Is silence golden? Is silence gold or not?

Chen Siyao, the pre-junior (3) class of Songjiang No. 6 Middle School, said to the ancients: "Silence is golden. So, is silence Kim or not?

One would think: silence is not golden. Indeed, sometimes, silence is cowardice, evasion, and selfishness.

But there are those who believe that silence is golden. Yes, sometimes, silence is a kind of demeanor, a kind of cultivation, and a kind of spiritual beauty!

1) Silence is not golden. There was once a man who rode his bicycle through a deserted road and went home. Suddenly, there was a woman's cry:

Help me! Robbery! Robbery!

When the cyclist heard the cry for help, he was stunned for a moment, and then silence was not golden. He fled as fast as he could. He chose to escape!

At this critical moment, he was silent, and that was a sign of cowardice! Wouldn't it be difficult for him to help the woman and help her call the police? Later, when the young cyclist returned home, he found that his mother had not yet arrived.

Soon his mother returned home in embarrassment, and the bag was snatched by thieves! Faced with such a fact, the young man was speechless, who could blame him? Who told him to be silent at that time?

Silence is not golden. (2) Silence is golden. On the bus, it is usually crowded, and there will inevitably be some bumps.

There was a little boy huddled in the crowd, and an old grandfather accidentally stepped on the little boy's foot. The old man hurriedly apologized to the little boy, but the little boy was calculating and scolded the old man. But the old man didn't say a word.

This is a kind of generosity, a kind of tolerance, and a kind of cultivation ......Silence is golden. Is silence gold or not? In fact, silence is both gold and not gold.

We need to have the ability to discern right from wrong, and to correctly judge whether or not to be silent at that time. Silence is not golden. Helpful for me!

2) Answer, support me.

If silence is golden, then those who are not silent are poor.

Sane people vs stupid people.

Silence is golden" It has been said that "arguing with boring people is a waste of life!" ”

Silence is not golden" Another person said, "When you encounter an opportunity, you are humiliated, and if you don't speak up, you will only regret yourself!" ”

Whether silence is gold or not is up to you, and no one else can make the decision for you.

Complexity is the basic purity of many things, and it would be too naïve to use a standard to go all over the world. Even if it is the same flavor of cake, different people will feel differently, and what we can do is to experience how we feel when we eat cake, instead of asking why others feel different from our own, which is a futile and meaningless effort.

However, it is unfortunate that not everything is as personal as the "taste of cake". Sometimes, we think that we are fighting for a black and white thing, and think that we are on the right side, but in the end we have not found an answer that is accepted by everyone, and there are always people who have the opposite opinion, and the smoke of this "battle" will continue to permeate.

We also can't set a unified standard answer to the question of whether silence is gold, because it contains a person's value judgment on silence, valuable silence is gold, and silence without value is not gold, so the question is, what is your value standard? If you ask a person what his or her value standard is, then you will be amazed at the breadth and depth of Chinese, because you will get all kinds of answers.

Trying to figure out what values people have, or choosing the "right" ones, is futile and pointless, just like trying to figure out whether silence is gold or not.

In this regard, when we judge whether silence at a certain moment is golden, we should ask our hearts and make judgments based on our own value standards, rather than making judgments in advance, because that will affect your choice.

Finally, don't be afraid to make mistakes, say what you want to say, and actively correct if you are wrong, after all, everyone has the basic ability to judge the situation, and no matter how wrong you are, you will not be wrong.