-called unfairness.

I thought that love would eventually develop into marriage, but I realized that it was just my fantasy and marriage was not as easy as I thought. In fact, I should have discovered the problems in a relationship a long time ago, because the problems have always been there. While my love affair with my ex-boyfriend may seem fair, that fairness will never bring us together.

For example, when it comes to spending money, he is always calculating, always engaging in the AA system with me, and always calculating how much money he spends me. Anyway, he will ask me to make up the money, he will let me spend money for him, and it is more expensive than him, he thinks it is fair.

For another example, emotionally, he is also calculating, always saying "What I do to you, you should do to me." If I love you and you don't love me, that's so unfair to me. "Although I was sad, I obviously hated this kind of calculated love, but I fell into it at the time.

In line with the principle of being responsible for my relationship to the end, I have never let myself down, so a relationship is three years, and after three years, I began to contact marriage.

Although I have a hunch that he will settle accounts with me in terms of spending money on marriage, I still expect him to change, and in that case, I will be happy for his change. It is precisely because of the expectation in my heart that when he did not make any changes and was still calculating, I was more chilled and disappointed than before.

I didn't know how much bride price I needed to get married, so I discussed it with my parents and asked for a bride price of 300,000 according to our local minimum standard. As a result, he said to me: "Wife, give me your 500,000 yuan of premarital property, and I can give you 300,000 dowry!."

I asked him what it was, and he said, "I love you, but I don't want to give you 300,000 bride price for no reason." If I give you money and you don't give me a penny, it will be unfair to me.

The reason why you want to exchange 300,000 bride price for 500,000 premarital property is also to consider fairness. If you regret it after marrying me, the difference of 200,000 yuan will be my mental loss fee!”

I'm still confused. Only by clarifying the requirements for feelings and adjusting the mentality can we start a new relationship. I don't want to go through that feeling anymore. It's really boring.

Don't knot!Really don't knot!Unless you're pregnant, you're condemned by someone!

I may have to endure it for the sake of my child!Otherwise, it will be even more difficult to be so insincere at the beginning! This is a bloody real case!

Keep your eyes open, sisters! Women are inherently vulnerable, learn to protect themselves! Most men who don't have money to get married like to kidnap you under the guise of love!

Lie to you pregnant! You don't have a choice! Sisters really have to be cautious about their feelings!

Otherwise, you will be the one who suffers in the future, and people will be like no one! I don't care if you live or die!

Personally, I think that if your boyfriend is suddenly reluctant to give the bride price, you must need to communicate more between the two of you at this time, because the bride price I think is still very necessary.

I don't want to give a bride price, and I don't want to get married, anyway, he doesn't mean it. It's not very good to get married, at least I'm still hurt in the future.

For such a boyfriend, I don't think it's really necessary to be together, and it can be reflected from the bride price that your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings at all.

Then you should have a good talk with your boyfriend and ask him what the reason for his reluctance to give the bride price is, if it is really difficult for his family, I think this is understandable.

Then tell your boyfriend that if you are unwilling to give the bride price, the two can only break up, because the boyfriend is very insincere.