My boyfriend is so scary, my boyfriend is too scary

Updated on psychology 2024-02-25
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People who fall in love are like this, I've seen more exaggerated than yours, and now we're together well! Be lenient! He also loves you and worries about you like this!

    Why do you say that he is stingy! You love him so much, what's wrong with surrounding him, you are so wronged! Since you love him, you have to be considerate of him, if he ignores you for a day, will you feel empty?

    Think about it! Don't easily say that others are terrible, he is not terrible at all, he loves you too much, let him see how sad he must be......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Believe he loves you too much.

    It should be a joy to have such a doting boyfriend.

    The smaller the thing, the more it shows that he cares about you.

    When two people are together, you have to consider the thoughts of two people.

    You still need to communicate more, and you will be happier in the future!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find a chance to talk.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it really doesn't work, just give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, he shows that he really cares about you.

    Secondly, this is a sign of lack of self-confidence.

    Thirdly, long-distance relationships are very hard, and most of the long-distance relationships around me do not end well, so you need to trust each other.

    Fourth, my boyfriend is too naïve... You should also explain it well.

    It's not worth seeing for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend is clearly overbearing.

    I always felt that it was going to turn violent

    And you deleted your ex-boyfriend.

    It's his business that your boyfriend has your ex-boyfriend in QQ.

    But you can't have it in your QQ.

    Your boyfriend must be suspicious like this

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm very possessive of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Such a stingy man, you can also look at it. But if you really can't help him, let's break up, and don't believe some people's lies, the country is easy to change and the nature is difficult to change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can't stand it, it's over, if you love him very much and don't want to give up, accept his shortcomings, no one is perfect.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Who told you not to delete your ex-boyfriend? You obviously want to break the thread.

    What a scary, you don't deserve him to like you so much.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Category: Annoyances >> in love.

    Problem Description: Don't know why? When I have a daily relationship with my boyfriend, I will have a feeling of being afraid of him, this is not a feeling, he knows that I am afraid of him, he asks me: Are you afraid of me? I said, "Yes, sometimes you're so fierce."

    My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, I feel as if I have lost myself in front of him, I feel so pitiful in front of him, I really go on like this, I will not be able to stand it, I have always been in front of others, and now I have to be replaced, this feeling is really uncomfortable!

    How can I change not being afraid of him? In fact, he would scream at me when he was not aware of it. Why, am I afraid of him?

    I know that I don't have confidence in myself, and now I have to slowly let myself go and slowly cool down the heart that loves him, because I really can't stand it, I really want to escape.

    Question addendum: My boyfriend is a sales manager, and I am a company accountant.

    I really love him, it's strange, why am I not afraid of anyone, but I am afraid of the people I love?

    But I'm very obedient in front of him, and I never lose my temper, let alone lose my temper.

    I tried to ignore him, or be a little more aggressive with him.

    God willing, I hope I can do it!

    Analysis: It is recommended that you tell him how you feel, so that he does not yell at every turn, maybe this is related to the profession, our manager often yells at the people below, so he is used to yelling when he sees dissatisfaction, in fact, there is nothing after that. Don't think too much, maybe he doesn't have the intention to yell at you, but he just doesn't know how to express his true thoughts, find an opportunity to talk to him about what you think, I think if he really likes you, he will definitely change for you.

    Hehe......But you can also yell back, huh, who is afraid of who? Look at who roars badly, even if you can't roar, you can cry, and then very aggrieved and aggrieved while crying and saying, I think he will be soft-hearted. Of course, this trick can't be used often, and he will feel annoyed if he uses it often, so I think the best way is to find a good opportunity to talk to him.

    Hehe......Also, I think girls must learn to be arrogant, of course, it's used at the right time, it's very useful to enhance relationships, hehe......

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, your boyfriend has severe depression and extreme low self-esteem, as for laziness, I think no one is not lazy, just lack of motivation, like you said, playing mobile phones in class, playing games after class, can he not be lazy when he is so self-defeating?

    I think it's best to find a school psychologist to help him, or go to a good psychiatric hospital in the city to see, mental illness is also a disease, just like a cold, if you can't heal yourself, you have to **, give up** will cause a series of complications such as pneumonia after a long time, and it will be much more difficult to cure it then. His mental illness is already a bit serious, and if he is not treated, it is difficult to talk about the consequences, and it is very likely that he will be completely abolished.

    But men, there is always a certain degree of adaptability, after all, he is still in college, and he also has a chance to be reborn after entering society.

    A few words for you, he is such a person who is easily satisfied, lazy and mediocre, if you can't accept it, you should make it clear to him as soon as possible, it is best not to witness it in private but to let your good sisters witness together, so that he does not dare to do anything. Secondly, you must understand that the dog jumps over the wall in a hurry, you can tell him to give him a chance to regain his strength, as long as he changes his mobile phone to the kind that can only make ** text messages, computer games must not be played when you have an appointment with him, it is not allowed to hang the department, and the department will not meet for a month, if he does not accept it, break up, he can accept it, let him actually do it, as for the specific requirements, I am just talking, after all, different requirements for different people should be put forward.

    To be clear, even if he is crazy, you have to be calm, after all, your own life is also very important, rashly dumping him, he is absolutely difficult to accept, and he is so depressed, you are also dangerous, so it is best to give him a chance, set some positive requirements, let him cheer up, don't mention some unrealistic, such as scholarships, how many grades and so on, you must know that he can't reach it, but I think it's not difficult not to fail, in short, the method lies in your operation, It is best to find a school psychologist to help him.

    Good luck.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This man must be shameless. In this regard, he has played to the extreme.

    However, people can't be too shameless, or they will be like your boyfriend.

    However, you have to remember that as soon as you mention breaking up, he immediately sprinkles, and then you forget it again, which tells him that "sprinkles work", and whatever he wants, just play a trick.

    My advice, just break up, stick to the end, and tell him that it's useless to cheat.

    By the way, be prepared on your own road, at home, etc., in case of accidents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    。。。He's developed into a Raiti dog,。。 Find someone to teach him a hard lesson, and he will be afraid and dare not bother you anymore.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's hard to deal with this kind of person.

    You treat your relationship as if it were a normal friend. Don't be nice to him, or too obviously bad.

    In other words, you can see for yourself how to make him have little interest in you. But you can't be extreme.

    Pay attention to finding a boyfriend in the future.

    Hope it helps.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Next time you mention breaking up, bring your friends, bring your camera, DV, and record the whole process for him, including the remarks that he said he wanted to commit suicide, and send it to his parents!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Damn, it's terrifying, this kind of person is a typical wreck, run away, go to another city.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I just saw one sentence and laughed. Your boyfriend plays with his phone in class, hahahaha...

    Seriously, I will tell you decisively, this kind of man will look down on him if he is a human being.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You just can't feel whether he loves you anymore, this is a problem that will definitely be faced, but if you think about what he endured, first of all, your parents are against it, then you have to bear the pressure brought by your parents, and then, you are afraid of losing, so you can't help but want to get more love, which brings a lot of pressure, and then when he faces a strong need for money, he will have a lot of pressure. And then what you can tell is that he loves you a lot, and he says a lot of things that change for you, right, so you can see how much he values you in his heart. So what you have to do now is not to continue to pressure him, but to do what you have to do and give him encouragement and motivation so that the more you face together, the stronger the relationship will be.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First, your parents' demands may be more than your boyfriend can handle. Causes your boyfriend to be anxious and reluctant to meet your parents. The main fear of embarrassment.

    Second, if love is mixed with interests, it will deteriorate, and your boyfriend already has the idea of leaving you, not because he doesn't love you, but because he is embarrassed. It's not what your parents ask you to do. You can't go against your parents' requirements, it's just forcing your boyfriend in disguise.

    Thirdly, and finally, you have to do your parents' work and buy a house together or something. Take out half of the money for the down payment, and so on. Let your boyfriend have confidence in your future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Even if you love a man again, if he can't give you these 3 things, you don't love it.

    1. I can't give you his care.

    When a man falls in love with you, his concern for you will become an instinct, so if a man says he loves you, but can't give you the care he wants, then, his love for you is just talking, not loving you from the bottom of his heart, so, at this time, you don't have to pay stupidly, like a man like this, he just wants to play with you, and he doesn't have feelings for you, when he gets tired of playing and gets tired of it, he will definitely turn around and leave you without hesitation, so, If you accidentally fall in love with such a man, after you notice it, you must see it clearly as soon as possible and wake up as soon as possible.

    2. He can't give you his pampering and accommodation.

    If a man really loves you and wants to live with you for the rest of his life, after he is with you, he will definitely give you his spoiling and accommodation, and will spoil you as a happy little princess. And if the man you love, he always loves to care about you, and many times he will get into trouble with you because of some trivial things, then, obviously, he doesn't really love you, so he will care about you so much. I don't know how to spoil you at all.

    3. He can't give you the company you want.

    It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, and what women crave most in love is the company of men. And if a man, if he really loves you, then, after being with you, he must be willing to spend time with you, many times, he would rather play a little less games, but also accompany you, of course, even if he is really busy, so busy that he has no time to accompany you to do what you like to do, at this time, he will not snub you because of work, but will try to squeeze out time for you, for example:

    After work, he will accompany you to watch your favorite movie or go out with you for a meal that you like to eat.

    And if a man, he will say "I love you" to you all day long, but, in front of work and you, he will always choose work first, you second, then, he must not love you so much, in this case, you should stop wasting your feelings, die as soon as possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Can you only say that you have ever seen a fisherman catch a fish and feed it to the fish?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    One kind of real villain, the other kind of hypocrite, do you understand what that means? You think she's cruel, cruel when you kill, but when you eat pork, do you think you're cruel too? The chicken, fish, meat, and eggs you eat, that one that has no life?

    In fact, you are the real terrible pig no one kills, do you go to eat raw?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't dwell on it, it's nothing to kill a pig, it's just that you haven't seen a scene like this before, and it feels scary. If you think about it, don't those GIs in the United States go to the battlefield to kill people? Nothing, don't be afraid.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You have to go to see a psychiatrist, if you suppress it like this, you will get sick, if he likes to kill animals, let him sell pork, kill enough, and you will be safe.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hiding is not a solution to the drop You can tell your boyfriend that your behavior and that action scare you, but... He probably has a violent gene inside him... I've also thundered.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Girl, I have to say that you have seen too little, in fact, this is a very common thing in the countryside. It feels like you can see a psychiatrist.

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