How can I be with him, how can I be with the right person?

As long as you don't look ugly, women chasing men are just a layer of veil, and when you break it, the chance of being with him is greater.

I was with him, and I talked about my ideals, hobbies, what activities I like (what I like to play), and my plans for the near future. Remember to talk, not ask, don't ask him one question after another, try to show yourself as simple as possible.

Observe more mood changes, care more, give more encouragement, no matter where he wants to go, you tell him that he is willing to accompany him (if you can't do it, just say that your heart is together), no matter what he wants to do (not illegal), you tell him that you are willing to support him (if you can't do it, just say spiritual).

If I ask him out, what should I play?

Nearby entertainment venues, ice rinks, parks, etc. According to his hobbies and usual activities.

When you want to go somewhere, tell him and let him accompany you. Whether he wants to or not, just say, "Stay with me and protect me!" I need you, you're around, I'm safe! ”。But don't do this too often, give each other space. ）

Try to make him pay for you, and being willing to pay shows that he cares about you. The more you give, the more you love.

And I tell you, as soon as he gives you his phone, you say, "Do you know why I'm asking you to buy a phone? Because I want to see you again because I like you. This absolutely works, but don't say that you use another QQ to chat with him, understand it, don't confess to her directly, be generous, boys basically can't stand the confession!

And then you say, "I don't need you to give me an answer now, but if I can see you again," and see how he reacts. ·· In fact, you have the initiative and decision-making power in your own hands Take 10,000 steps back and say Even if he doesn't like you, you will win You will be able to justifiably like him in the future Ask him out to play Understand whether you listen to your sister and confess to her! In fact, don't worry so much, it's not ashamed, all you know is that you think that you are an infatuated person, and you have the courage to express your love, and you are not ugly at all! ·

Treat him to dinner and thank him. Then don't be too ordinary to find her to leave a message in his space every day If there is any party, you can call him out, preferably with many people, slowly, but it is best to ask him if he has a girlfriend or a woman he likes.

I really wanted to be with him, but he said we can't do it, and I don't know what to do, and he's a guy who can't say anything in this world, he's going to graduate, and he's about to enter a new environment, maybe.

1. What kind of person you are, you fall in love with whomever you are.

2. You can try to redeem your love, but don't be stubborn.

3. The eternal truth: if you want to be strong, please first improve yourself!!

4. Don't spend so much time pursuing a person, when you don't attract a person, your so-called "pursuit" is no different from "harassment" in the eyes of the other party, the higher the frequency of your pursuit, the more sincere the attitude, the more evasive and impatient the other party's attitude towards you.

6. Don't care too much about the "mate selection criteria" that girls say, many people's "mate selection criteria" will change in the end.

7. Don't give in and curry favor without a bottom line in order to chase a girl, always remember the purpose of chasing a girl: we want to find a suitable object to live with.

8. Chasing a girl is just the beginning of a relationship, don't fight Hongroll to feel that the other party agrees to be with you and get carried away, because the spare long-term relationship is the most testing.

9. When you are in love, you encounter gossip. It is better not to listen, not ask, and not to say distorted remarks from the outside world.

10. Even if you are in love, you must constantly improve yourself.

11. A good relationship is a catalyst for mutual achievement.

12. The earthy love words on the Internet can only be said on separate occasions.

13. Don't give yourself a full account.

14. Love requires two people to manage and master the balance between two people.

15. Many love chicken soup articles tell us to guide the other party to invest, as if you have to let yourself take a big advantage in order to be considered powerful, please think about it yourself.

16. The long-term relationship between people depends on commonality and attraction, not prayer and compromise.

17. If you are in love with someone for a long time, you will get tired of it, and you must establish a good attitude and countermeasures to accept the insipid.

18. People who really love you, when they have a choice, will not try to break through your bottom line, let alone deliberately embarrass you.

19. Most straight men really don't have a high mood quotient when they get along with women.

20. Others follow the clouds, don't compare, what other people's girlfriends have, you also want what you want.

If you want others to become your good friends, it is mainly by your verbal communication and contact with each other in things, so that the other party has an understanding of you, and has trust and a sense of security with you, so that he will relax his vigilance against you, and he will talk freely to you, and you will easily become good friends. You are introverted and don't have important things, so you are usually reluctant to communicate with others, and you are even more reluctant to joke and chat with others when you have nothing to do, so that others will also have a defensive heart towards you, and it is impossible to become a good friend because of the distance between the two hearts. At most, you can only be ordinary friends or nod your head for the sake of face.

I think your introversion is the biggest obstacle to making many good friends, because people who have a wide range of friends are basically extroverts. But it doesn't mean that introverts are difficult to make many friends, as long as you have a positive attitude of making friends and communicate more with others, good friends will naturally increase. There is a point that introverts should be reliable once they think that a good friend is beyond the reach of those who have a wide range of friends.

I quote this sentence from a book, and I have never practiced it myself.

For those people you feel you can't talk to or people you can't get used to, I think you have to control your emotions Lu Dahe, and you can't be happy and show them the face you don't like. You can't ignore them because of your preferences, at least you should be a nod and friend with them. But by doing this, it doesn't mean that you approve of them, but you still know in your heart that they are not friendly to you.

Doing so will help you a lot in the future of your life. If you feel depressed in your heart, even if you don't talk about it, they will come to you and help you solve it. As the saying goes, there is one more road for many friends, and one more wall for many enemies.

And you must remember that in order to get help from your friends, you should have relationships in normal times, and don't wait until something happens to think about it. That's called not burning incense at ordinary times, and cramming Buddha's feet temporarily. Besides, it's not called pandering, it's the wisdom of being a man, and it's a means of retreating as an early advance.