My girlfriend had a fight with my father, what should I do!

Updated on society 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it's your father's fault, then you have to enlighten both parties about this matter, but under normal circumstances, even if your father is wrong, your girlfriend shouldn't quarrel with him, because she should respect your father, so forget it after the matter is over, pay attention next time!!

    If your girlfriend is wrong, then a woman who doesn't respect her elders is not a good woman, and if she doesn't respect your father, it also shows disrespect to you, and if she loves you, how can she quarrel with your father?

    So, if it's the latter, unless there are special reasons, this girl is not suitable to be a wife, really, I hope you don't be careless!!

    Love may be temporary, but people's preferences will change, if it is not a good girl in nature, love will become less, if it is a good girl in nature, love will become more, don't hate each other in the future.

    People will change and grow, see if she will grow!! Some people don't grow up because they're too selfish, they think they're right about everything, and they never wake up, while some girls grow up. Landlord, individual differences, judge for yourself!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Look at which party is wrong, if it is really the girlfriend who is wrong, then you should really first analyze the ins and outs of the matter to the girlfriend, if he accepts, it means that he is essentially very good, you also have to correct your position, help or not help relatives, I found that my object is like this, no matter what is inappropriate between me and his parents, he will analyze first, if I and his parents are at fault, he will say: good women do not fight with men, and then pull me to the mall to buy food for me or divert my attention.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Quarrel before you get married??? This is a bit of a problem. Let's see who is reasonable, if your father is reasonable, then don't want this girlfriend now.

    Because she doesn't respect your father at all, it means that she definitely doesn't really love you, and you should have heard the word "love and love". Of course, if your girlfriend is reasonable, then you should also persuade your girlfriend that no matter what, the father is the father after all; Of course, you should also enlighten your father and make him more considerate and considerate of you. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, I believe that every parent thinks about their children.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at the nature of their quarrels, the fault is on one side, if the fault is your dad, then enlighten your dad and comfort your girlfriend! If it's your girlfriend's fault, it depends on how much you love her, and if the love can't be proportional to the nature of your girlfriend's mistakes, then you break up in the end! Find another one!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, it's wrong for the younger generation not to respect the elders, no matter what the problem is, you can go back to the room to argue, but as a parent, you can't stand your eyebrows all day long. You said that your daughter-in-law goes to work every day, and when she gets off work, she has to face the blame of her parents' mother-in-law and father-in-law, which is no wonder if she is not wronged. Before I got married, I said at home that the wind is rain, and now I have to please my mother-in-law and father-in-law every day, how tiring it is.

    As a man, you have to do a good job in the role of husband and son. Say nice things to each other, and the problem will pass.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be enlightened, calm, and patient. Filial piety comes first.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Principled issues, don't coax on both sides, whoever is wrong must be explained, oil, salt and vinegar can be reconciled!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Divorced her. There is only one father, and there can be many girlfriends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Whoever is wrong should be told first, tell him the truth, and then find a way to round the field!

    They are all the people you love the most!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You might as well be like "The Happy Life of the Golden Wolf" Jin Liang coaxed on both sides I hope you will no longer be splinted.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When people get old, they want to become ugly, and they have to understand that they don't like the young and beautiful, and they can't see it, and their hearts won't be annoyed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's see who makes sense. Coax on both sides! Men are just tired.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think we should look at how things happen. And the father is an elder, if you don't know admiration, then it doesn't matter if you want such a girlfriend, (

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, in family life, men play a very important role, and you have to take care of both sides, so I suggest you watch "The Beautiful Times of the Daughter-in-law" to learn the life methods of the male protagonist.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take your girlfriend with you, it's your woman who will live with you for the rest of your life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What you said upstairs is ruthless enough that you can't fight! Round field on both sides.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Help or not, you know.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. I have also discussed this issue with my male ticket, and I personally think his handling is not bad, maybe you can refer to it. He thinks that quarreling with his parents, whether it is with himself or with his partner, is not a very good thing, and he can't quarrel as much as possible.

    After all, they are our parents, not anyone else. If he has a disagreement, he thinks it would be better for him to talk to his parents (both men and women talk to their parents). We should be a bridge between each other's parents, and it is the role of lubrication.

    You have to get along after facing a quarrel, and if you quarrel too much, it will always hurt your feelings, not to mention that you robbed each other's baby son and daughter?

    My girlfriend asked: After I got married, I had a fight with your parents, what would you do? What should I do?

    I have also discussed this issue with my male ticket, and I personally think his handling is not bad, maybe you can refer to it. He thinks that quarreling with his parents, whether it is between the traveler and his own or the object, is not a very good thing, and he can change his posture and try not to quarrel. After all, they are our parents, not anyone else.

    If he has a disagreement, he thinks it would be better for him to talk to his parents (both men and women talk to their parents). We should be a bridge between each other's parents, and it is the role of lubrication. After facing the quarrel, you have to get along, and the quarrel and dismantling will always hurt the feelings, not to mention that you also robbed the other party's baby son and daughter?

    So he said that this kind of uncontrollable scene, Liang quietly he would pull me to the room first, and he went to explain to his parents that Sun Jian was fierce. I hope I don't mind, go and coax his parents first, and then come to coax me. Personally, I think this is a very emotional intelligence test, because if you don't do it well, it is likely that both sides will be offended, or they will get along even worse.

    But I also think that this is something that should be done as a boyfriend, not something that two people quarrel about, and it doesn't matter to me or I can't persuade myself to watch from the sidelines anyway.

    This side is standing on the girlfriend's side, and Party B is fine.

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