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How introverts can better exercise their eloquence.
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1. Read more to enrich your mind. Eloquence is not just a verbal effort, it is more a reflection of the mind's logical thinking ability, a performance of the usual accumulation of words and allusions, and finally oral expression skills. This is a great fit for introverts.
2. Practice frequently to improve your skills. The ability to express fluently is not innate, it is the result of long-term training in the later stages. Introverts can speak out when no one is around, and they can improve their language skills over time.
3. Dare to speak up and enhance self-confidence. This is the most important, people say that the dumplings boiled in the teapot can't be poured out of the mouth because the mouth is too small. You can start with a small number of people, informal occasions, and actively speak when talking to people, the effect may not be very good or even a little awkward at first, but you will definitely see results if you persist for a few times, and you will be generous and natural after a long time.
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Find a book and read it aloud to the mirror for a while, then go to the balcony and read it aloud for a while, and then find an acquaintance to face him or her and tell you what you've been doing lately... Later you will ...
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Most people who think that they are not eloquent are introverts and reticent. They listen a lot, they talk a lot, and the point is that they don't dare to say it. Therefore, if you want to practice eloquence, you must first practice the courage to speak up.
The establishment of personal courage should be based on good self-confidence. To practice eloquence, you must first practice listening to people who are eloquent, and you don't have many words, just be incisive. If you can speak incisively, you must first listen well, and only when you listen well can you speak well.
When listening, it is especially important to listen to the meaning of others and to hear what others are saying. 1. Listen attentively. When communicating with others, don't be absent-minded, improve your attention and understand what others are saying.
2. Think positively. After listening, you have to think, to think about why others say this, what is the reason why he said this, what is the meaning he wants to express, etc., you may not think of it at first, but as long as you keep it in mind, after a period of time, you will slowly understand the meaning of others, and then go to the heart to experience, to summarize, if the next time you encounter such a situation, what others are probably expressing, gradually, your ability to listen to the meaning of the words, will become stronger and stronger. 3. Communicate more with thoughtful people.
Thoughtful people, what they say often has a lot of places that make you reminisce, from these aftertastes, you can understand the meaning, and at the same time you can also learn if you express your thoughts very skillfully to practice the three beliefs of eloquence1, as long as there is a chance to speak, I will speak2, as long as there is a chance to go on stage, I will rush to the stage3, as long as there is a chance to practice, I will practice these three beliefs of practicing eloquence, if you can really apply it to life, I think, There will definitely be a qualitative leap in your level of eloquence.
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Exercising eloquence requires getting along with people, dealing with them, step by step, I don't know if you are a student or already working? See also the book American Dell. Dale Carnegie's "Breakthrough in Language" will help you.
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Talk to people more often.
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How do introverts exercise their eloquence? In our lives, there are always some friends around us "stuffy oil bottle", they may be because of the content of their personality, as much as possible not to speak, or to talk very little, but we must understand that for friends who do not speak for a long time, a long time will make people's expression ability decline, and in severe cases, it will cause communication barriers.
Exercise eloquence, go to bean melon training.
First: Eloquence needs to be exercised. There is no natural orator, only eloquence that is constantly exercised.
You must know that everyone's qualifications are similar, they have stage fright, others will have the same feelings, we must seize all the opportunities that can be exercised to show ourselves, give ourselves confidence, believe that they can do and can say, every exercise will give you the courage to start the next time, plus your own continuous summary and accumulation.
Second: You must have content to attract others to listen in social situations and some workplaces, and you must always make others gain or resonate in the process of listening to you.
Thirdly, it is quite important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when speaking. Some people speak quite quickly, as if they were popping beans, and often after she finished speaking, no one else reflected what she said.
If you speak slower and louder, you will find that people will listen to you more attentively, and they will feel that everything you say is said from the depths of your heart, after careful consideration, and people will think that you are responsible for what you say.
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Introverts are not without eloquence, they are often very able to speak, but they are afraid of communicating with others, afraid of that kind of public speaking, etc., which can only be achieved by constantly overcoming psychological barriers, participating in more social or school group activities, participating in public speaking, and working can also choose sales jobs based on interpersonal communication.
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With only 3 steps, the introverted personality can also be expressed from introverted and low-key to confident expression, and at the same time, you can also make an appointment to experience the offline course of Dalian Golden Collar for free, without the need to memorize the impromptu expression.
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How introverts can better exercise their eloquence.
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Practice your logical skills, read aloud, read more books, and talk to strangers.
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