The woman who was cheated on by her husband please come in and help me figure it out

Updated on society 2024-02-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't get divorced, find a way to solve problems when you encounter them, instead of using divorce to escape.

    In fact, there are still a few men who are inconsistent in the center of reality, you can sit down and have a good talk, you don't have to worry, you have to talk to him slowly, you can make the atmosphere of the conversation better. For example, cook a rich meal that he likes to eat, and start the conversation when he is 7 minutes full.

    Ask him if he is dissatisfied with family life, or if he simply feels that maintaining such a relationship with the opposite sex feels good and delicate. Tell him that he can talk to you about anything, and you will listen patiently and help him. He may just be addicted to it for a while, just like a middle school student who is obsessed with playing games.

    This incident does not mean that he does not love you, or that he has changed, so don't think too complicated about things yourself. But it is by no means to say that he should be connived at such foolish things.

    There are many solutions, for example, let him slowly reduce the contact with the female netizen, if the cause is just a temporary fun, then you might as well let your husband evaporate on the Internet as the end, after a period of time if the two do not contact, they will naturally forget, after all, the Internet is illusory. Or tell your husband that the other party is also a lovely girl, and she will be very sad if you lie to her, if you can still treat each other as friends, you might as well choose the right time to tell that girl, it was unintentional at first, but your husband did tell a lie, and now tell her about your living conditions, I believe she can understand. Wait a minute.

    In short, there are many ways to solve the problem, the key is that you have to express your attitude with your husband, you want to solve it in a reasonable way, because you still love him very much, believe that he also loves you, and hope that you can be happier after the episodes of life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In order to chat about divorce, you should look at what they talk about, and know what your husband thinks you are not enough :) Then you can use your husband's QQ to say a few words to this woman. Or you call her directly and say a few words calmly!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello. In my personal opinion, if family affection and love can't tie the hearts of men in this impetuous society, maybe we can add an economic constraint to protect ourselves.

    If you need to, you can send a message or.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your husband still has love with you, talking to that woman, it's empty, you may think you can't give her these, but it's really hateful, lying men will lie all the time, talk to your husband, don't divorce, every man has shortcomings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do you have children? If there is, divorce is not the best option. Find out why he can talk to others and not you.

    Often women are busy with housework after marriage and neglect these. No one will be at a loss when it comes to such a thing. Talk to him, ask him what he wants, and then it's never too late for you to make a decision.

    Isn't he lying to the other party, too? Not sincerely. Women won't tolerate such a thing at home, but he's by your side and hasn't gone far yet.

    You should chase him back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Men chat with women on the Internet, usually just to satisfy his vanity... That's it... To make him feel still attractive... I don't agree with the opinion of the second floor·· Men are generally very small and childish... Give him more abundant love

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Keep going with him. They were just talking, and they weren't getting to the point of divorce yet.

    You find a male netizen to talk to every day, be angry with him, and let him know how you feel.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Divorce and find someone who really loves you Don't want a man like that, you will be reluctant at first, but for the sake of happiness in the future, it's better to let go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He may be like a lost child now, at least he has not made a mistake in principle now, you can talk to him well, after all, as you said, he has done so much for you, don't lose a good family because of a small mistake, tell him that he loves you and ask him to do it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What should a married woman do in the face of her husband's deception? This is very dishonest, I have been married to my husband for 5 years and we have a beautiful daughter, I recently read that I am married to my husband and how long he will lie. The main reason is his salary, first of all, we all go to the workers, and he says that his salary is paid in one lump sum.

    He hasn't had much of a home for the past two years. He always found all sorts of excuses to lie to me, and I believed in him very much. Last year, he used my paycheck expense.

    When he came to the new year, he found an excuse to deceive me, saying that his boss was not enough, first lent it to his boss to use, and we will also believe him.

    However, from the first month, there is still no movement. He still lies under various excuses. He was nervous, he really didn't care, he told me the truth I said, I already said I asked my boss.

    Talking, he threatened me: if you talked to him, I wouldn't do it, so I kept dragging him to him and telling me. He said he didn't have a girlfriend when he got married.

    Later, there was a child. He has given this lady in the last few years. For the future, I will not meet this woman in the future, because he hugged too much.

    So I can't believe it this time.

    When I see him now, I think of him cheating on me. I would feel a lot in the face of him, so now that he is with me, I will doubt, and my heart cannot believe him. I'm divorced, but I can't afford the kids and my father-in-law because they treat me very well, very well.

    The man was also a mistake. If there is a mistake, there is a penalty, but it will not be immediately fined, so it will only cause a man's back, and maybe it will make the original simple thing impossible to recover. When you're slow, whoever it is, you don't want to force extreme things, only over time, so that men have a sense of guilt, this time, I'll move, Xiao Zhi.

    Add some penalties and maybe half the time, that man will not only feel self-aroused, but will trust you more and love you!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that in the face of her husband's deception, a married woman should ask the other party for an explanation in time, and the two of them should have a good talk to make him realize his mistake.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, you should stay sober, and if necessary, you can also choose to divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The husband's act of privately transferring his wife's money is not necessarily illegal. If the money transferred by the husband to the wife is the joint property of the husband and wife, then the husband, as the owner of the joint property of the husband and wife, has the right to dispose of it, so the husband's private transfer of money will not be a crime; However, if the husband transfers his wife's personal property without permission, it is a crime, and if the circumstances are heinous, he may be investigated for criminal responsibility for theft.

    Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China

    Article 310.

    Whoever clearly knows that a person is a criminal and provides him with a hiding place or property, helps a hungry veteran to escape, or gives false evidence to shield him, is to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release;

    where the circumstances are serious, the sentence is between three and ten years imprisonment.

    Where the crimes in the preceding paragraph are committed and there is prior conspiracy, it is to be punished as a joint crime.

    Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China

    Article 14. Intentional crimes are committed when one clearly knows that one's conduct will have a result that is harmful to society, and hopes or allows such a result to occur, thus constituting a crime.

    Those who commit intentional crimes shall bear criminal responsibility.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What should I do if my husband cheats on you? How does a smart wife manage her husband.

    OneWhat should I do if my husband cheats on you?

    1. If you find out that your husband is lying, then don't expose him to your face at this time, save some face for the other party, and you must understand that he may have certain difficulties in lying to you.

    2. Women must first be a good person to get along with, so when you find out that a man cheats on you, you should reflect on whether you are not doing well, at this time, you should communicate with the other party well, understand the other party's feelings, but also say your own thoughts.

    3. Usually care more about people, encourage him more, so that he can say his inner thoughts, don't blindly reject the other party's ideas, sometimes give the other party some respect, if you are always not satisfied with the other party, the other party will want to deceive you.

    IIIt's better for a smart wife to manage her husband

    1. Smart women know that men have vanity, so no matter how strong a woman is outside, she must learn to be weak when she returns home. Obey softness when you should be soft, and be coquettish when you should be coquettish, so as to satisfy a man's vanity.

    2. Don't be a cautious woman in life, a smart woman knows how to capture a man's heart, but she will not doubt her husband, once she has doubts, the relationship between the two people will be completely problematic.

    3. After many women get married, they put all the reasons on men, so they lose themselves, smart women never wronged themselves, they will also be financially independent women, do not rely on men, have their own lives, and have their own freedom.

    In the relationship between husband and wife, we must be honest with each other, and discuss anything together, so that life can go on steadily. If a man cheats, it means that there is a problem between the two people, and the woman must find ways to protect her marriage. How to deal with your husband's deception, a man has cheated on you, it means that there must be a problem in communication between him and you, and he is unwilling to tell you something, but will leave you, which means that the gap between the two of you is already very large.

    Therefore, a smart woman must learn to scatter and enter the other party's heart, don't quarrel with the other party first, be a good listener, listen to the other party's heart, so that the other party will slowly come out of the heart and take the initiative to communicate with you. Therefore, marriage needs two people to maintain together, no matter what happens, you must speak out boldly, and do not deceive.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your husband Huai Jian Hood cheats on you, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, and he won't be happy if he continues like this, so it's better to separate as soon as possible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can leave Zhiyu, he will find someone who truly loves you, but he will only dismantle and roll Yuzhi.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If he cheats, I will immediately let him explain clearly, and if it is a matter of principle, I will divorce immediately.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Deceit. It's always very early to ruin the feelings of remorse, but if you are a husband and wife, you must first figure out what is the starting point of this deception? If it's just to hurt you, I think divorce without hesitation is an inevitable result.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it is a well-intentioned deception, it can be reluctantly forgiven, but if it is an emotional deception, it cannot be forgiven for a lifetime.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Some things can pass, and some things may not be easy to pass, but it's up to you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Debunked, warned, not an example!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know the specifics!

    People live for a lifetime, and there will always be something that is not wanton and unwilling!

    You need the other party to understand the thoughts of the self-splitting self before making a conclusion!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I guess I'm going to be angry.

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