Is it true that there is an incompatibility that will only be discovered after years together?

It really is. Because there is a kind of incompatibility, only after many years together, will you find out the discord between each other. This is also the reason why many partners who have been in love for many years break up.

Yes, because when two people first start together, they will always tend to show their best side and hide their bad side, so only when two people get along for a long time will their nature and shortcomings be gradually exposed, and then they will know if it is really suitable.

It's not like this, when two people who are not suitable get along for a period of time, they will find that there will be a lot of conflicts between two people, and two people will choose to part ways at this time.

It will indeed be a long time before it is discovered. Because two people are together, they can't find so many shortcomings of each other in a short time.

It's not that if it's not suitable, you will find that when you first start together, there will be a lot of problems when two people are together.

It is true that after many years together, I can find out the incompatibility between two people, because if the time is relatively short, it will not be exposed.

There are many people who are not suitable, but after being together for a long time, they find out that it is because neither of them will stop to think about their feelings, so it is said that after experiencing a lot of things, they find out that they are not suitable.

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason is that it is not suitable to be together and reluctant to let go, and I have not met a better and more suitable person than him, and I have not let go of the relationship for so long so quickly, and it always takes time to dilute it. I still want to give the other party or give myself a possibility, try, maybe it's appropriate, and I can run in well. But it often backfires, and many times it feels like two people are not suitable.

The second reason is that after being together for a long time, I feel that nothing is good, there are all shortcomings, and I feel disgusted when I watch it every day. As long as there is a quarrel, I will break up on my lips, say anything outside, and I will not think about whether the other party can accept it, never think about these, but the relationship has faded after a long time. However, when I really broke up, I was reluctant to give up, I felt that I still had him in my heart, and he was still there, but I had been together for too long, and I felt that I didn't care anymore, but in fact, I still couldn't let go of it in my heart, and I was still reluctant.

The third reason is that if you have been together for too long, it takes internal energy to break the habit, and the human brain will automatically look for the most labor-saving state. At the same time sunk costs.

It is also the reason why people are reluctant to let go. It's like buying **, the more it falls, the more reluctant it is to sell. In addition, many times there is a reluctance to part because there is no better alternative.

The fourth reason, because the feeling is built bit by bit, a memory of a journey, but a lot of feelings are reluctant to be inappropriate, in fact, it's like I don't want this toy anymore, but I don't want to give it to others, it's more selfish.

The fifth reason is that sometimes two people are not necessarily together because of love, but also because they are used to it. Getting used to living with someone is like getting up every morning and drinking a glass of milk, and suddenly one day without milk (you can't see that person) will feel empty in your heart, as if the whole day is incomplete, even if you quarrel with this person every day. People are afraid of change, and they are afraid of variables.

Knowing that it is not suitable to be together, there must be something that each other wants.

The two of them know that there will be no results. But still to be together, there must be something back to each other. Or when we first got to know each other, a lot of things happened that made each other unforgettable. So the two of them are also entangled now.

Not being suitable does not mean that you don't love each other, when you are together, you must both like each other and love each other, so you will be together. There are certainly many aspects of incompatibility, but if you love each other enough, you can definitely overcome this incompatibility.

Because I like it, I know that in many ways the two people are not suitable, but the feelings in my heart, the love in my heart cannot be concealed, and this thing that cannot be covered cannot be deceived by myself, and I always want to show it unconsciously and want to be together.

Everything is caused by love, although in the process of communication, I feel that the other party is not suitable for me, but what if I already like it, now I am reluctant to let go, there is still a glimmer of hope in my heart, I feel that after being together, two people can run in with each other and become suitable people, there is this possibility, but the result is not necessarily good.

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together, that's because I can't breathe, I just feel like him very much, although I know that it's not appropriate to be together, but I can't let go of him in my heart, so it's still together, which can only show that you have him in your heart.

Because there is still love, I can't let go of the expectations I once had for a better future with him, I always feel that if I run in again, no matter how much tolerance and tolerance will get better, I want him to be relaxed and happy, but he only feels depressed, and wants to make himself calm and tolerant, but he feels wronged for a while, and they both feel that they have paid and changed a lot for each other, but the other party does not feel it. I hope he is all right, and he doesn't dare to look back, after all, he loves each other.

Although I know that it is not appropriate, we must love each other at the moment. Since you love each other, why don't you love thoroughly and vigorously? In this way, even if you are separated in the future, you will not regret why you didn't have a good love before, and you will have more good memories.

It may be because they like each other more, or they may just be looking for a sense of belonging, or there is no other suitable person of the opposite sex, so two inappropriate people will also be together.

Maybe two people have some common ideas, and then they will be together, and if they really want to be together, it depends on whether the two people are suitable.

If you love each other deeply, you don't have to think about it so much. There is affection between people, there is family affection, and it is natural to be sad when they are separated. Everyone knows that once people fall in love, they can't extricate themselves, maybe we will look forward to a new turn in things, sometimes it's just a self-deceptive idea, because although the two are not suitable, they have feelings for each other, so they will feel more painful after breaking up, indicating that the pain caused by the depth of the relationship between the two is deeper than the pain caused by the inappropriate degree of the two.

Sometimes the two are together, they have loved each other, they have paid, and they may no longer be suitable for being together, but they will still be reluctant, one is reluctant to give up a relationship, and they feel that they can save it, and the other is reluctant to pay for each other, and there is no result in the end.

Most of the reasons are reluctant, when you are together, you should be together, cherish the moment, don't think about it so much, if you really can't be together, then let go in a chic way and always meet someone who is suitable for you.

In love life, incompatibility is actually the norm, because everyone's personality, conditions, and three views are different, so it is impossible for two people to be completely suitable together, and they insist on being together because they like each other.

Everyone will have something to worry about, knowing that they can't but they are reluctant to want to get it, but instead of two people being sad but it is better to take a step back, many people will also have attachments, which is very normal, because he is serious about this matter and it is important to him.

Some people are not destined to be all the way, let you tie up to a boat ruthlessly, it's just in vain, how he loves you, you can't understand, how you dig out your heart and lungs to accommodate him, he can't understand, he feels that two people are in two parallel worlds, seen from afar, no matter how hard you walk, you can't get close.

Knowing that it is not suitable, they still want to be together, mainly because they are greedy for the material enjoyment of the other party, the other party is a relatively wealthy person, or has better economic strength, so they will be with him.

Many people are blinded in love, knowing that they will not have a future with him, and they are not suitable for him, but they still have to try to be with him, because they are reluctant. I can't bear to pay for such a long time and it will be replicated. So even if it's not suitable, try to be together.

That's because I haven't met a more suitable one, so I have to give each other a look, knowing that it's not very suitable but not saying that I can't get by, it's better to have someone to accompany you than someone who doesn't have a companion.

First, I haven't met someone who is better and more suitable for himself than him, and I don't let go of the relationship for so long so quickly.

Second, after being together for a long time, I feel that nothing is good, there are all shortcomings, and I feel disgusted when I watch it every day. But I'm used to it, and I don't know how to separate.

Sometimes it's not appropriate to let people know, but you feel reluctant to let it go. It may be a habit that has been formed over a long period of time, and habits make it difficult to give up.

Because I like it too much and can't put it down, I know that it is not suitable and there is no result, but I still insist on trying it like a moth to a fire, otherwise I can't let it go in this life, and I will regret it for a lifetime, because I always feel unwilling if I haven't tried it.

I know it's not suitable, but I still want to be together Most of the reasons are mainly because I am unwilling to be together, because after being together for so long, you know each other, if you find a relationship again, you have to start from scratch, understand from the beginning, and it will only be very tiring.

Because I am reluctant to give up on each other, I love deeply, I feel uncomfortable leaving each other, and I also expect the other party to change, and I can't bear to give up this relationship.

I think that you don't know each other very well, and you are reluctant to separate, but you still care about each other, love each other, and you lack knowledge. It's normal for girls to have such a mentality, if you really love, treat your boyfriend with a more tolerant heart.

I know it's no longer suitable, why are we still together? Because they love each other, they know that it is not suitable, and they still have to be together. They want to turn the unsuitable into the appropriate. Make the impossible possible. This is the power of love.

This is because two people love each other too much. So though knowing that the two people have a lot of differences. It may not be appropriate to be together, but they still have to try. This way you won't be left with regrets.

I know it's not suitable, but we still want to be together. It shows that the two of them are not together because of love, but because of some other factors. Maybe it's money, maybe it's making do with it. It's all about being together for the sake of being together.

In a relationship, two people are not suitable but still insist on being together, will they be happy? I think it will, because as long as two people dare to try, they have already taken the first step bravely, and as for whether they can be happy, they must be able to know after they are together. And even if the two can't go to the end, at least they have been happy and happy for a short time.

And if two people want to be happy for a long time, what should they do?

Clause.

First, dare to try

Love is never waiting for it, and it often takes the initiative to have a story. And wouldn't it be a pity if two people clearly like each other, but give up together because some aspect is not suitable? Life is rushed, and some people may never meet again once they miss it, so don't be bound by reality, follow your inner choice, and take the first step bravely.

How do you know if you don't try together first; Whether two people are suitable or not, how can you know if you will be happy if you don't try to be together first. Practice brings true knowledge, so we should all be brave enough to try in order to have a chance to find the true happiness.

Clause.

Second, we must understand and run in with each other

In our life, it is generally difficult to meet two people who are perfectly compatible, and many souls that are very compatible are produced in continuous understanding and running-in. So if you don't feel like two people are right together at first, but you like it very much and want to be together, I think it's okay. If it is not suitable in terms of personality, you can continue to run in in your daily life in the later stage, understand each other, and it is not suitable in terms of guessing and destroying the court at home, but you can also understand and communicate with each other and solve problems together.

I think that as long as two people like each other and have the determination to be together, and can understand each other, then they will be able to get happiness in the end.

Clause.

Third, be able to persevere

If two people know that they are not suitable but still want to be together, then these two people must have the determination to keep going. If two people are not suitable, they may encounter more tests emotionally, and at this time, two people need to be able to have enough confidence and courage to face these tests, and at the same time they must continue to persevere, and have the determination to go on, so that two people can be happy.

Therefore, the two know that they are not suitable but still want to be together, I think this is a very brave act, not suitable does not mean that they cannot become suitable, as long as two people can understand each other and can persevere, then I think they will be happy.

You won't be happy, because there will be a lot of quarrels, there will be a lot of problems, there will be a lot of disagreements, and you will feel very sad.