Why do others say I m the king of the cold field?

1 may be a bit serious in tone.

2. Most people don't want to hear opposing views when they're angry.

3. Sometimes the point of view should be kept in mind, and others will be very unhappy when they hear the big truth when chatting.

4. If you want to express your own opinions, it is not suitable to say it suddenly when you have been quiet, which is a bit abrupt.

5. You need to be skillful in your speech, you are right, but it will make people think that you think you are great, that you are a high monk, and that you are accusing them.

May you master communication skills, build good relationships, and be happy.

There is nothing wrong with what you said, but because the timing is wrong, it's very simple, I used to bring a friend when I was shopping, and when I bargained with the boss, my friend ran to help the boss and said that the thing was very good for me to buy. After all, he was with me, but he spoke for the boss, although the words were right, but it was not the time!

Because the other person is chatting easily, but you are very serious about teaching him, which makes them unable to continue. You can either have a casual chat with them or don't talk at all. Someone else is chatting.

You can try not to use such written language to communicate with others, sometimes even if your own opinions are not in line with others', as long as you express them in a normal tone, others may will.

There is a girl in our group who is a good person, but no matter what others say, she will come out and disagree. For example, once we were talking about decoration in the group, I sent you two comparison pictures, saying that next time we decorate, we have to get a good picture of the lighting scheme, and the different lighting effects are too different.

What a difference! She said: You can't install this kind of lamp at home, you want to sleep when you see it.

I said that I had gone home, and I would sleep if I wanted to, and I snickered at her and said, "How can that work!" Why don't you do anything and sleep every day?

Wait for the day you die, you can sleep hard.

Low emotional intelligence, can't speak, always offends people. Cynical and unpleasant to see anything. The first type is encountered the most, and I want to mingle with everyone, which is generally good, but humor also requires some talent.

Normally, when I encounter this kind of cold field, I will make up for it according to the cold jokes of the cold field king, and the effect is often not bad. When the king of the cold field saw that the scene was lively, he didn't care too much about being ridiculed, and even felt that he had his own credit. It's so harmonious, how good it is to chat less about the others.

I haven't really paid attention to the king of the cold field, and if there is, I guess I'm barely one. I belong to the kind of person who "talks nonsense and tells the truth", and it is estimated that there will not be more than two episodes in the TV series, for example, a college classmate (gender female) said that she was very angry when she saw the boy she had a crush on in high school with his girlfriend! Me:

People are a couple, and it should be together, and then, there is no then. Usually more serious or more true, some points of view I disagree with I will say it, and then. I am most afraid that the air will suddenly be quiet, and I usually encounter this situation.

I'll change the subject, talk about something lighter, eat, gossip, whatever. Then re-set the mood.

This is not good, I drink this and make my stomach hurt. I asked her: You just got into a stomach when it arrived?

She said, "I've drunk it before." I said:

This is a children's 4-stage formula, what are you drinking this for? She finally said, "I don't drink the same as this."

If you don't look at it, you can not participate in the discussion, and come out to show what superiority!

In the group chat, the experience was more profound, and I was very excited to express my opinions, attach facial expressions or an exaggerated emoji, and then no one continued to speak for a long time. There is another situation, I am very excited to answer, there is no praise for a long time.

I was chatting with a friend about traveling, and she asked me if you like traveling. I said I like it, and then I said something about traveling, and then I said do you like it? She said, "No." And then there was no then, I guess that's an awkward conversation.