I don t understand one thing in my heart, but I care a lot, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-28
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to know, just ask.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It can't be said that you don't care, you can only say that you care, but you don't accept that you have this kind of thought, so you deliberately say to yourself that I don't care.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What you do makes you feel something.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a shame or you still care, implying that you don't care about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm now in my second year of high school, and I'm very happy to tell you how I felt about falling in love in junior high school, just for your reference.

    Boys and girls are completely different in their treatment of feelings. Boys, especially in junior high school, few boys know what responsibility is, and I was the same at that time, yearning for platonic love, my grades have been declining, and I have been able to pay for it easily, but now I can't get in with more money. To put it bluntly, love at that time was a process of self-deception.

    So I want you to ask him if he can make a lifelong commitment for you, if he can pay for the bread of your love.

    The girl I liked at the time told me that she hoped I could change back to my old self, but the spark was just a prelude to the momentum of the prairie fire, and everything came as soon as my grades fell.

    My experience is to advise you to give up your current love as soon as possible, I am not a conservative person, and I know what the consequences will be if you continue like this now.

    I don't know how the boy is studying, but a secondary school student and a high school student 98% shouldn't be together. So at least at this point in learning first.

    If you really can't think about it, it's recommended to watch some romance animations, transfer it, or be shocked is good for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The Death March was right

    I think I was purely ignorant in junior high school, but fortunately, I didn't have enough patience in that area in junior high school, so I entered the country for free

    But I spent my sophomore year of high school completely on that, put my heart on it, and now I'm finally on the precipice

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not uncommon for children to be cranky, and I love it. When I can't learn. I can write or something, and when I do, my mind will calm down.

    You can give him a **. Maybe it didn't turn on, or maybe it was every fee, and there was no place to pay for the New Year. I encountered this situation, I promised my sister that she would give her a big ** at night on 30, but it didn't cost to call her.

    I really envy your pair, and you can learn both emotionally and emotionally. Be happy, or let your boyfriend know and worry about you. Why am I not convinced?

    Hi... I wish you all a happy life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To love someone requires tolerance and to learn to empathize.

    What you have to do now is not to care about him and his ex-girlfriend, but to focus on loving him as long as he doesn't love his ex-girlfriend, don't worry about it so much. They broke up but they can still be friends, and there's nothing wrong with leaving a mobile phone number. Be a little more tolerant, don't be so jealous, it's not good for the body!

    I'm a little bit like you, but I actually care about it to get angry!Although it seems to us to be a reflection of course, it is a bit vexatious from the perspective of others!Everyone has memories of all contact with their ex-girlfriend and is concentrating on falling in love with you, even if he really agrees to you to do it, I think he is forced to care about him It's understandable to care about him being angry, but getting angry too often will only shake the relationship between you and keep quarreling So how should your relationship go on?

    If you like him and don't want to be separated from him, think about it, I believe you can solve it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love yourself first!

    Only those who love themselves have the ability to love others.

    People who are not confident, people who depend on the environment are more likely to care about their surroundings, you have to be confident now, you have to love yourself!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just go out for a while, relax and don't think about anything else.

    The above is purely personal opinion, please don't be surprised! )

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't make yourself unhappy.

    Let's go for entertainment and relax.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sullen? Then it's good that you also give this feeling of being a person, ambiguity is a science, see if you can play, it is this feeling of being separated that is more touching. And at this time, it depends on the determination of the person, to see who can't hold it first, the victorious person is a person with good concentration, the initiative is in hand, whether you are together or not, you are not a loss...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is called lust and indulgence, giving people room for reverie!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Obviously cares a lot, but it's the same as a nobody, there are a lot of such people, personality problems.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hey, I guess you and I won't understand this for the rest of our lives.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Often, it's either too low or too conceited.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, I want to affirm that it is extremely natural to like someone and care about someone. There may be times when you feel tired and unhappy because you care too much, but your intentions are good, and there is nothing wrong with liking someone. Secondly, I want to say that relaxation is not about letting go, it doesn't mean you don't like it, but it means that you care about another kind of relationship.

    Give each other a little space, don't ask everything, and even deliberately create a proper sense of distance, which will make him realize your importance. Have you heard of she's semi-saccharism? Try to be yourself, be your own independent self, be completely yourself, so that you are the most natural, beautiful and care for him.

    Also, don't worry about a little thing, learn to believe and learn to listen. Since you have chosen to like him, you should choose to believe, okay? A little personal opinion, I hope it helps you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Caring too much will only make you suffer from gains and losses, and lose yourself. Because you love him, you will naturally have all kinds of feelings related to him. Even if you know you can't do that, you can't care too much. But you just can't control yourself.

    You have to sway your mood according to his mood at all times. Thinking about him in everything. If you care too much about a person, you will really lose yourself, and you will find that you involuntarily revolve around him all the time, whether the other party cares about you or not, whether you want you to love him as much as he loves, you will never get tired of it.

    Even if he hurts you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you care too much, you will not trust, you are afraid of losing you, and you are jealous and unconfident in yourself, and you are afraid that you will leave at any time. You have to distinguish what the other party does not trust, and you have to tell him clearly that the foundation of love is mutual trust, and if even the most basic trust is gone, then love will be in jeopardy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, there is pressure, and it is not good for yourself, marriage is not a burden for each other! Love and family are all beautiful, if they are all possessive, then the most beautiful thing is also the most broken, the person you love the most becomes the most hated person, and the love is deeply responsible! You have to have a true understanding of people, express your love invisibly, and gently nourish your lover and family like a stream!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, love is selfish. Really love someone, as this friend said, very, very much care about his girlfriend's every move. But when the water is full, it overflows, and the full moon loses, and she can't stand your love.

    If you love someone, you should give her a moderate amount of freedom, like flying a kite, and master the scale.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love will eventually become family affection and habit, I don't know which one you belong to.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You love each other too much, and there must be some relatively large distance between you and her, which is why you are very insecure about her! Actually, you are really tired like this, you don't have to be like this, because if you do this, not only will you be unhappy, but she will also be the same as you. Couples need to learn to trust each other.

    Because after you get married, you and her still have to work, socialize, and have contact with others, do you want to put others in a cage? (Actually, what others say is useless, because this is what happened to you, not someone else.) If you really can't stand it, give up, people always have to live well, if you want to do more exercise, it's good for your mood and body!

    Bless you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The most important thing in love is mutual understanding, and I am very considerate of your feelings of loving someone. You sometimes don't take everything you care about to heart, you can tell her that you care about everything about her because you are afraid of losing her, you love her, and I believe she will understand you. Also, love is free, and it is not because two people love each other that you have to give up friends of the opposite sex.

    You have to learn to get used to her talking to friends of the opposite sex or talking to her heart. You have to understand her with a forgiving heart, and I am sure you will be fine. She won't be disgusted by your care either.

    Friends give you a few words at the end: to learn, to understand, tolerate, considerate. I wish you all happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    At this time, you should try not to care too much, let go, want to open up, it's not that you want to be what you want, you should trust her, time will tell.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Well, trust is the foundation of everything otherwise it won't last long.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Do more things that you like and pay less attention to her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    My dear friend! The two of us have similar temperaments, I am sulking all day long because I haven't found a good job, I don't know what kind of excessive things I will do, this day and night, no matter who says something to me that I don't like to hear, I will run away from home, away from everyone, find a deserted place to calm down by myself, and only go home after meditating, then there will be nothing, and the most I do now is to go to the river and turn. There are a few rivers in my house, there are a lot of fish, and there are a lot of fishermen, and the purpose of my visit to the river is to watch the fishermen fishing, so that I will be distracted, and I will not think about those unhappy things, so it will be much better, and my mood will be much more relaxed.

    Sometimes when you are unhappy, you drive out to turn, and sometimes you take the bus to turn, all for the same purpose, in order to be distracted and not to think about those unhappy things. Friend, you must remember that sentence, when doing things, further calm down, take a step back and open the sky. If you are doing business or work, try not to trust the gossip of others, no matter what you do, the consequences are all in your own hands.

    Let's put it this way! I've been driving for more than 20 years, and I've never had a vehicle violation, and what happened when I was left on the road because of a vehicle breakdown! Because I'm obsessed!

    But what the result! It's very bad, whether it's my family or the car owner, they treat me cruelly so that I can earn more money for them, and there is no one who is good to me, tell you the truth! The only person in the family who is good to me and cares about me is my mother, I always get angry with my family because I am unhappy, what a big mistake, I am sorry for my mother's care and love for me!

    Filial piety comes first! In the future, I will definitely try my best to change my bad temper and character, and be filial to my parents. My dear friend!

    You can learn like me! When you encounter something upset, try to think of ways to do something that can distract you, and that will be much better, you know! Hope mine!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No matter how much you care about someone, it also depends on whether he (she) also cares about your existence!Some things are irretrievable, that.

    A: Why do you have to do it! You can't keep it when it's time to give up! What should be yours is yours, and it's useless to be reluctant if it shouldn't be yours! Tired is my own experience, because I care too much about that person!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Bury your care in your heart, maybe he doesn't care if you care about him at all, let it go, then you will be happier and happier.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That's the pain of a crush! Must endure! It's better to say it bluntly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Whether the other party does not have a definite response, and you dare not chase it, whether your heart is contradictory; Are you afraid of death if you catch it, and you are afraid of flying if you put it?

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