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I'll now explain the concept of the old clan first, and the word should be derogatory. The intention should be to say that those young people who do not like to work share the achievements and fruits of those who have gone older. is synonymous with laziness and greed.
Then to solve the problem of such people, it is necessary to find the root cause. This type of people are often the previous generation, who have been pampered since childhood, and they have not worked hard at all, relying on their own basic ability. Children are pampered and have no ability to live independently, which is the main reason for the formation of this kind of gnawing old people.
If you want to control such a disease, you must let go, let them go to the society within the scope of their own supervision or monitoring, let them live independently like a kitty, once they become an adult, the eagle will push him down, the cliff is the same, don't push it now, in the future, when you get old or sick and leave, the society will do this to him. Society and reality are cold and unforgiving, and only people have feelings.
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The reason why there are some reasons for gnawing at the old people is because he was pampered since he was a child, and then he didn't know how to endure hardship. If you want to prevent this phenomenon from happening, you must let those old people who gnaw more and experience more in the workplace.
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It is safe to say that gnawing on the old people is a common phenomenon now. Nowadays, it is an indisputable reality that young people gnaw at the old and their parents are gnawed at the old, and it is also an unbearable burden for the post-50s and post-60s generations to be parents. Many parents are still willing to give to help young people.
But what is difficult to understand is that many children are not only not grateful, but take it for granted. I think this kind of child is what parents are used to, so parents should educate their children to be self-reliant and self-reliant from an early age, so that children know that it is not easy to make money, and this phenomenon will gradually be reduced.
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The gnawing of the old people is caused by the family's despisis of manual labor, attaches importance to studying, goes to college, and finds an easy and decent job. No matter what kind of work you are engaged in in the future, as long as you pay for your labor, labor creates wealth is worthy of respect, labor is not high or low, and you can't despise manual labor without moral cultivation, we need all kinds of different jobs to make human life better and life more convenient. Of course, due to the low salary of the new job, to solve the problems of housing and marriage, parents as family members should help, but as children, they should not rely too much on their parents, and they should experience the hard work of their parents and take practical actions to reduce the burden of their parents, only such a family can be harmonious and happy.
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The birth of the gnawing old people is mostly caused by the overly doting behavior of their parents when they were children. Most of the gnawing elders have lost the ability to take care of themselves independently in life and society because they have been accustomed to relying on their parents since childhood, and they have also developed the habit of being lazy and only accepting the fruits of other people's labor, so they will only live under the wings of their parents when they grow up. I think the best way is to educate children from an early age, let them know that it is not easy for parents, and take children to experience life, and slowly children will get rid of gnawing old age.
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Now there are more and more gnawing old people, and I feel that as a young person in the new era, I am carried away by ideas. People like low-headed people (playing with mobile phones and electronic products) can't control their thoughts getting deeper and deeper, and their living conditions and psychological factors are too comfortable, especially among young people working in some factories. Become a moonlight clan every month!
This is not uncommon. There are also only children in the family who are pampered and raised by their parents, and in the process of growing up, they gradually get used to this mentality of what I say at home. This phenomenon is mainly caused by the wrong way of parenting.
Such children, as long as their parents cut off their lives, they will naturally change this problem.
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Only children, they have been favored by two families since they were young, and they do not need to compete to win the favor of their parents like their parents. And in order to make their children more productive, parents pour everything they can into the spirit and material.
But it is precisely this huge effort that gives them the concept of benefiting as a matter of course when they are young. When they become adults, when they encounter setbacks in work and life, it becomes a very natural choice to return home and gnaw at their old age. I think such a child should cut off his food and let him be self-reliant, and when he knows that it is not easy to make money, he will not gnaw at the old.
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Personally, I think that what appears in the gnawing old people is that parents dot on their children, afraid that their children will be wronged, and they will lose their principles to help their children. I think it can be effective to solve the occurrence of this phenomenon.
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The main reason for the emergence of the gnawing old people is that parents spoil their children too much, so that children cannot be independent, and think that everything is solved by their parents, which is easy to make children unmotivated.
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The gnawing of the old people is caused by the incorrect education methods of parents. Only when parents educate their children in the right way can their children grow up and will not gnaw at the old.
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Nowadays, young people are under a lot of pressure, and some parents want to help their children, because they are overwhelmed by getting married, buying a house, and buying a car, and the housing prices will return to 20 years ago, and this phenomenon will be much better.
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It is parents who take too much care of their children. resulting in no independence.
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The appearance of the gnawing old clan should not be blamed on the child, which is completely caused by the excessive doting of parents on the child. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain!
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I think a large part of the existence of this phenomenon is because young people are escaping from reality and dare not come out to work in society, so they use various postgraduate examinations or civil servants as an excuse, in fact, they do not bother to review the exam, and use this excuse to prevaricate parents and continue to gnaw at the old.
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I think it's normal, life is too stressful now, if it is too difficult to rely on young people to make money to buy a house or a car, and now there is too much competition pressure in the workplace, so they can only work hard, so they can only ask their parents to help with things such as taking care of children and cooking.
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The impact of gnawing on the elderly is very large, it will bring a lot of pressure to parents, it will also affect the overall development of society, and it will make these young people lose their basic motivation. These young people will always be dependent on their parents, and their mentality will change a lot, which will affect the whole society and the development of the country.
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The effects of gnawing on the elderly are: reducing the quality of life of the elderly, affecting the health of the elderly, keeping the elderly in a depressed state for a long time, affecting their relationship with their families, and reducing the family's ability to cope with emergencies.
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Nibbling the elderly will become a burden on society, and gnawing the elderly will not only put their parents under great financial pressure, but also they themselves are unwilling to work hard, do not contribute to the society, and even affect other minors to cause negative impact.
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It will increase the pressure on middle-aged people, and then it will also make the whole society no longer progress, and it will make the whole society very burdened. There will also be a lot of impact on the life side, and there will be an impact on the economic side.
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The failure of the establishment of children's values and the failure of frustrating education.
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The old ones don't retire well, and the young ones don't work well.
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Now it is true that there are more and more old people, and if you want to solve this phenomenon, you need to start from many aspects and take a firm stand.
Parents also have their own private lives, and they should take a stand and tell their children what their parents think before their son gets married. While helping children, they also want to leave a way back for themselves, and they can only choose one way in terms of money and effort. After all, the elderly are already old, and there are many uncertain factors in the future, and if you exhaust your body and spend your savings for the sake of adult children, there is no security in your old age.
What should be adhered to is one's own position, and it must be firm.
Be bold and speak your mind.
If parents come to their children's homes and the children don't do anything, they don't care about anything, they shouldn't stand up for not speaking at this time, they should just say that parents are also part of the family and should be dignified. Whether it's because of children or other factors, we need to plan reasonably and communicate clearly with our children. You can't just do things and not say them.
Give yourself a day off.
Parents also want to rest, parents are not a tool for children to make money, nor a nanny, communicate well with children, when children rest, parents can rest, children can help when they are busy, since you give your children all the love, don't let your children take it for granted, this kind of thinking is more resolute, give yourself a holiday. Make sure you have some free time to do your own thing.
Now there are more and more gnawing old people, and it is becoming more and more serious, and the reason is that the pressure of life has become greater, and various costs are high, and more and more old people are gnawing. Now the social phenomenon is like this, we can't ignore our children, the pressure on children is relatively high, help to do our best to help, if you have money, you can contribute, and if you are strong, you can contribute. It is also necessary to stand firm and communicate clearly with your children.
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First of all, because the current economic pressure is very high, and the general income of the working class is relatively low, and the housing prices are also very high. Young people simply simply can't afford to buy a house.
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Let these gnawing old people have a plan for their future, and then let them look for jobs, and let the company recruit a lot of talent.
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It is also helpless to gnaw the old, now it costs more than 2,000 to raise a child a month of milk powder diapers, and the sponsorship fee for children is not more than 2,000 a month, and most people in China cannot afford to raise children.
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Because there is an old gnaw, it will be gnawed, and there is nothing to gnaw on, and there are many reasons to find out.
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