Why do others think I m self righteous

Actually, it's good to be yourself, don't care about other people's opinions, the heart is your own, maybe others are jealous of what you others don't have, you can think so, if most people think so, then you need to find problems from yourself, if you really can't find it, you can sit down with others to talk and listen to other people's ideas. In short, don't let yourself get lost and waste this time because of this kind of problem, maybe it will be very precious later on! I hope you are happy and hopeful!!

1.If the person who says this is deliberately targeting you, don't pay attention.

2.If it's a good friend of yours, or someone who cares about you, who says something sincerely, then it's time for self-reflection. ** Something went wrong and corrected it. Thanks to their guidance, you can understand yourself more clearly and get better and better.

No one wants to hear bad things about themselves, but it's really true.

There may be some complaints and annoyances at first, but if it is a view put forward by someone who is really good for you, you should accept it with an open mind, get rid of one bad problem after another, and gradually try to improve your ,..Come on!

If it's just a person who says that about you, it means that they have a problem.

If most of them think so, prove that you really need to correct it

If you can think of this question, you should already have the answer!

Congratulations on your progress!

Self-righteousness is usually manifested in five aspects:

Think you're right. Self-righteousness is manifested in the understanding, evaluation, judgment, and decision of people and things, and they often think that their own views, views, understandings, and practices are correct and correct, while other people's views, views, understandings, and practices, if they are inconsistent with their own views, views, understandings, and practices, often think that others are wrong, wrong, incorrect, and undesirable.

Think you're good. Self-righteousness, manifested in self-thinking and morality, personality cultivation, understanding and evaluation of the world, often see themselves as a flower, feel that they are all good, all right, just like a saint, a perfect person, can not see any shortcomings, shortcomings, problems and shortcomings in their own existence, and look at others, it is often difficult to understand others, feel that others are not good everywhere, full of shortcomings and deficiencies, ** are not as good as themselves.

Think you can. Self-righteousness, manifested in the understanding of their own ability, ability, and ability, often think that they have strong ability, great ability, and high ability, and others are not good, they are not as good as themselves, so they are capable and clever, and they do not understand the truth that the ruler is short, the inch is long, there is a sky outside the sky, and there are mountains outside the mountain, and they do not understand that there is no best, only better wisdom, and do not understand that there is an optimal solution in the world.

I think I am miserable. Self-righteousness, in the treatment of their own hard work, hard work, sacrifice and dedication, often think that they are the most diligent and hard, pay the greatest sacrifice, dedicate the most sweat and hard work, others are relaxed, shaded, leisurely, feel that others are better, are enjoying the blessings, count their own hardest, tired, and sinful.

I think I was wronged. Self-righteousness, in the treatment of contribution awards, evaluation and rewards, rewards and punishments, often think that their own credit is the greatest, the best performance, the greatest merit, others are not as good as themselves, for their personal fame and fortune, often feel that they get too little, feel that there is a grievance in their hearts, feel that others owe themselves, feel unfair, unjust, always feel that others do not have their own credit, more contributions, but get more than themselves, better, the heart will feel very unbalanced, feel that others are taking advantage, And like a wronged leader, he will be indignant in his heart and difficult to let go.

Self-righteousness means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest. From "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

Believe that your own views and practices are correct, and do not accept the opinions of others. Yes: Yes. I always think I'm right. Describe subjective, not modest.

People in the world tend to boast of their abilities. Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers" eighty-fourth chapter.

Think that everything you do is right.

自動是 [zì yǐ wéi shì].

Chinese idioms. This entry is a polysemous term, with a total of 5 meanings.

Self-righteousness, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is zì yǐ wéi shì, which means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest. From "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

The Chinese name is self-righteous.

foreign name be opinionated; be self-righteous

Pinyin zì yǐ wéi shì

Zhuyin Source: "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

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Cited explanations. Yes: Yes. I always think I'm right. Describe subjective, not modest.

Xunzi Honor and Disgrace": "All fighters must be self-righteous, and people are wrong." ”

Mencius: "Everyone is pleased, self-righteous." ”

Ming Feng Menglong's "Warning to the World, Drinking and Hating Banshan Hall": Jing Gong is self-righteous, and he advocates for the three deficiencies: "The sky is not enough to fear, people are not enough to be compassionate, and the law of the ancestors is not enough to abide by." ”[1]

Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers" Chapter 84: People in the world are often self-righteous and boastful of their abilities.

Self-righteousness, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is zì yǐ wéi shì, which means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest. From "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

Self-righteousness is believing one's own guesses, judgments, imaginations, or other people's statements without investigation, analysis, and evidence collection, so that the perception does not match reality, and then does wrong things.

No matter what they think or do, they think they are right, and they don't listen to other people's advice and insist on going their own way.

1. Self-righteous people always think that they are right, they can't listen to any opinions of others, they are stubborn, and they insist on going their own way.

2. When talking to others, as soon as they say a sentence or two, he immediately interrupts others and immediately concludes: "What you said is not right, it should be", others have to shut up and listen to his boastful talk.

3. The desire to express is very strong, when others say a word, he has to say ten words, and others nod and admit defeat, and he will give up.

Everyone else is wrong, but you are all right. Everyone else is bad, but I'm good. Everyone else is stupid, and they are superior to others. Everyone else is evil, but they are full of righteousness.

Self-righteousness also likes to talk to themselves, because many people around them don't agree with themselves, so they can only convince themselves that they are right. Constantly have a dialogue with yourself and emphasize your own point of view. In fact, this is a very wrong behavior, self-righteous people should not always talk to themselves, should listen to the opinions of others, you can have greater progress.

The main meaning of self-righteousness is to say that what you say and think and do is correct, and you don't take other people's ideas as one thing, and Qingshu doesn't follow anyone's advice. Generally, such people are more selfish and blindly confident.

I'm right, listen to me.

Usually self-righteous people have a colloquial language, and I think I think that they often impose their own so-called correct ideas on other people's heads, and feel that their thoughts are other people's inner activities. Very disrespectful of others, but also very overestimating their own abilities.

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was too pregnant and vomited, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a day **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life. I never got tired of it and loved my home and family very much.