What to do if you love him and love yourself and lose yourself distressed, masters and mature people

It's very simple, you're too bored Don't be so direct as the puppet says, try to find something you like to do, such as thinking of some small pets Here are some recommendations for hamsters Hehe Very cute little things, scatter your feelings a little to other places You will have a sustenance You won't feel so painful Live a little more sensible Friend.

It is advisable to go back to your old circle and find out how you used to feel.

You can't do that. In case one day he does something that you can't accept (note, I said just in case).

You may go to extremes then. Think about your previous hobby and try to do it again.

How does a person love me? I'm willing to die.。! Be natural, don't think about it!!

It's just that there is a strong dependency! Maybe you're really bored and have nothing to do, something will happen like this, you care too much about him, find something to do! Actually, I also have a very tricky question, and it feels similar to you!

Thinking about him sooner or later, find yourself some love! It's a lot better that way.

Then imagine what you will do when he leaves you one day, whether you are no longer alive, whether you love so much that you can really die for him?

I'm going too far, but it can happen! Think carefully!

It's not a good thing to love so blindly.

In the world of feelings, no matter how much you love someone, you must adhere to some bottom lines, don't forget yourself because you like someone too much, and only ask for nothing in return, so that you are very tired, and you will not get better love from the other party.

The first bottom line is not to lose yourself.

Everyone has their own personality and habits, and they can change themselves for the people they like, but they can't blindly tolerate it, they must love sensibly to pay for the number of shouts, and they can't lose themselves for others, and they must have reservations about themselves.

The second bottom line is that you can't be estranged from your parents and relatives because you like someone.

In fact, there are many people in this situation, either because they insist on falling out with their parents regardless of their parents' opinions, or because they love someone too much, they are too lost in their own love, and they neglect to contact their family and friendship. Love may gradually fade with the passage of time, but family affection will always be there, especially the parents' feelings for themselves are only increasing, so there must be no bias in the relationship.

The third bottom line is because the other party gives up their career and gives up a job with good prospects.

Regardless of the economic independence of men and women is the foundation of survival and life, no one can expect a person to live for a lifetime, life is not only love, but there are a series of practical problems such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, which all need money, and love will be hurt when there is no money.

In a relationship, don't be too accommodating to your partner.

Proper accommodation is a kind of favor that allows him, but if everything is accommodating, without principles and bottom lines, it will seem that you are too humble and cowardly. When the other party has some innocuous and unreasonable trouble, they can be accommodating. Some of the other party's living habits and shortcomings can be accommodated, but those things that rise to morality or their own principles should be properly reminded of the other party.

If you love someone too much, there are indeed people who will do anything for him. But you still have to distinguish right from wrong, and if you can't do something, you can't accommodate it, you can't tolerate it, at least you have to remind, discuss, suggest, and refuse!