I always feel that my boyfriend doesn t care about me everywhere, is it a psychological problem?

First of all, you have to make sure that your own feelings are accurate, not just because of sensitivity and suspicion caused by an illusion of anything, if your feelings are true, your boyfriend does not care about you everywhere, or in some way, cares about your feelings, then you can communicate with him, and tell him your inner thoughts, so that he can care more about you in the future.

But if your personality is very sensitive and suspicious, and even a little too suspicious of your boyfriend, and unconditionally magnify everything, it may be some psychological problems for you. At this time, you need to adjust reasonably and put your inner state of mind in a stable manner.

You have to know that for your boyfriend, both of you are separate individuals, so neither of you has to think of the other person completely, and no one has the obligation to give their hearts completely to the other party. The role between two people is more of a companionship and a sense of tolerance between each other, so when one party is too strict with the other, or too sensitive, then there will be a strong sense of disparity between the two people.

The one who is strict with the other party will feel that the other party is not as good as he imagined, or that it is completely different from what he imagined. It's like you don't care about yourself at all, you don't listen to what you say, etc., which will make the relationship between the two parties slowly fade, or your inner thoughts will gradually strengthen, then he may become what you imagined.

For the man, he is already working hard, but for his girlfriend, he will continue to find fault with himself, so in his heart, he will continue to veto your relationship, and the result will not be too smooth.

I don't think it's necessarily a psychological problem, women's intuition is very keen, your boyfriend must have something that makes you suspicious, I think it's better for you to have a good talk with him.

It can only be said that your boyfriend does not give you enough security, which leads to you often suspecting that he is not good enough for you, and it is recommended to communicate with your boyfriend more.

It's not that there is a problem in my heart, it's just that the other party really doesn't care about me, maybe I feel that I can't get the other party's love in my heart, so I have such an idea in my heart.

I think it's a psychological problem, and it's probably because of my own insecurity, so I'm suspicious of my boyfriend everywhere.

One point, you can put the problem on the table, you are always worried, this is a lack of security, if you really love each other, no difficulties are a problem.

Then I think you can be cold and violent to your boyfriend, let him know that you are angry, and then you tell him the reason for his anger, because he will not care about people, he will coax you and think of ways to care for you.

I think you can teach your boyfriend that you are very eager to care, that he realizes this, and you can teach him again.

I think this situation should be broken up quickly, because the other person has no intention of loving you at all.

Two people have been together for a long time and have become relatives, and the man also has his space and ideas, which does not mean that he does not care about you, but think about it in turn, do you take care of him? We have to give to each other. A person in the relationship has been paying and tired.

Let's have a good conversation! Men are human beings, and girls are human beings, but I think to look at the problem from the other party's point of view, men will also need to be loved and cared for, and people are more selfish, only paying attention to their own feelings, in the process of love, as long as they are comfortable, small problems will become big problems if they are not found.

The early manifestation of depression is that life is boring, desireless, unmotivated, pessimistic and misanthropic. Or go through an ordeal and see life through. You should go abroad with him, or let him go abroad, let him go out and try something new.

Otherwise, you change yourself first, or you secretly become him, and see what happens to him in a day, and you will know why he said it. Always ask him to do this and that for you, because men's nerves are not as fine as women's, and men have their own things to do!

Guys are like this sometimes, in fact, he also has you in his heart, but the performance is not so strong, men and women are two different animals. Women are careful and sensitive, and hope that their boyfriends can be romantic and considerate of themselves in details. But many men are very arrogant in this regard, and they don't say sweet words when they die, which doesn't mean that they don't love you, it's just that they express love in different ways.

I know that very well! So don't be too demanding.

There is a big difference between men and women in the expression of their feelings, if you can't grasp their emotional and psychological changes well, it may cause misunderstandings between you, and even lead to disputes or disagreements between the two parties. Usually men don't show too much jealousy in this regard, otherwise they will appear to be very stingy. When most men see their girlfriends and other members of the opposite sex socializing normally, they will hold a vinegar attitude on the one hand, and on the other hand, they will continue to convince themselves to be generous.

If a man loves you very much, he will naturally like to be tired of being together all the time, and he hopes that women will belong to themselves all the time, revolve around themselves, and will also emphasize their own space from time to time.

Sometimes a man may not be able to take care of your feelings because of work or other troubles, or because he is too busy, maybe you feel that he is indifferent to you, but in fact, it is not, or when you are not busy and hungry, you will feel that he loves you very much.

Your gains and losses like this show that you are very insecure, and your boyfriend may also be the kind of person who treats you well when he is in a good mood and doesn't want to pay attention to you when he is in a bad mood.

Maybe it's because your boyfriend sometimes makes you angry, and you feel that he doesn't love you very much.

It shows that your boyfriend doesn't really love you, that's why he will be so hot and cold to you, and break up as soon as possible.

Hello subject!

Seeing your description, I feel your grievances and hope that your boyfriend cares more about his feelings and gives you a warm hug.

The subject said that there are some physical problems and I want to seek my boyfriend's care and care, but my boyfriend feels that he is doing well, which makes you feel very uncomfortable, is that so?

I think the subject is aware of it, how to communicate with your boyfriend before this and get care? What did you do at that time, or what did your boyfriend do to make you feel comfortable?

Men and women have different physiological structures, and their psychological states are not the same, girls are equivalent to sensitive, and they want to get a sense of security and being cared for, and most boys are bigger. So you need to be aware here, this incident and similar things that happened before this incident, when you are not very satisfied with your boyfriend's reaction, what is your reaction? What did you do?

What comes to mind?

I want the subject to be aware, what are your expectations? What do you expect your boyfriend to do to you? What did you do that your boyfriend did to make you feel happy? Here the subject can be perceived.

In fact, the key to wanting a boyfriend lies in how you do it, here I suggest that you can hypnotize your boyfriend, such as usually being coquettish, showing weakness appropriately, and when you need your boyfriend's care, tell him directly, honey, I need your care, I can get better quickly, in order to be more powerful, you can try.

Remember that your boyfriend is not an enemy, buried not a colleague, not a leader, but the closest person, you have to learn to soften yourself, when you soften down, your boyfriend can have the desire to protect you, what do you think!

I recommend "Intimate Relationships", "Management of Intimate Relationships", "Nonviolent Communication", "The Five Languages of Love" and "Feel Love".