Upcoming marriage, love and family, how to choose,

A person's life is a constant choice, hey...

My opinion, of course, chooses love, what is your situation, is there a boyfriend, your family disagrees or because of something else, although no matter how the family is, they hope that their children are good, but marriage is a matter of your life, not a joke, and your husband is the person who has gone through 80% of your life, I think if there is someone I love, I will have a good grasp, if the family disagrees, I must communicate with the family to let them recognize my own feelings, but I can't force it with the family, and the feelings on both sides must be taken into account, No matter what, don't do anything you regret and hope you are happy.

I don't know how old you are, and I don't know what age you are married. Love is a lifelong thing, and you will spend the rest of your life with it, do you want to be with someone you don't love for the rest of your life? Choose love, with love, there is everything

How to say it, it depends on whether you still believe in love, if you believe, you don't need to say it, you will also choose love, will wait for the person who really loves you, and seize the opportunity when he appears; If you don't believe it, then no matter how much we persuade you, you won't be willing to believe it, so don't force it, because love is relative, and sometimes, the person who can stay with you for a lifetime may not be the one you love the most.

Feel it for yourself, have a stable career, and then get married.

Families are slowly developing from love.

Factors to consider before getting married.

1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.

In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

2. The character of both parties.

Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.

5. Whether a man has true love for you.

Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

Choosing marriage and family, well, how to choose this? There is no skill to choose from, if there is fate, it will come naturally, and if there is no fate, forget it.

When I get married, I will choose love over suitability, because a marriage without love is meaningless, and such a marriage will not last long.

After many people have been hurt in their relationship, they will feel that they must find a suitable person to be with after getting married in the future, so that the two will not quarrel often and get along more harmoniously. But if you marry someone you don't love, you will find that there is no happiness in this marriage, and two people are just living together together. You don't care what happens to the other party, and he doesn't care if something goes wrong with you.

I don't think there is a need for such a marriage, because you can live like this even if you are alone, and you will be freer when you are alone. So I think if you want to get married, you still have to choose someone you love and love yourself, so that you can look forward to this relationship.

I've been in a relationship a few times before, but it didn't happen, so I thought it would be okay to get married and find the right person, but then I found that being with someone I don't like will suffocate me every minute and every second. It wasn't until I met my current husband that I realized how happy I was to be with someone I liked. Now that we have a daughter of our own, we are both fighting for life, and we feel happy when we come home from work every day to see our daughter.

I think you can only feel this way when you're with someone you like, and if you're with the right person, you won't feel like that.

I have a lot of friends around me, and they all fell in love with someone their parents liked and ended up getting married. But after getting married, I found that I was not happy, and every day was very painful. Even when I get off work every day, I just want to sit in the car and don't want to go home, because it's really uncomfortable to go home and face a face that I don't like and is unfamiliar.

So I hope everyone can find someone they love. It must be because of love that you will get married, not because of suitability.

Some people are very confused in their relationships, especially when they reach the age when they should get married, they are struggling with whether they should marry with love, or find a suitable person to enter into marriage, in fact, in real life, there are many people who are looking for a suitable person with themselves when they get married, rather than the person they love the most, some people will feel that this is not very painful, in fact, the person you love the most may not be able to go all the way with you in marriage, because finding a suitable person, Your future life will become more and more tacit, and you will live happily. Because two people think very little when they are in love, and there are a lot of things to consider after getting married, marriage is not just love.

If two people are not suitable, the pursuit of different things, the idea is also different, with the passage of feelings, it is easy to have a crisis, for example, on the topic of marriage, if two people do not reach a consensus in this regard, it is easy to part ways, for example, the woman wants to get married when she reaches the age of marriage, but the man feels that he still wants to work hard, and wants to wait until he has money, a house and a car before getting married. If two people can't reach a consensus on their thoughts, the woman will be cranky and lose confidence in love, and the man will feel that the woman is unreasonable, and the two will not be able to get together.

If you find someone who coincides with you, both of them feel that they can work together to fight for the family after marriage, and the ideological level of the two people is on the same level, then the future life will be much happier.

In love, two people are often in love, without thinking about so many things, and there will be all kinds of trivial things after marriage, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, what kind of trivial things will happen, for example, the man feels that the woman should do housework, and the woman feels that the man should help herself, so at this time, the two people are prone to quarrel if they can't reach a consensus, so although love is the foundation of marriage, the most important thing is that the two people are suitable.