True maturity starts with throwing away something, what should be discarded?

There are a lot of memories of things, useless waste. That is, the childish thoughts of oneself, the meaningless things and the things that carry the bad memories of the past should be discarded, and they can be abandoned in order to have a better life.

I think the first step to maturity is to throw away your vanity first, and don't always buy unnecessary things because of vanity, and cause unnecessary burdens on yourself! And appropriately throw away useless socialization.

If you want to be truly mature, you need to get rid of your childish thoughts, and only by throwing away these childish thoughts and no longer thinking about how to eat, drink and have fun, you will slowly become mature.

Of course, it's the things that make us playful, such as games, such as some romances, these things don't need to be touched at all, just throw them away.

The past should be discarded the most. The once unforgettable feelings, the people and things that could not be forgotten, now that they have become a thing of the past, just throw them away and start a new life.

If you want to be truly mature, you have to start from little by little, your own bad temper, you are very lazy in doing things, these bad things should be discarded, and after you really discard, I believe that you will become mature.

True maturity begins with the loss of willfulness, if a person is particularly mature, they will not be willful, they are very organized in doing things. Of course, true maturity also has a lot to do with changing one's personality and having the spirit of not being afraid of hardship.

1. Emotional entanglements with your ex; 2. A lot of immature ideas of your own; 3. The so-called dream of being particularly ambitious. These should be discarded, because not bringing many benefits to one's life will make oneself appear particularly naïve and immature.

If we are truly mature, we will throw away some things appropriately, such as what our predecessors left us in the emotional world, we must throw them away, don't think about it all day long.

Truly mature women will discard some immature ideas, they will think carefully, they will also discard some useless things, and they will not buy some things that they don't need.

Useless social interaction lowers the cost performance of time, the disconnection of negative emotions, becoming a better self, unable to let go of the past, difficult to be happy in life, let go of desires, and simplify the complex and live a calm life.

If a woman is truly mature, she has already cut off these four things, first, useless socialization lowers the cost performance of time, second, the severance of negative emotions and becomes a better self, third, let go of the past and pursue a better life, and fourth, let go of desires.

The woman who is really looking for a job has already torn off these 4 things, first, to make time and space to change more valuable things, second, to give up negative emotions to become a better self, third, she can't let go of the past, and it is difficult to be happy in life, and fourth, let go of desires, live a plain life, and spend the rest of her life together.

Useless socialization, negative emotions, one's own past, unrealistic dreams, and other four things, mature women have chosen to give up.

It's a very literal phrase that you feel like you've lost something, like love, but in fact you may never have gotten it.

It's that you think you don't have it, but you don't actually have it again.

Apologize to all the good old days, because I gave you a past that I don't cherish.

On the road of life, stop-and-go is a kind of leisure, looking at it while walking is a kind of elegance, and forgetting while walking is a kind of open-mindedness.

It only takes a little courage for you to turn your life around and start over.

In fact, people don't need too many things, as long as they live healthily and love sincerely, they can be considered rich.

When you decide you don't care anymore, life gets better.

What can be retrieved has never been lost; What is lost, may never really be owned.

Life is not a movie, forget about those scripts, and live the life you want to live.

A lot of times, you don't say it, and I don't say it. That's it, just think about it.

Looking back, I can't keep the years. Gaze, can't hold the time. So, we smiled indifferently and were relieved.

No one can control your life, it's just that many times we need to have more courage to be firm in our choices.

The most important thing that people should lose in middle age is useless socializing, wasting your time, and delaying work.

First love complex, ex-girlfriend ** letters and all tokens, unrealistic ideas, meaningless meals.

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Fourth, learn to let go of meaningless feelingsOnce you always give, but never get the return of the feelings, whether friendship or love, you should let yourself give up as soon as possible, people must have their own posture and figure at any time, learn to give up these useless social, know how to cherish their time and self-esteem, and then manage their own lives well, in order to let themselves get good feedback.

Some bad habits can only be better if you give up, such as smoking, drinking, playing mahjong and other bad habits, and if you give up these bad habits, you can slowly find something meaningful to do.

Give up unhappy things, don't worry about it, and always maintain an optimistic attitude to live a better life.

1. There will be some old things in everyone's home, which are useless to keep, but they are reluctant to throw them away, in fact, they should be thrown away, otherwise they will occupy space.

Second, you must be rational when buying things, don't spend a lot of money to buy something impractical, and you must control yourself.

For example, past grievances and hatreds, it is better to forget them as soon as possible, and don't get entangled anymore, which will increase a lot of troubles and will not be good for life.

Feelings that don't see hope, not true friends, etc. There is no hope in the feelings, because only by giving up can you not get hurt. Not true friends, because friends should make true friends.

Get rid of vanity, form a stable self-perception, get out of your comfort zone, meet your wonderful self, stop pleasing others, and learn to say no.

Useless socializing, feelings where efforts are fruitless, money that should be spent and money that shouldn't be spent is not spent.

Uh, what is a good lifestyle? Suit your own rhythm and favorite days. This can only be achieved in an ideal, because life is a reality after all.

But it doesn't prevent us from imagining the future, is the meaning of existence just living? I think, therefore I am, from my mind to my soul to my actions, and let go of incorrect and bad behavior.

Low self-esteem, arrogance, etc. People with low self-esteem will also have low self-esteem when doing things, have no self-confidence, and can't do anything well. Arrogant people are too rude for anyone to work with.

I think it's about losing desire, throwing away jealousy, throwing away all dissatisfaction and suspicion, there are too many things to let go, but life is not all smooth sailing.

Personally, I feel that I have to throw away selfishness, laziness, and negative emotions, and be full of sunny and generous temperament every day, and strive to be myself from now on, and be full of positive energy every day.

First, we must throw away unrealistic fantasies, be our true selves, meaningless socializing, and don't participate; The second is to be with people who are compatible with you, people who don't love you, you have to learn to let go, see everything, learn to let go, and be your true self.

1.Unrealistic dreams. People without dreams will be like a salted fish, but unattainable dreams will only be like daydreams, people should take one step at a time, the goal into reality.

2.People who don't love you. Being with people who don't love you is simply tormenting. No matter how much you give, no matter how good you are to him, it will only be in vain, so why bother? It's better to take some time for yourself.

Unrealistic dreams, people without dreams, will be like a salted fish, hateful, to achieve the dream will only be like a daydream, people should step by step towards the goal into reality, and people who do not love you together, it is simply torment, even if you pay more, no matter how good you are to her, it is only in vain, why bother? It's better to take some time for yourself.

The best way of life for people in this life is to lose negative emotions, lose meaningless socialization, and return to a normal lifestyle.

Nowadays, the age is no longer allowed to be casual, you have to know how to make trade-offs, and sometimes you will gain something by giving it up.

It's better to throw away the willfulness and pick up the maturity, but due to external factors, you have to pick up the maturity immediately.

When you lose something, you always gain something, and you're not too young, so don't take the gains and losses so seriously.

When I think of that beautiful memory, I also think of a painful memory, can time be like a memory replay.

Don't repeat the mistake! Better growth tomorrow!

Then you're really headstrong enough, like.

There is a give-and-take. There are gains and losses.

I've lost and don't know what I'll get!

The first is to know how to work hard to make money, because you know that only money can satisfy the material life of two people; The second is to sacrifice oneself to fulfill others, so that the relationship between family members can be more harmonious.

If a person encounters something bad and learns to digest it alone, it means that the person has truly matured. When a person can bend and stretch and let go of his self-esteem, it also proves that he is mature. The most important thing is that when a person matures, he or she will truly take responsibility.

Personally, I think that a person who really knows how to mature starts from knowing how to do these things, first of all, this person will be very self-disciplined, have strict requirements for his life and work, will work very hard to earn money, and the personnel will be very good, and the social circle will be very wide and so on.

First of all, know how to be self-disciplined, no longer play games day and night, drink and smoke, and do things that damage the body.

Secondly, it is not easy to understand what he can understand about others, and he does not drill into some things.

Last but not least, knowing how to love your family and understanding your family is the most important thing for yourself.

A person who is truly mature will know how to honor his parents, love his brothers, be self-motivated, and work hard with his own goals.

A person who is truly mature can help the family share the housework, understand the difficulty of his parents, and know how to start making money with his own hands, I think this person is really mature.