In 2018, the marriage rate hit a ten year low, why is everyone suffering from being single but unwil

The cost of getting out of singleness is too high, and according to the current state of existence, most young people are more than enough and not enoughIn fact, the reluctance to get rid of the single is not because there is an emotional disorder, but because it is dragged down by the cruel reality of life, and you must know that the price paid for marriage is shockingNot to mention cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, even young people in third- and fourth-tier cities, from the bride price to the wedding room to the preparation of the wedding, it is extremely common for the cost of getting rid of orders from hundreds of thousands to millions.

As we all know, at present, all parts of the country have begun to standardize the relevant work of marriage and love customs, not to mention how effective it is, to be able to make such a change, it is enough to show that the bad habits of marriage customs in various places have shown an increasingly fierce trend, for most of the mother-in-law-to-be, to ask for a car and a house has become commonplace, the number of bride price can not meet the ideal standard, and can not successfully hug the beautyWith such a cruel reality, which young person has the courage to get out of the single?

The longer you are single, the greater the probability of having an unmarried mentality, but it is not because young people do not want to get married or have emotional barriers, but because they cannot end their singleness and start a happy married life by themselvesAs long as we understand the essence of this social phenomenon, we will understand why everyone is suffering from being single but is reluctant to get out of the bitter life of being single.

All in all, although the days of singleness are lonely and empty, and even have to bear the pressure of parents urging marriage at all times, but in the face of the cruel status quo of survival, there is nothing to be done if you do not accept singleness, rather than borrowing money everywhere for a wedding, it is better to accept the reality of singleness and cherish it, I believe that many single dogs in real life will hold such a view, so we can only hope that the current bad habits of marriage and love can be improved and reversed as soon as possible.

It's not impossible, the reality of society is so cruel, the woman must have a car, a house and a deposit.

Sometimes it's not that I don't want to get out of singleness, but I can't get out, and people can't afford to give it if they want a house or a car.

Because the person you like now has a partner, and you don't like the person you don't like, so you've always been single.

Everyone is accustomed to being content with the status quo, although they are ready to take off the single, but they dare not take risks.

I think I'm single, and I don't want to get off the single, mainly because I want to live a better life alone, and I don't want to be so tired.

He should be used to being single and unwilling to get married.

Because I really can't find someone who can be trusted for life, and now everything is unstable.

Because it is not so easy to get rid of the single, how can it be so easy to find a wife in today's society without money, car and house.

When you don't have an object, you want an object, but you find it troublesome to have an object.

People generally think that they will be better off not getting married, but this is only when they are young.

This problem is actually very common, for young people, young people are generally reluctant to take the initiative to get married and have children, and even many young people have no intention of falling in love at all. Some people will think that young people are too independent, and some people will think that young people are irresponsible. However, for young people, young people generally think that marriage will make their quality of life worse, and at the same time, they will also take more responsibilities and risks, so young people are reluctant to take the initiative to get married.

1. The age of singleness has indeed come.

After entering the modern society, more and more young people are reluctant to get married, and at the same time, they have no plans to have children. Even when young people get married, they marry later and later, and many people don't even think about getting married after the age of 30. In a sense, there are of course more choices for the abundance of material things in modern society, and everyone's attitude towards marriage will be more open.

2. Life without marriage is better when you are young.

At a young age, because young people have the ability to take care of themselves, young people can enjoy life while being single, and at the same time, they do not need to take the initiative to take on family responsibilities. This is a very refreshing thing, and it can also reflect the attitude of young people towards life and stress. At a young age, it is true that young people are generally reluctant to get married.

3. Life without marriage will be more difficult in old age.

If young people do not get married when they are young, when young people gradually lose their ability to work, many people's lives will become worse and worse, and some people will not be able to maintain their basic quality of life. This is a very real problem, because getting married not only means family responsibilities, but also means that you have more to rely on. For young people, I think young people need to think not only about their own life when they were young, but also about planning for their future life.

I think it will be better, because after getting married, you will face a lot of various problems, the cost of the family is relatively high, you may make your life more difficult, and you have to raise children after getting married, the consumption of children is very high, the pressure of life will be more and more, if you don't get married, you won't face these problems, and you can meet your own economic needs, and you don't have to deal with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you have a very good life.

I don't think so. Because I think marriage is very important for people, to be able to find a person to rely on, and then married life is also very necessary, can make your life more fulfilling, can make life more motivated, if you don't get married, you will be very lonely.

It will be better, because if you don't get married, you can do whatever you want, no one cares how much you want, you can eat and play whatever you want.

Yes, these people don't get married because they think that not getting married will make their lives very happy, and there will be no financial pressure in life, and they will be very comfortable, they will not think about others, and they just live well.

This is because many young people's concept of marriage and love has changed, and then many people have a fear of marriage, and then many people have been hurt emotionally, so now many single young people are reluctant to get married.

Because today's young people may feel that they need to find a soul mate, and this partner must be very suitable for themselves, so that they will be willing to get married, so most young people would rather be single than get married.

Many young people are reluctant to get married, because they are afraid that the financial pressure will be particularly high after marriage, and secondly, the divorce rate in the current society is also very high. It may also be that you don't have a particularly good financial income, so you won't get married.

What is the marriage picture? Will a man love you only one from the beginning? Will a man give selflessly for you and for your family? What's the picture? Can a man serve his family?

Behind the record low marriage rate of 100 million singles, what is the reason for young people to fall into fear of marriage? I think most people should be: because they are afraid that they will be caught in an unhappy marriage.

Nowadays, some men and women have flash marriages and some flash divorces, and everyone is becoming less and less trusting of love. In the face of the ultra-high divorce rate and the troubles after marriage, gradually everyone will lose confidence in marriage, and even fall into fear of marriage.

1. If one thing can't bring you happiness, why do you want to do it

In the eyes of the elderly, men should marry women when they get married, and when they reach a certain age, they should enter the marriage hall and open up branches and leaves for the family. But in the eyes of young people, marriage is no longer the only one, and they are no longer women who are dependent on men, they have jobs, careers to work hard, and now the divorce rate is so high, there are many things to face after marriage, and they have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these problems will cause them to be afraid of marriage.

Second, the pressure after marriage will make people breathless, and they always hope that they will get married again when they have the ability

After getting married, it means that you are no longer single, you have the elderly and children behind you, your income needs to support the family, and you also need to pay off the mortgage and car loan. So they all want to get married when they have the ability, and get married when they don't have to worry about money anymore.

3. The reason why they are afraid of marriage is because they are afraid that they will not be able to give their children a happy life

Another reason for fear of marriage is that they may be afraid that they will not be able to give their children a happy life, because they are affected by their childhood, and they will worry that their marriage will be full of quarrels, divorces, fights, ...... after marriageThey are worried that these bad things will affect their children.

Especially when I was a child, my parents often quarreled with the original family, this kind of shadow on the child is relatively large, and it may be remembered in my heart for a lifetime.

Because the bride price is very expensive, the pressure of life is too great, you need to have children, you don't have any freedom after marriage, and you can't choose the job you like, so you will fall into fear of marriage when you are young or young.

This is because many people are now very afraid of marriage, and the divorce rate of Chi Xianxiao is constantly **, and they think a lot before they get married, so they lead to the year code manuscript and which person falls into fear of marriage.

Because today's young people don't have any hope for marriage, their attitude is relatively negative, so they fall into a state of panic.

Life is unstable and a family is torn apart.

Quite simply, the economic base determines the superstructure.

Nowadays, more and more people would rather be single than fall in love and get married, this is because they are becoming more and more independent and excellent, relying on their own ability to live the life they want, if they get married, it will be all messed up, and the property freedom before marriage will be spent as much as they want, and after marriage it will become very poor. Nowadays, people live more and more clearly, the more transparent they are, but if they have a trace of fantasy about love, they will never easily compromise with marriage, their own conditions are already very good, and there is no reason to lower their requirements for a long time, and make do with the rest of their lives.

In recent years, the marriage rate has been declining, while the divorce rate has been increasing every year. A few years ago, young people were often keen on flash marriages and naked marriages, but now it is becoming more and more rare, and more and more older leftover women and older leftover men are emerging, and they are still alone when it is past the time to marry a wife. This is because the current generation is generally very stressed to get married, to have a house and a car, more troubles, fewer opportunities to fall in love, and the corresponding desire to get married will be less.

Nowadays, the society is relatively tolerant of late marriage or non-marriage, and at the same time, women's education level has increased, because of career development reasons, which will affect marriage and childbearing. They are all working hard for their careers, thinking that they don't need to get married so early, and they will think about this aspect when their careers are successful. Nowadays, divorce has become a very normal social phenomenon, so more and more women are unwilling to marry early, and some women around them advocate late marriage and late childbearing.

At present, China's single population is as high as 200 million, and in addition to the severe problem of "leftover women", the problem of "leftover men" cannot be ignored. Among the single population in the country, male students account for the majority of the proportion, because there was a more serious serious patriarchal ideology in rural areas before, which led to serious problems between men and women, so it also created many people who were forced to be born, and women received more education, and preferred to be single rather than reduce their quality of life, so it is more difficult for highly educated women to find a spouse.

The decrease in the marriage rate is due to disappointment with marriage, and now more and more people are afraid of marriage and do not have much expectation for marriage.

It's because people nowadays are under too much pressure and don't have so much freedom after getting married, so they don't want to get married, not that they are disappointed in marriage.

Yes, the current decline in the marriage rate is due to the fact that people have become disappointed in marriage, and they do not expect much from marriage, and feel that it is a burden.

The decline in the marriage rate is actually not a disappointment with marriage, but despair, and the cost of marriage is very large, not only to face a high bride price, but also to spend a lot of energy.