Should I give my boyfriend a chance, I m so conflicted and scared.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
64 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It feels very much like a picture in a movie, the plot is mostly because of a misunderstanding, the two broke up in a heavy rain, and many years later, they will reunite by chance to release their suspicions and have a happy ending. But unfortunately, in reality, the probability of the finale after this reunion is almost the same as winning the million-dollar jackpot.

    If you still love him, and you feel that you know him well enough to believe in him, then don't say anything, stick to it, and don't talk about the past.

    If you feel that you have been wronged and deceived and can no longer trust each other, sit down and have a good talk, listen to him explain, find out what the problem is, and break up.

    If you are undecided, break up right away!!

    No one should be good to anyone, you love him without asking for anything in return, if you are still thinking that you love him more than he loves you, it means that you don't love each other enough, you are just used to relying on each other and infatuated with this relationship. True love is giving and understanding, if he loves you enough, he will naturally return to you, you don't have to worry about other women, if he is not enough, it is useless for you to cry. As for whether it is enough or not is his business, you can't force it, no matter how much you love him or how long you have been with him or how good he is to you.

    The foundation of love is trust and honesty, and you should know the level of trust between you, and hesitation will only delay everyone's time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The main thing is really hurtful, you ask why your boyfriend is doing this, and whether he really loves you or not, making a decision.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Write the same thing. The matter of fate, first determine whether you love that person, whether it is hopeless love, if not, you can consider your own choice.

    Second, make sure that person loves you so much, if it's just ordinary love, you can consider asking for it, and you can not give it a chance.

    Three comes. Now love is indeed very incomprehensible, coming soon, leaving soon. Just think about it yourself. Mom's words also make sense, after all, Mom is a person from the past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't continue to deceive, true love is tested.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give him one last chance.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he will tell you what happened that day, forgive him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't believe it, if you give him a chance, if you don't correct it, it's really hopeless, if you are tolerant enough to him, then it won't be enough. And I really love you, and I have changed it once.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think you should want to give him a chance. Otherwise, I won't ask questions. But I don't think it's useful to give.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Pull it down, people who don't change their nature, why continue to entangle.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    will die again and again, and the nature of the country is easy to change.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then don't give.

    He couldn't change it at all.

    As the saying goes, it's just three things.

    The more you indulge, the more he gets worse.

    So, give up on him and find one that suits you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The opportunity to overshoot the line more than 4 times has come to an end.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's the dog that can't change the truth of eating, don't forget.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My girlfriend too! I'm so sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the people who care about you will not hurt you again and again, the opportunity is to fight for yourself, not to come.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why, can't two people work together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is it trustworthy for those who do not keep their promises?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at your boyfriend's personality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of man, you won't be happy after you get married, the man who can beat a woman can't ask for it no matter how good he says, the person who will commit domestic violence is very scary, you are not his wife now, he may still have a little worry in his heart, he is afraid that you will run away, and when you are his wife, how to beat you can only admit it, there are many good men, listening to your description, I think this man's heart must be distorted, and it is easy to do extreme things when he is excited, I suggest that you break up, maybe you break up with him He will have revenge in his heart, and he doesn't believe you ask downstairs.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First of all, it is a hundred wrong for a man to beat a woman, this time I have to teach him a lesson, he can't just pass it so easily, otherwise, as you think, if you can't remember it, there will be a next time. If you really love her, you can give her a chance to test him and see how to give him a small punishment. The main thing is to let him remember that it is wrong to beat people this time, and if there is a next time, he will resolutely leave.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Once you hit it, you hit it a second time....I've been beaten by my boyfriend many times now, and I don't want to be with him, and he said he wouldn't beat me, but it's the same every time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I just saw it, but I want to tell you that I must separate! It's not that I'm in a hurry when I'm older. There is a first time, and there is a second time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know what to do, but yesterday he hit me because he was angry and hit himself, and then he kicked my car again, and I slapped him, and he beat me, and I didn't know if to break up. I love him so much, but I forget about him, he beats me, and I'm in pain.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My boyfriend spanked me twice, the first time with a slap and the second time.

    It was a direct slap on the head and hit on the head, it hurt, and my face was also injured. After he hit me for the first time, I gradually forgave him, he said that there was no next time, and he apologized to me, but this time... He also apologized to me, I didn't forgive, I broke up directly, some men are like this, thick-skinned, why do you need to be so stubborn, two years together, two years of endurance, enough, young people don't have to hang themselves on a tree, they should be divided, my parents have never beaten me, he is something, he is not worthy. Divide it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why? The result may not be right, but the cause is also important.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You're stupid, you still have to think about it.

    Want to give him a chance? Such a man is not worthy of your love, there is a first time and a second time, and dogs can't change to eat. You are still young, don't ruin your youth in his hands.

    If he really wants to reconcile, why did he go in those two months, don't be stupid, I don't know how to get married like this without getting married, he has a sentence that I agree with, good horses don't eat back grass, but I want to say that there is no grass at the end of the world, sister, you have to think clearly, you haven't seen him clearly this time, you wrote everything he said on it, don't you feel chilled when you read it? Maybe you still don't expect him now, but time changes everything, and you meet a good man who is better than him, loves you more, and knows how to cherish you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course I don't give it, and good horses don't eat back grass.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'll just tell you, if the vase is broken and sticks, there will still be cracks.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I know you love him very much, can't you.

    Extricate yourself. I think everyone's opinion is right, don't give him a chance. You're in good condition too, forget about him!

    Find one more patiently, don't think about the past anymore, change yourself! That kind of person really doesn't deserve your love. I don't want to see you scarred ...

    Sister still left him to live again! You will live a more wonderful life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Female compatriots, don't give him a chance, with your chance this time, I don't know if he will ask you to give him a few chances, and let him hurt you a few more times! Forget the best, when he is a passerby in your life, add to your memories!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Forget it! Divide and reunite, what's the point!

    What did you do at the beginning, but you only regret it when you lose it!

    Mao b, Mao b!

    This man is really unproductive!

    There are many things about two-legged women!

    Men have careers and celebrate Valentine's Day every day!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It feels like he shouldn't be for you! Love is not something that comes and goes! Think about it later

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You love him very much, but his feelings for you are fading. Why don't you try to be like him, go with the flow, wait a little longer, give him half a chance, give someone else half a chance?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I haven't heard of Chen Shimei, Qin Xianglian is still reluctant, you are unlucky to encounter this kind of garbage, in addition, before you recognize a person, you shouldn't easily hand over your most precious things to him, you can't explain to your husband, he is the person who is responsible for your life, do you think this is fair?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't give that a chance.

    Since he is still a soldier.

    He didn't even know the word responsibility.

    Is he still human?

    That kind of person will abandon you again.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In the trial, it was probably because he realized that what he lost was the best.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Giving her a chance is tantamount to putting yourself on the road of no return.

    Such a frivolous man, do you still expect him to be good to you in the future?

    A lot of the current soldiers are garbage.

    Use your advantage to cheat the little mm

    It's better to find a down-to-earth one, and you can rest assured!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think it's better not to give him a chance, his nature is hard to change, he will treat you for the first time, and he will treat you a second time, if you really love him, then you might as well test him again, a little more time! Time will tell! What do you say?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think it's better not to marry so far, I used to talk about different cities in the same province, but also feel far away, ruthless, now married a very close to home, the days are also very happy, go to the mother's house is also close, I want to go to my mother's house to relax if I walk for a while, usually I want to go to my mother's family, I also say that I will go, far away is almost no mother's home, at most two or three times a year, for parents to work so hard to raise so big and fly away.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The key is to see how his character is, and whether he is good or not mainly depends on how he usually behaves, because marriage is the grave of love, this sentence is not unreasonable Now I love you and coax you around, but after slowly fading, you can think that if there is a conflict or something, you will feel how lonely you are, and your parents are about to lose you, the daughter who has raised more than 20 spring and autumn seasons.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Are you afraid of living in two cities? If you want to go back to your parents' house, you need conditions, if you don't worry about these two problems, and he is a good person, you can get married! I wish a lover a family member!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Your decision is destined by fate, my wife is also from other places, I am very good to her, and I feel that it is not easy to marry me so far, so I cherish it more.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I don't think it's better to marry in other provinces. Then you have to think about what you will do when you get old? When you get old, it's hard to go back to your parents' house once.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    What's in your boyfriend's mind. I think it's very troublesome to marry a foreign province, and it will make you very uncomfortable to communicate at that time, but you don't say it if you're a self-acquaintance.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If your boyfriend can arrange you properly in other provinces, then it's no problem, but I guess it can't be done, so it makes you afraid, so let your boyfriend stay.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    In fact, you are afraid, afraid of leaving your loved ones, afraid of being bullied in their house, lack of security, if you feel that your boyfriend can't give you a sense of security, it is better to let go as soon as possible, give each other a chance, and get together and disperse.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If it's yours, you can still get it if you lose it; If it doesn't belong to you, you get it, and you can still lose it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Men can't give you a sense of security, since you are already hesitating, it means that you don't love him very much, and you also said that you are very good to you and love you but did not say that you love him very much, you can go to the province first, have a long-distance relationship, and then talk about this problem when you meet a good one.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Don't, love is temporary. There will be a lot of grievances when you marry far away. Got into a lot of trouble. The difference in customs will slowly manifest itself. All kinds of things can affect your quality of life.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Look at the economic conditions over there, or it is you who suffer, and several of you are suffering when you marry in other places, Alas, look at your parents and see that each other's families have to pay attention to marrying so far, it is really not good, it also depends on how much you love each other.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Compared to this question (o o) the relationship between the two of you is more important, if he loves you very much, can give you a sense of security, and is enterprising, then decisively marry, and the rest is nothing.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I used to have this kind of trouble, but now it's gone, and I'm breaking up

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    In fact, there is nothing wrong with marrying in other places, it's just that it's not very convenient to go back to your own home, and it's nothing.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    You don't need to be entangled in this situation, marrying the past is the best choice, two years is not a short time, women don't have much time to waste, and when you get married, at most you will only be uncomfortable at the beginning, and you don't have to worry about your future life.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    As long as he is good to you, don't worry so much, my dad is from Anhui, my mom is from Sichuan, and the relationship is very good!

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    This thing is only clear to you in your own heart, don't regret it if you choose, there are many people who get married, life is very hard, and some people are very happy, the key depends on choice and luck.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    If true love, don't give up, family relationships are the same as your own ability to deal with problems, and it's sad if you don't handle it well.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Maybe if you lose your current boyfriend, you may not be better than him in the future, you can cherish it, a person has a life of just a few decades, you know what you need most,

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Now that the traffic is so developed, what are you afraid of, love is brave to go.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    Was he like that before? If he has been ignoring you and colding him for a while, if he loves you, he will definitely take the initiative to contact you, if you have a good relationship but today maybe he is busy, you can try to hit him**.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    You love your boyfriend very much, don't think too much, you have to face your boyfriend with a very appreciative mentality, although you love him very much now, for your future happiness you can't treat him too much, and worry, you should maintain a normal state of mind in your personal life, otherwise you will always be passive in the future.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Don't send it, wait for him to send you a message, he will be annoyed if you send it.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    If you send a few texts and he's going to be annoyed, you turn around and leave him to see if you can't live, and if you can, he's not as important as you think.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    When it's time to eat, you're texting him and asking him, what are you doing, have you eaten? If he returns, you'll be talking to him about something else. If you don't reply, don't post it yet, and see what he says in the future.

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