If it weren t for the right people, would we be happy?

Is it that you are not confident in yourself after meeting him? I think it's natural that you should get along with him before you knew about his family situation. You like each other, and it's not because of family circumstances, so why don't you have the confidence to quit now?

The future is very long, no one knows what the future will be, I think the most important thing is to grasp the present, of course you should talk to him about your thoughts, what two people encounter together should face together! Come on! Wishing you happiness!

Be confident in yourself!

His family environment was not something he could choose.

Most importantly, He loves you and is willing to do it all for you.

You are good enough.

He is willing to give everything for you.

Why don't you accept it?

And stubbornly entangled in the portal.

Even if the right person is right if he doesn't love you, what's the use.

When you're young, as long as you like someone very much, it's fine. And love again without hesitation.

If you think about the future, I think it's important to be the right person.

Happy or not. It's just my own feelings.

But there are a lot of contradictions in different values.

If there are frequent disputes because of differences of opinion, it is a feeling, and in the end it is only a waste of procrastination.

This is my opinion.

Wishing you happiness!

You have to see if he loves you or not. Love your words. I will cherish you. As for whether it is the right one, it will be happy. It's up to you.

If you like it, you like it, and you want to do so much.

Of course, it's better to be the right person.

If you don't have a door, there will be friction in affirming life.

But a man is better, it's a good thing for a woman, the key depends on how you keep his heart, don't let him go out to fool around to see your ability.

You are thinking too much, mental factors. Overcome it, for a long time, nothing can be proven.

As long as you can accept each other's trivial matters in the future, then be bold together.

Men can, women can't, they don't have status, it's been a long time, they're tired, it's inevitable that they won't go out and mingle

Women have no status, then you just wait for a tragic fate.

Transcendence often encounters the resistance of reality, and only when two people have a common language and a common way of life can they go long-term. Of course, love happens inadvertently, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is the docking of your family and her family. Your roles in life have changed, responsibilities have changed, and if the cultures and values of both parties are very different, then the conflicts in your parents' generation will increase, and that will invisibly increase the responsibilities for you, and reconcile the contradictions.

Different cultures collide. For example, if there is a big difference in economic conditions, then the concept of consumption will be different, so there will be many contradictions between the two sides on this point. Sometimes, although the economic situation is about the same, but the cultural level is very different, so in the future, what you are interested in, she is not interested, there is no joy of life at all, in the pursuit of quality of life today, we are afraid that we can not give up the pursuit of quality of life.

The elders are against it, because they think about more things than us, maybe because they are in love, and the things you think about are just whether the other person loves you or not. But what the elders need to consider is how much trouble the other party's family will have in the future, whether the other party can love their children well, and whether the children can integrate well into that family? Therefore, it is not impossible to surpass it like an idol drama.

However, you must be mentally prepared to face the above problems, you must have the confidence and motivation to face setbacks and obstacles, as long as you love deeply enough, love the sea and the sea is rotten, then you can transcend. Collapse.

Happiness is rare. Although there is some truth in saying that two people are together at home, it is absolutely ominous. If you want to be fortunate as you are in the house, perhaps only being cautious is one of the conditions.

I think that a marriage that is not supported by the man's family will actually last a long time, mainly depending on whether the two people will be in love.

If two people will fall in love at first sight or fall in love for a long time, in fact, everyone does not bless them, they can still be long, as long as they don't care about other people's eyes, it is okay, especially the parents and parents may not support you for some reasons at the beginning, but after a period of time, if you can really live a very happy life, and it is a happy pair in the eyes of others, then your parents will bless you very much, because your parents are very happy for us, very good, Even if it wasn't supported at first for some reason, there must be a reason. Maybe you think that you won't be a good match, but in fact, the so-called marriage that is not supported by the man's family will not last long, and that is the real problem between you. If your marriage really won't last long, it can only mean that the man's family is right, that he sees that you will definitely not last long, there must be a problem, so you will not be happy for a long time, it can only prove that they are right, if you can be happy for a long time, then it proves that you are right, so time determines everything.

If you will really be happy all the time, and there will be the crystallization of the love of two people, that is, your children, and then you will be very happy, your parents will definitely support, even if there is still some mustard in the heart, but will also sincerely bless you, help you watch the child, this is a very normal thing.

So I think this mainly depends on each other, after all, whether it is in love or married, it is only a matter of two people, not a matter of two families, now the times have changed, they are all free to fall in love, free to marry, if you can really last a long time, why not parents? Parents are just for our good, if you can't grow up happily, it can only prove that the man's parents are right. So you must prove it to them, for a long time, everyone will definitely bless you, even if the Fang family does not bless, there will be many, many people who think you are very happy, and there will be many, many people who will bless you, so not necessarily.

It doesn't have to be someone's blessing, and it's really good only if everyone feels good.

So I think if you really like each other, it doesn't matter who supports each other or not, the important thing is that you love each other, like each other, and are very determined to go to the end with each other, what if that's the case? It's also very good, and it's also good for a long time.

This will definitely not be certain, but you can only say that the material foundation is about the same, but if two people are together, it depends on the recent relationship number of beats, and then whether the sales place is harmonious, living habits and so on.

The right door is not necessarily really happy, but the wrong door is basically not happy.

Not all marriages have to be the right match, because some factors are more important than the right match.

Synchronicity at the spiritual level.

Lin Yutang, a master of Chinese culture, has been working hand in hand with Liao Cuifeng for a lifetime, and their relationship is very affectionate, but the two of them are real representatives of "the door is not the right household".

Lin Yutang's family is poor, and because of family problems, Chen Jinduan's family, who is in love with him, refuses to get married.

But Liao Cuifeng is the second lady of the Liao family, the richest man in Gulangyu, and can be said to be a real lady. In addition, Lin Yutang is good at reading, but Liao Cuifeng's education is not very high, and compared with Lin Yutang, he is undoubtedly illiterate.

But it is such a very different couple, but they manage their marriage very well.

Some people may think that this is because Lin Yutang and Liao Cuifeng love each other very much, so they have enough ability to overcome the gap in family background and education.

In fact, Lin Yutang didn't have much affection for Liao Cuifeng at first, he just broke up with his ex, and he married Liao Cuifeng when he was sad.

So, what makes their marriage happy?

The mental level is quite an important reason.

Lin Yutang is good at reading, Liao Cuifeng tries to study, never restricts her own development, she will ask Lin Yutang for advice if she doesn't understand, but it deepens the relationship between the two people.

Liao Cuifeng's family is well-off, Lin Yutang tried his best to accommodate Liao Cuifeng, knowing that when the other party sold the dowry in order to make the life of the two of them better, he cherished Liao Cuifeng's contribution even more.

What couples are most afraid of is never that the gap between family backgrounds is too large, or that they have different educational backgrounds, but that the spiritual level of two people is not at the same level.

This difference does not mean that one person loves to read and another person does not like to read, one person likes to live frugally and the other is lavish.

I think it's still possible to be happyIn fact, the impact of this kind of thinking on the ordinary people of our country is very large, and what the ordinary people of our country pay more attention to is actually the idea of being the right person. If the two families have a relatively high status in the society, then the two people will have very good material conditions in the future, so that the lives of the two people will become happier.

Many families actually attach great importance to this, and many people around me actually have this kind of thinking, and my parents think that the other party's conditions are relatively good, so that they can get a better life in the future. It is also true that those who have better material conditions are able to attain greater happiness. <>

I think that such a traditional concept can indeed affect ordinary people to a certain extent, and many people can have a better relationship in the future after they have good material conditions. <>

We must understand that the reason why we become happy is because we can get each other's relationship in life, and the relationship between two people is very good. It is precisely because of this that two people will come together, which is also an important factor in determining whether two people will be happy in the future. <>

In the current society, in fact, many people are under great pressure, and it is not too terrible to have pressure, but the terrible thing is that the two have higher material requirements. Even if two people don't have too good material conditions in life, it is a very happy thing for two people to stay together.

It must be difficult to love if you are not a good match, because if two people have very different families, and you marry there, your lives may not be able to blend together, and there will be a lot of conflicts between each other.

It's not the right love, maybe both parties have to pay more, because the door is not the right one, there may be one party who goes to the family in terms of status more or less violated, if so, maybe the love that is not the right family is really unhappy.

But sometimes if it is not a good match, it will also produce true love, but there may be a lot of difficulties to overcome in daily life, because the rich party needs to help the poor party to buy something, unless it is a really friendly family, otherwise there will definitely be some resentment, and these resentments will pile up to form a very big crisis, and usually if it is not the right person, then the high-level people will have a lot of requirements for the low-level side.

I think that love that is not the right person can be very happy. Because love is equal, as long as two people can tolerate each other, even if it is not the right love, they can be very happy.

It's not the right love, as long as two people really love each other, they can be happy. Although there may be differences in life due to values, there is love in the heart to resolve them. After a period of running-in and mutual influence, the two people will become more and more tacit.

In fact, it is not the right love, but it can also be happy, for example, we say that the story of Cinderella and the prince, although it is a fairy tale, but we can also see such a thing as love. It doesn't have to be the right fit.

Most of the love that is not the right person will not be happy. The love that is not in the right household shows that the quality of life between the two people is not at the same level, and the three views and living habits will be different, which will cause a lot of contradictions and frictions, so the love of the family will not be happy.

The trivial things in life, the material aspects are not satisfied, the money gap in the other party's thoughts, when you like it, a pair of shoes, it's expensive, you want to buy it, and your object will say that you are a loser, living in a rich and poor family gap, so that each other has a great prejudice, which will only make both parties more painful!

The current society basically doesn't pay much attention to that kind of door-to-door pair, he is a more dedicated thought, so as long as the feelings of two people can be together well, it is also very good to be able to trust each other.

It is not the right door, love is generally not happy, because from ancient times to the present, we should still pay attention to the right person, because the right door can respect each other, understand each other, and look at the problem from the same angle, such as buying things, the rich and the poor have different ideas.