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Spend more time with him, take him out to play, spend more time with him, the child feels happy and relaxed with you, accepts you, naturally you call him he is willing to sleep with you, and, believe in the natural plot between mother and son, it will be fine, come on.

The child has less, and naturally you are not close, and the relationship needs to be cultivated, no matter who it is. Spend more time on your child, so that your child likes you, trusts you, and relies on you, and naturally he can't do without you.

Get along with him more, play with him more, and if you stay with him for a long time, you will be better.

Nowadays, many parents of children need to go to work, so they give their children to their grandparents or grandparents, but at night the parents of the children will bring their children with them and do not let the children sleep with the elderly.

There was once a saying that the old man had a heavy yin qi and could not sleep with his children. If the elderly and children are allowed to sleep together for a long time, the elderly's face will become more and more ruddy, and the child's health will become worse and worse.

This statement sounds a little unreliable, more feudal superstition, but scientifically speaking, letting the baby sleep with the elderly will indeed affect the health of the child, mainly the respiratory system. Because the respiratory function of the elderly is somewhat declining, they will inhale more fresh air to obtain enough oxygen when they sleep at night, and the corresponding babies who sleep with the elderly will inhale more carbon dioxide, which will lead to insufficient oxygen intake for the baby and affect the development of the brain.

It seems that it doesn't matter whether the old man's yin qi is heavy or not, it is indeed not good for the health of the child that the old man and the child sleep together, so it is not recommended to let the old man sleep with the child, in addition to the above will affect the health of the child, it will also have the following adverse effects:

1. Babies are more likely to get sick.

The baby's immune system is not yet fully developed, and the resistance to many viruses is not as good as that of adults. Compared with the parents of young children, the elderly are more likely to contract some diseases, and when the elderly sleep with their children, it is easy to infect the baby with germs and cause the baby to get sick.

Second, the baby's sleep quality is poor.

The baby's sleep is very susceptible to external interference, and the slight cough and the sound of opening the door will wake up the baby. The elderly are less awake and wake up more often, and the second is to care too much about the child, and always like to touch the baby's body after getting up at night to see if the baby is hot or cold. And this kind of care will interfere with the baby's sleep and affect the quality of sleep.

3. The baby lacks independence.

It is said that the intergenerational relatives, the old people love their children very much, and most of them have reached the level of doting. Let the elderly sleep with the child, and the elderly will generally wrap up all the children's things, such as making the bed, folding the quilt, dressing, etc. Naturally, children will not be exposed to these things, and it will be difficult for them to stand on their own feet.

Fourth, the baby lacks a sense of security.

No matter how well grandparents take care of their children, they can't replace their mother's love. Before birth, the child gets a sense of security through the mother's warm womb, and after birth, it needs to get a sense of security through the mother's breastfeeding and hugging. If the mother can't take care of the child during the day and chooses to let the child sleep with the elderly at night, the child will become fragile, timid, and insecure due to the lack of maternal love.

5. Affect the health of the elderly.

The above is all about the impact on children, in fact, letting children sleep with the elderly at night also has a great impact on the health of the elderly. It is very hard to take care of children, and it is tired enough for the elderly to help take down the children during the day, and let the elderly take care of the children at night, which will seriously affect the sleep of the elderly and is not conducive to physical health.

Summary. 1. Babies are prone to insecurity, parents are often not around, living with grandparents for a long time, plus grandparents' excessive doting on the baby and sleeping with the elderly, may bring these 3 "changes" to the baby, don't ignore it! 1. Affect the baby's brain development, the elderly sleep with the baby, the biggest impact on the baby's health, is the impact on the respiratory system, especially before the baby is 3 years old, it is not recommended to sleep with the elderly at night.

The elderly breathe in more oxygen at night, which affects the baby's intellectual developmentThe elderly are older, and the respiratory system is much weaker than the baby's parents. So, when it's time to go to bed at night. Babies often sleep with the elderly, and there will be a lack of oxygen, which will lead to brain development being affected, which is very serious for the baby.

Dear, can you elaborate on the specific situation?

1. Baby Rong Hu Dayi is insecure, parents are often not around, living with grandparents for a long time, plus grandparents' excessive doting on the baby and sleeping with the elderly, may bring the baby these 3 "changes", mother don't ignore! 1. Affect the baby's brain development, the elderly sleep with the baby, the biggest impact on the baby's health, is the respiratory system, especially before the baby is 3 years old, it is not recommended to sleep with the elderly at night. The elderly breathe in more oxygen at night, which affects the baby's intellectual developmentThe elderly are older, and the respiratory system is much weaker than the baby's parents.

So, when it's time to go to bed at night. Babies often sleep with the elderly, and there will be a lack of oxygen, which will lead to brain development being affected, which is very serious for the baby.

2. Affect the baby's future personality Compared with parents, the elderly will only be more pampered with the baby, and sleep with the elderly at night, the old man will follow the baby's wishes, and will not restrict their behavior. But as the saying goes, I have heard a lot of people say that the baby has been blind with the elderly since he was a child, and he has a lack of full sense of accompaniment in Hoi An, and it is not easy to establish a close parent-child relationship with his mother, which affects the parent-child relationship. So it's tangled now.

I directly told my friends to take this opportunity today, and I will tell you these reasons, babies really can't sleep with the elderly! The old man's exhaled breath is turbid and empty, and the person's age is older, and all the functional indicators of the body will decline.

Dear, is there anything else you need help with, the teacher can help you analyze and analyze.

Summary. Pro( ° Hello!) I'm glad to answer for you that grandparents are coming home, and my daughter won't let my grandma sleep with her, I think you should educate your daughter well, grandma is also a relative, at least let your daughter agree to sleep with grandma first.

The grandparents came to the house, and the girl didn't let her grandma sleep with her.

Pro( ° Hello!) I'm glad to answer for you that grandparents are coming home, and the girl doesn't let grandma sleep with her, I think you should do a good job of educating your daughter, grandma is also a relative, at least let your grandma agree to sleep with grandma first.

Tell you that your grandmother is your father's mother, and if you don't have a grandmother, you won't have a father, and if you don't sleep with your grandmother, your father will be sad.

The child coaxes more, and by the way, she also educates her to learn to respect people, if she doesn't even respect her grandmother, the child will become selfish.

Grandma really wants the baby to sleep with her, but she doesn't dare to sleep directly, so she always deliberately asks the baby repeatedly in front of me, I see her intentions, and I didn't speak, because I am actually reluctant in my heart, but I don't want the old man to be lost, and I also have questions in my heart, "Is it good for the child to sleep with the elderly?" Since I didn't speak, she tacitly agreed and carried the child to her room to sleep! In fact, this situation has happened occasionally since he was three months old, but he has not been weaned before, and I don't want to make my grandmother too hard, so I insisted on sleeping with me until he was 11 months old.

Now he's a year old, and he's been sleeping with his grandmother for the past week.

Recently, I have been busy, I have to go to practice driving at night during the day, and when I get home, the baby has fallen asleep with my grandmother, I feel that the day is only in the morning to be able to hug him, recently I feel that he is not as sticky to me as before, I am actually quite lost, I feel that I have fallen out of favor, my friend said: "How good it is that the child does not stick to you, you can go if you want to" But I still like him sticking to me, maybe grandma is also this kind of heart, sometimes I feel like two people are robbing children, Grandma also hopes that the child loves the most like to stick to her, and feels that the child needs him the most, so as long as the child cries, she always says: "Come on, with grandma, with grandma" and then take the child away, in this regard, Bao Dad also said a little helpless, although we understand her love for the child, but the heart is not a taste, is there any sympathy?

I think it's better for children to sleep with their parents. First, the grandmother is already very tired with the child during the day, and she should rest well at night so as not to overwhelm the body; Second, because parents do not have time to spend with their children during the day, they should let their children sleep with their parents at night to make up for the absence during the day; Third, if children sleep with their parents, they can also learn in an interactive way before bedtime, which is also a good time for education. However, the old man also has her reasons, first, she just likes children to sleep with her; Second, she feels that the child sleeps with her, which means that the child likes her very much, and she has a sense of pride when she returns to her hometown and tells others; Third, she understands our hard work during the day and wants us to have a good rest at night.

Even though we explained our reasons to her, she always said that it was okay, saying that his father used to sleep with his grandparents when he was a child, and that she was not tired.

Have you ever had a similar experience? What do you guys think about this?

[Today, I slept with my grandmother] Today, I slept with my grandmother Text:

Today, I slept with my grandmother Today, I slept with my grandmother at Wuzhen Zhicai Primary School, Tongxiang City, Zhejiang Province Three (3) Wu Minju On Thursday afternoon, I went home from school and my brother Liang came home, and today, I slept with my grandmother. When I got home, I put down my school bag, took out my home-school contact book, and turned to the page of the day to see what homework was written on it. Then, I took out my homework book and started working on it.

I did it for more than half an hour, and finally it was all done. At this time, Grandma returned. I said:

Grandma, are you working overtime today? "Overtime! I hurriedly ran to the kitchen and got two bowls of rice.

Then, I held the bowl in both hands and handed it to Daddy, and said, "Grandma, Daddy, please eat!" They took the meal and ate it, and the third grade of primary school wrote "Today, I slept with my grandmother".

I also quickly filled myself a bowl of rice and ate together. After eating for a while, I was ready to eat. Not long after I had eaten, my grandmother and dad had also eaten.

I quickly said, "Dad, I'll wash the dishes!" "I packed up the dishes and chopsticks and went to the kitchen.

I put it in the sink and started washing the dishes. After washing the dishes and chopsticks, I put them all in the cupboard. Then I ran upstairs to my grandmother's room and went to sleep.

Because my grandfather went to Tongxiang today, my grandmother would be scared and couldn't sleep when she slept alone, so I went to sleep with my grandmother. Instructor: Feng Yongkang (Submission:

yongkangfeng on 2006-10-30 14:08:00

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Girl, if Dad insists on taking Grandma to live in your house, I hope you don't stop him, Dad is Grandma's son after all, and honoring his parents is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Grandma Xu doesn't come to your house, but my father can't help but be invited, do you want to be filial? Your father was right.

Girl, you can rest assured that even if your father invites your grandmother to live in your house, your grandmother will not live in your house for three reasons: first, you rent a house, the place is not wide, narrow and narrow, and grandma will not be relaxed when she lives; The second is that if you are sick and have family difficulties, grandma will be considerate of you; The third is that you and your mother will not grasp the attitude of grandma is very normal, grandma can see it, so grandma can't stay in your house.

If that's the case, why don't you make a good impression on grandma? Huan Huan Xi brought grandma here, grandma is happy, dad realizes the opportunity to be filial to grandma, you and mom also behave, people's hearts change, grandma will do her best to serve her eldest granddaughter, and then happily send grandma away, the family is happy, why not, what do you say?

That's right. Your grandmother is here, and she can help Zhang Luo's family, and your mother is not so hard. Take a step back and open the sky.

It's not easy, but if your contribution can solve your parents' quarrels, your contribution is worth it, you should consider your father's thoughts, filial piety to your grandmother, filial piety to your father, filial piety, is to obey, keep.

That's right, filial piety comes first! Put yourself in your father's shoes and imagine what you would do to your mom if it were you.

Your dad is worried about your grandma alone.

Dad's approach is right, and Mom's thinking is also correct. Although the burden is heavy, family affection is still important.

As a child, you should have this obligation, an old man can eat as much as he wants, nothing, just get used to it slowly.