It s time to give up, and when to give up

If you want to fill a new spring, you must get rid of the old water; If you want to get a rose, you have to give up the rose in your hand; To have a more unique experience, you have to have a little more trauma?

In fact, on the road of life, there will always be two kinds, either give up or choose, so that you don't know how to choose. It's like you have two delicious candies in front of you, you like both, and you can only choose one of them, and you don't want to lose the other, so you hesitate there, and in the end, you can't get any of them.

So, learn to give up, what belongs to you, you can't run away, and what doesn't belong to you, you can't catch it. After giving up, you will feel a little relaxed, you just need to cherish what you have, grasp what you have, it is enough.

Giving up does not mean that you have failed, you can still have new hopes, you can still follow new hopes, and you can follow the candlelight of hope.

Maybe I'm taking it too lightly, some things are not so easy to let go and give up. But a lot of times you have to be decisive, if you are still immersed in hesitation and don't make a decision, you will become more and more hesitant, less and less talkative, and you will always think about it in your heart, and you will be absent-minded in doing things.

It's really easy to give up, it's easier than death, and to die, at least at the moment before you die, you will suffer, not that you want to die. And isn't it easy to give up as long as you spread your hands, don't move your steps, and don't do it? Therefore, when the problem is difficult to solve, and you don't want to seek liberation, please don't think of dying at the beginning of the pin, death is not the root of all problems, it will only make your relatives and friends more painful, you just have to make up your mind that you are not determined, don't insist, understand that this is futile, and then give up on it to free yourself, let yourself be, don't suffer from it.

Give up those unnecessary thoughts, give up those dreams that will not come true, and return to reality!

Giving up is not the destruction of one hope, but the beginning of another, just you have to understand when to give up.

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1. It seems to be troublesome, but in fact, it is very simple to summarize, first of all, you have to know what you want and what you don't want;

2, you said above, what you want is life security, and a man who loves you, think this is the vast majority of girls who are about to consider entering marriage, love only needs a boy who loves you, and marriage is not only romantic, but also needs the foundation of living together, that is to say, you need money, and your current needs are normal;

3. Generally speaking, if your boyfriend loves himself very much and will not be hot and cold to himself, even if he still has no stable job and still no high income, but he is a motivated boy, then he can at least give you a full sense of security in the relationship, and you will believe that he can grow up in life. The great director Ang Lee thought that he had been at home for 6 years, and his wife raised him for 6 years without regrets, that woman can, why can't you? To put it bluntly, it's still your boyfriend who doesn't satisfy you emotionally and doesn't give you a sense of security;

4, so it can be concluded that your boyfriend loves you far from enough, and in terms of feelings alone, it can't meet your needs, so he is not good enough for you, and you can choose to give up. This and how long you have lived with you, there is not much to do with it, and after being together for a long time, it makes you see this unreliable man clearly, you really think about him, it will only make you miserable;

5, however, then again, you're not completely infallible, do you know what love is? Love is to know, to understand, to tolerate, to trust and to be eternal, can I say that you don't love him? Or that you did not fully understand him and understand him, on the basis of accepting his confession, which led to your unpleasant life every day, this is your fault, because you were not mature enough at that time, and you didn't see people clearly enough and not thoroughly, which led to the fact that now after you see his true face, you begin to dislike him, and the beginning of dislike means that you don't love him anymore, you can't tolerate him, just leave him as soon as possible, don't continue to enjoy the love he gives you is not a lot, or even just hot and cold, You are not reconciled, you just want to continue to possess him now, to possess his love for you;

6, the two of you have been in love for so long, but in the end there are still a lot of problems, on the one hand, you have communication problems, on the other hand, you love each other a little too selfishly, you just want to have your own gains, completely ignoring each other's feelings, if he behaved like a fool at the beginning, why don't you supervise him in the name of love and urge him to work hard; And why doesn't he spend a little more time talking to you, just because they know each other too well and don't talk to you if they don't have anything to say? The two of you have been in love for so long, and you don't have an ideal and goal to work for together, and you plan to work hard for this common desire, which shows that your love is a bit too childish;

7. I suggest you give up, reflect on this relationship, and work hard to find true love in the future and find the love and marriage you need;

8. Welcome to ask, welcome!

Hello, friend, actually. Separation does not mean the end, separation is just a new beginning. You gave up on someone who didn't love you!

About leaving and she gave up a person who loves him the most, Xiaobai thinks that love is a matter of two people, and two people need to maintain it with their hearts! And a person will not help even if you are crushed to pieces! Please don't force yourself to forget, really love and say forget it's impossible, don't force yourself, fate is something that can't be found, some things have already had a fixed number in the dark, as long as the other party is happy, they should be happy, although it is difficult to give up a person, but we must be brave, because he can no longer be happy in our place, so he will leave to find his own happiness, now your fulfillment, let him be happy, you should be happy for him!

Maybe sometimes you can't sleep in the middle of the night, remembering the old days, tears fall, happiness is always short-lived, followed by quarrels and crying, each other is very tired! After a long time, the other party found that they were not suitable for each other. So they proposed to break up, they are tired of their current life and want to change, although it is difficult for us to give up this relationship, but still brave to give up!

Because only in this way can each other not be sad, he left you not because you are not good, but because the time has passed, the relationship is weak, and the people who love each other will be separated, and if the fate is exhausted, the original happiness will become a cage! We all want people who have loved each other to live happily and happily! As long as they are happy, we should be happy, because their happiness is what we give, and we should find our own happiness!

It is a mistake to meet the right person at the wrong time! It's wrong to meet the wrong person at the right time! Only meeting the right person at the right time is eternal!

Xiaobai hopes that you will adjust your mood as soon as possible and start to find your own happiness from a new and brave beginning! Learn to work at sunrise and rest at sunset every day! Do more meaningful things to make your life fuller!

In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

The elderly cross the road alone in a wheelchair, and they have difficulty moving. The act was an act of helping others and should be encouraged, and the court rejected the plaintiff's claim.

You can't give up just because you want a child and she doesn't want you, be a man to be generous, she may consider that you are not mature enough when you have children now!

A good relationship is worth saving, and a bad lover let him go.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant effort is considered worthwhile, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Forcing and clinging to it will only deepen your own pain. In fact, there is no need for these indifferent attachments in life, there is nothing that cannot be parted, we think that we can not dilute, but we think that in fact, there is no absolute answer in this world, just like the truth that the iron pillar can be sharpened into a needle, only whether you want to think about it, and how determined you are to think about it. Learn to let go, let yesterday be buried in the bottom of your heart, leave good memories, learn to let go, it is equivalent to learning to forgive yourself, save yourself, there is no perfect thing in the world, life with flaws is perfect, with a little regretful memory, will make us more worthy of recalling, life is just a few decades, why let yourself live so tired?

Time doesn't stand still, it constantly dilutes your memories of yesterday and updates your memories of today, so everything just goes naturally.

The beginning is always sweet Then there is boredom, habit, abandonment, loneliness, despair and sneering Once longed to be with someone for a long time, and later, how glad I left Once upon a time, for a short time, a person we thought we loved deeply. Later, we learned that it wasn't love, it was just lying to ourselves.