I always felt that I was very unlucky, sorry for my parents.

Since you know that you lack confidence, then why don't you find something that can make your self-confidence skyrocket, it is impossible that you will not do anything, it is recommended that you relax the psychological pressure: when you are in a bad mood, go to write the drifting bottle, write the unhappy to the drifting bottle, and then throw away the ......, I personally think it's pretty good, you can try it.

Think of ways to succeed, don't make excuses for failure", what can be the worst-case scenario?! Man is always arrogant one third of the time, one third of the time is arrogant, and a quarter of the time there is nothing in his head, and only one-twelfth of the time is left to know himself. To give yourself a fair assessment, "What's the worst-case scenario, whenever I feel like I'm failing, I ask myself like this, and then I'm full of power, even if I'm the worst, I start from this zero point, and a little bit of progress every day can make me an extraordinary self."

What do you think are your shortcomings, write them down, and then figure out how to do it. For example, if you don't get along well with people in the dormitory, everyone likes to be a sincere person, as long as you are sincere and don't hinder other people's bad habits, it's easy to get friends, and friends are nothing more than like-minded people.

Just look at the things that are more unlucky than you, in fact, there are still people in this world who are worse than dead, and you are much better than them.

You are very filial. As long as you work hard, it's right. Don't be discouraged.

As long as you do your best ... It's good to work hard... Don't care too much about the outcome ... The process is the most important ...

Then do something that will give you confidence and learn to dance, it will help you. You also need to communicate more with the people around you, maybe most of the time they don't understand your thoughts.

Don't blame others, don't look at others, live your own life, work your own.

You have to have faith in yourself.

In this society, no one will be kind to you without asking for anything in return, if there is, it is your parents, but no matter how you are, they are willing to love you, help you, and will not leave you because you have no money. Because your parents are the best people in the world for you, they would rather give you the best. Even if you treat them badly, they don't complain.

In your life, is there a moment in your life that makes you feel especially sorry for your parents? I think there are many moments in this that make me feel sorry for my parents, especially at this embarrassing age, that is, we can't afford to earn money, and we don't have the ability not to ask our parents for money, and we still have to rely on our parents to support us. It is said that college is the most relaxed, no worries, but it is true, we just get up all day to go to class, and then come back after school to eat, play games, sleep lazy, in short, how to be comfortable.

There is no need to worry about money, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there is no money, a ** call back, and your parents will immediately send you money to come over, for fear that if you are a minute late, you will be hungry and have no money to eat.

However, we did not understand the difficulties of our parents, but spent lavishly. When we go out and sing with our parents' money, we don't know how our parents earn their money and how difficult it is for them. Especially in the winter, they also have to go out early to earn money, while you can continue to sleep under the warm quilt.

Many times, we can't understand our parents and talk back to them. Nowadays, people's love for their parents has become distorted, for example, they take their parents' money to sing, and then sing what father to thank their father, which is not right.

When we took the money that our parents had worked hard to earn to eat grilled fish, we were very happy, but the money could be used for a few days' living expenses of our parents, and our parents were reluctant to spend a penny. At this moment, I felt very sorry for my parents, and it was also very useless. We should be considerate of our parents and save their money.

Of course, there are moments like this, every time I go home and see the gray hair on my parents' sideburns, I feel very guilty.

There are moments like this, and I feel like I don't know what to do, but there is no way.

Every time I go home, I feel very sorry for my parents, and if I had been better, maybe it wouldn't have been.

It's just that when your parents weren't there for them when they were sick, you felt very sorry.

Yes, every time I ask them for money, I owe them when I don't have much money at home.

I think you're trying to prove your abilities to them. From childhood to adulthood, the beating and scolding of your parents left a very deep bad impression on you. You really want them to know that you are also very strong.

You pretend to be poor in front of them, and you want them to hear someone say that your child is actually paid a lot or something. In fact, you want them to be proud of you.

It may also be because you have a hatred for them in your heart and don't want your parents to know about the superiority of your material life and then oppress you. But it probably won't be like that!

This situation is normal, if it were me, I would definitely pretend to be poor!

This parent, hey... Do not say.

The world is so big that there are no surprises.

In fact, in the final analysis, as soon as a person is born, he does not owe his parents, he really does not owe, only his parents owe his children, this may be said by many people to shoot me, I have just been a father for a month, and when the child cries, I worry about it, I feel that I have not taken good care of him, I don't know if he wants to come to this world, I brought him into this world without his consent, of course, I have no way to discuss with him. I just want the child to grow up healthily, and he will not complain about me in the future, and he will not ask him for anything in return, of course, he will be happier if he is filial to me.

Chinese children are born with a lifetime of pressure, really.

It is your parents who have made you who you are today, and you dare to say that you would have done better without your parents and even now? It is true that your parents have done a little too much, and they have to convince you to succeed in this environment (there are many children who will break the pot like this), and your parents do not know your real situation, you are still their "disappointed" child, in fact, they have long not thought this way in their hearts.

Your behavior is right, you just do what you think you can do, and people won't thank you for doing too much anyway.

I just hope that you will let the girl contact her parents as little as possible before and after marriage, otherwise you will know the result.

Because "there will be something hateful about the wretched"!!

The reason why you complain and feel aggrieved is because they are your parents You subconsciously demand more from them Don't compare your parents with other people's parents You have to think more relaxed No matter how bad your parents are, at least they are better than strangers to you At least they want you to be good and not bad Including the friends around you, I dare to say that no one will really hope that you are better than them To be honest, how many people in this world are better than your parents to you? At this point, you should also be filial to them, and if you don't want them to say hello, you have a clear conscience.

As long as you have a clear conscience, it is natural for you to honor your parents as a child, and you just have to do what you should do. Don't overthink it!

You only have to do better for yourself, and you don't need to care about others doing the best, because you have done your filial piety as a child, but it is better for your parents to be elderly and not to be better with them.

In the era of their parents, there was also a lot of helplessness, which caused them not necessarily to be noble and perfect.

Children cannot choose their parents, just as parents cannot choose their children.

If you can't easily change people's values and outlook on money, you can manage your own life well and help your parents when they need it.

They just don't properly express their feelings for you.

Maybe it's a way to motivate you to work hard, just because you have limited knowledge or because you don't communicate in the right way.

I suggest that you talk to your parents more about your heart, after all, it is your parents and not anyone else, you need patience, you need feelings, talk about your feelings.

Sometimes parents don't listen to what they say, that's also because their cultural foundation is not very good, you have to know how to be considerate of them.

And they will compare you to others, and they want you to work harder, so let's talk to your parents

Mom and Dad love you, no matter what, be filial. Although they are sometimes wrong, as a child, the medicine is considerate of parents and parents, after all, there are only so many people in a lifetime who can love themselves for so long.

As long as you have a sincere heart to be filial to your parents. Listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you will understand that sincerity is the most important.

According to you, I feel that you are doing this very well!

Is it? What do you think?

When the bad luck passes, it will come and go.

Never mind. If there is something unhappy, say it and make everyone happy!