What does Douyin distort the concept of love into?

When I was just in love with my first love, Douyin rose to instill in me that boys should prepare surprises every day Love must have a sense of ceremony Girls must have a lot of requirements for men Boys are natural to pay for girls and so on Let me challenge his bottom line again and again Wasting his true love for me In the end he left in disappointment.

Really girls in love less TikTok And the most important point: don't blindly confide in your sisters and complain when you quarrel, they will make you break up and seek a better next one when you stand in your shoes, but these irrational suggestions will make your relationship fall apart, and communication and reflection with your lover after calming down is the most important thing!

The sense of ceremony, gifts, love words, and the show of affection in the circle of friends are of course what girls want to get in love, but two-way giving is the essence of maintaining the relationship, and think about the problem from the other party's standpoint. Not every boy is born in love, be blunt about what you want, so that he can slowly learn to love you.

The one with a high appearance is a perfect match, and if it's not good-looking, it's speechless, and what do you say I'm better than you, why don't I have an object, and txl, some "rotten" women just like two good-looking boys together, the point is good-looking and boys, whether it's love or not, they will say "I don't care, this is love", and what else "If it's not two men, it will be meaningless" (the sisters of the rotten circle know) I'm also speechless, and, for example, a couple broke up, A bunch of people scolded the one who mentioned breaking up (it seems a bit off-topic), and some people found friends to pretend to be couples to attract fans, love is obviously very pure, and it was made like this.

In fact, it's not just Douyin, it seems that many people want to be other people's emotional mentors, and the starting point may be good, but there are still some people who are not strong-willed and suffer from it. Love is a wonderful journey, and it is also easily affected. It is true that the surprise in love on Douyin is indeed the icing on the cake, but it does not have to be.

After all, everyone is different, and love is also a unique love that belongs to you. Douyin is just a small tool to adjust your life in your spare time, don't use him as an emotional lifesaver. I think it's best to be emotionally evenly matched, one party is too strong and the other person is tired; If one side is too weak, it will bore the other; Pay is the same, people's hearts are long, whether it is good or not should have their own judgment, if you like to reply to the message in seconds, the other party made a statement that he is willing to accommodate your emotions; So when you can't do it, shouldn't you be considerate?

This is also my personal experience in the process of suffering emotionally, but still trying to become good together!

I don't mix up the beauty, there are a lot of same-sex cps on Douyin's first-class short ** platform (no discrimination), children's values are not very mature, which really invisibly affects the orientation of many children, and I saw a teenage boy happily showing off that he broke his classmates, what kind of bad values is this? It's not something to brag about! I don't know how many rotten girls there are in the short ** platform, but any two boys together can be said to be the same, isn't it really to recruit black for your rotten circle?

Moreover, most of the users of the short ** are young people, and there are even children of a few years old, and the children's values have not been formed.

In some **, or in popular reviews, we can often see some statements that are too categorical (eg.).If he doesn't cut all the girls in the penguins, he won't love you) What a selfish idea this is?? Isn't this really taking bad kids???

I remember seeing such a sentence in Douyin, which means that although marriage is composed of two people, if you want to run it well enough, you can only pay it alone.

TikTok is now spreading a lot of bad influences to teenagers, making them worry that their future love life will be very bad through TikTok, making many people unrealistic.

The words of this age and hidden socks may offend many people who are looking forward to this business to eat, but I feel that the truth is always someone who needs to tell it.