Are there many divorces after the 90s? How high is the divorce rate after the 90s?

China's method of calculating the divorce rate is very special, it can also be said to have Chinese characteristics, China's divorce rate is calculated by the number of divorces in the current year and the average population of the year, that is, the average number of divorces of 1000 people, this is a very funny statistical method, because the irrelevant population is also counted, the very simple reason is to count teenagers and unmarried people as the denominator, anyway, the relevant departments never respond positively. Normally, it is the number of marriages in the year, the number of divorces, or the number of marriages The number of divorces China got married more than 20 million people in 2011, and more than 36 million people divorced, which is indeed more than 100%, because the people who were married before were also divorced, so it is very funny that some people in China still use this data to criticize the high divorce rate in the United States and Europe, South Korea, and Japan.

In 2019, nearly 9 million people in China ended their marriages and returned to singleness. This number was in 2002, less than two million, and has been rising for more than ten years. Some people say that the economy has developed and the divorce rate has been high, but I don't think it's all right, after the reform and opening up until 2002, China's economic development speed is also very fast. But.

Today, I would like to write an analytical article on divorce after the 90s. I found that the divorce rate of the post-90s generation is increasing year by year, and the reasons for their divorce are varied. Some parents divorce and family breakdowns cause them to suffer more, and at the same time, the impact on their children is also very great.

If the relationship breaks down due to a normal marriage, it may be difficult for the parents to take responsibility. When a child is dissatisfied with his or her parents, this conflict can escalate into a family conflict, which makes it more difficult for the child to accept the fact that his parents have remarried or divorced.

1. Lack of correct understanding of marriage.

The post-90s generation lacks the correct concept of marriage, they think that marriage is a very happy thing, and marriage is a responsibility. They will look forward to marriage, they will give everything for marriage, they don't have the right understanding of marriage. When they got married, they didn't know what it meant to get married, and they didn't know how to maintain the marriage.

They only know that two people cannot be separated after marriage, which will make them feel scared and confused, and eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

2. Parental involvement.

After marriage, family conflicts will continue to escalate, which will eventually lead to divorce. Due to the rapid development of society, the pressure on Chinese society is increasing, and marriage is no longer valued as it was in the past. Married life is often decided by parents, and many post-90s generations have never experienced marriage before marriage.

This has led to the reluctance of some post-90s generations to leave their parents, let alone take on family responsibilities. And some children do not want to divorce, so they will try to prevent their parents from remarrying or divorcing, so that their parents continue to intervene.

3. There is a big difference in the concept of good parties for men and women.

There are great differences in the ideas and values of men and women. Some couples with good family financial conditions choose to get married, while some couples with poor family conditions choose to divorce. Just like some problems in the life of couples, many post-90s generations have no experience in love and are not experienced, and they do not know how to deal with contradictions and conflicts in marriage.

They often can't articulate the problems and responsibilities of their marriage, which makes them very conflicted in their marriage. Marriage is the continuation of the love of two people. If there is a conflict, it can be resolved through communication, not violent divorce.

4. Life is stressful.

The life pressure of the post-90s generation is no less than that of their parents, and even less than that of their fathers. Financial pressures have put more pressure on the parents of the post-90s generation. When they enter society, they have to face a reality that is different from others.

They are under tremendous pressure from their families and society, so they have problems in their relationship and find it difficult to continue their marital relationship. Even if you are happy in your married life, it is difficult to have children again. If both spouses do not have enough security and responsibility, such a marriage may come to an end.